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SWTXBelle 06-20-2015 05:53 AM

It is amazing how many committed members did NOT get their first choice.

Benzgirl 06-20-2015 12:52 PM

bump

carnation 07-19-2015 06:51 PM

So important for PNMs!!!!

KSUViolet06 07-19-2015 10:01 PM

This is going to sound a little crazy (and full disclosure, I went through COR so this is not my personal experience) but:

Depending on the campus, at times I don't think PNMs fully see just how similar their first and second choice groups are.

This is particularly true of these SEC schools with BIG chapters. Very rarely is your #1 Phi Beta Popular and your #2 Sigma Phi Small Chapter.

Your experiences in your first and second choice as a member are likely more similar than you think.

carnation 07-25-2015 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 2318214)
It is amazing how many committed members did NOT get their first choice.

Also, there are so many committed members who got their first choice but it was their first choice left after they'd been heavily cut. Then they went on to be stellar members!

AGDCanada11 07-26-2015 02:06 PM

Bumping this one! :)

Benzgirl 07-26-2015 06:21 PM

bumpp

SWTXBelle 08-19-2015 10:55 AM

Bump.

ComradesTrue 04-16-2016 10:17 AM

I met someone recently who each day of recruitment ranked one particular sorority at the bottom of her list. Yet, the next day it was still there, along with other chapters that she (thought she) loved so much more. This continued through the entire week, and even after Pref it was still her least favorite group of those she visited.

Imagine her disappointment when she opened that card on Bid Day, and it wasn't the chapter she loved, but this one that she had been trying to drop all week. She gathered herself together and went to Bid Day, despite tears streaming down her face.

But... she stuck it out. Over time, she began to see that chapter in a different light. She began to see the heart of her sisters, the value in her international organization, and the woman that she was becoming, all thanks to this chapter.

Fast forward: this woman's membership in that organization was so meaningful that she is now a Greek Life advisor and has recently become involved in her city's Alumnae Panhellenic. The pride she has in her organization can not be hidden. She GLOWS when she meets other women who share her letters.

How her life would have been different if at any point along the way she had given up and quit.

It definitely gets better.

FSUZeta 04-16-2016 11:00 AM

Yes it does.

KSUViolet06 04-18-2016 09:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ComradesTrue (Post 2409148)
I met someone recently who each day of recruitment ranked one particular sorority at the bottom of her list. Yet, the next day it was still there, along with other chapters that she (thought she) loved so much more. This continued through the entire week, and even after Pref it was still her least favorite group of those she visited.

Imagine her disappointment when she opened that card on Bid Day, and it wasn't the chapter she loved, but this one that she had been trying to drop all week. She gathered herself together and went to Bid Day, despite tears streaming down her face.

But... she stuck it out. Over time, she began to see that chapter in a different light. She began to see the heart of her sisters, the value in her international organization, and the woman that she was becoming, all thanks to this chapter.

Fast forward: this woman's membership in that organization was so meaningful that she is now a Greek Life advisor and has recently become involved in her city's Alumnae Panhellenic. The pride she has in her organization can not be hidden. She GLOWS when she meets other women who share her letters.

How her life would have been different if at any point along the way she had given up and quit.

It definitely gets better.

I know SO many of those women!

Several of our consultants are women for whom Sigma was NOT their #1 choice.

als463 04-19-2016 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 2409279)
I know SO many of those women!

Several of our consultants are women for whom Sigma was NOT their #1 choice.

The truth is that I think we all know these women in every one of the 26 NPC organizations. Every single one of the 26 NPC organizations have merit and something to be proud of. I would like to see more people take advantage of the opportunities afforded to them through membership.

SWTXBelle 08-14-2016 06:03 PM

It is time for the bump.

Cheerio 08-26-2016 09:19 PM

And a bump from below...

SWTXBelle 06-11-2017 10:33 PM

Bumping . . .


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