I would guess that most hot guys in their 30s would prolly be players. I'd rather meet one who was hot looking, but not really looking if ya know what I mean. And then work up a relationship gradually.

If "too cool charlie" (or is it "too hot harry") comes on too fast, he is prolly coming on fast to most anybody as well (I don't mean this negatively toward you, but as a fact of guys). Then the issue is "how" or "can you" get past the BS and players persona to discover a real person and establish the basis for a relationship.

You feel like asking, "Hey dude, is there a real person in there?" And then, by the time you begin to figure out what this' about, he's "long gone larry". And then you get into the "all guys are jerks" mode...swear off guys for a few weeks, then begin again.

ps: Oops, I forgot....the title of this thread is "frustrated by boys." H'mmm, I wonder what age a boy grows up................??? I suppose its about the time he decides that "swallowing" is not a critical assett in his choice of a woman (this is in reference to another thread...haha.)

Amy, my guess is you are not as confused as you are aware and frustrated that you've "been there, done that" .

boys ughh
 

isn't it always not convinent for you but when the guy it needs to be right away

sorry this black thursday is making me miserable plus getting dissed for a formal.... what a great freaking day ARGHHH

Girls tend to be better organized socially Greek Letter Girl . . . So assume you can pull through for us an hour before our formals.