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AGD1111 09-14-2011 01:54 PM

okay, so I've tried to read as much of this thread as I could, but I didn't quite find what I'm looking for. forgive me if the answer should be obvious, but it's been stated multiple times that dual membership in two NPCs is not allowed, but what about an NPC and a local? I recently transferred schools and there's no chapter of my NPC here. Is there anyway I could join the local sorority? I've been told I could because it's local, but I've also been told that in order to do so I would need to drop my NPC. I am not willing to do that. I just miss greek life.

summer_gphib 09-14-2011 02:05 PM

I *think* you can, but I would double check with AGD. If I remember correctly, in the DePauw DZ mess the girls that were given alumnae status started a local. Now whether or not they gave a damn what DZ thought after that whole debacle, who knows? (Not bashing DZ at all!)

MysticCat 09-14-2011 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by AGD1111 (Post 2091206)
okay, so I've tried to read as much of this thread as I could, but I didn't quite find what I'm looking for. forgive me if the answer should be obvious, but it's been stated multiple times that dual membership in two NPCs is not allowed, but what about an NPC and a local? I recently transferred schools and there's no chapter of my NPC here. Is there anyway I could join the local sorority? I've been told I could because it's local, but I've also been told that in order to do so I would need to drop my NPC. I am not willing to do that. I just miss greek life.

Since you are already in an NPC sorority, this question should first be addressed to appropriate people in your sorority (i.e., IHQ).

unarose 09-14-2011 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by AGD1111 (Post 2091206)
okay, so I've tried to read as much of this thread as I could, but I didn't quite find what I'm looking for. forgive me if the answer should be obvious, but it's been stated multiple times that dual membership in two NPCs is not allowed, but what about an NPC and a local? I recently transferred schools and there's no chapter of my NPC here. Is there anyway I could join the local sorority? I've been told I could because it's local, but I've also been told that in order to do so I would need to drop my NPC. I am not willing to do that. I just miss greek life.

I think MysticCat's advice is sound—and logically I would think the final verdict would be dependent on whether or not your current campus has any NPCs and if there are, whether or not the local you are considering is a member of the campus Panhellenic. (Someone let me know if I'm on the wrong track with that logic?)

AGD1111 09-16-2011 01:07 AM

I got my answer. So for anyone that goes through this in the future, dual membership in an NPC and a local IS allowed.

Pingyang 09-16-2011 01:15 AM

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Originally Posted by AGD1111 (Post 2091695)
I got my answer. So for anyone that goes through this in the future, dual membership in an NPC and a local IS allowed.

...in your situation. It seems like an awfully broad generalization to say it's true for all NPCs or all locals.


/lane swerve


I'm glad it seems to be working out for you.

AGD1111 09-16-2011 01:27 AM

that's true. I should've thought of that before I posted here. I would assume it's true for most, but I'm definitely not an authority on that. I would hope people just don't run into this issue. it's kind of stressful :\

maverickmagali 11-13-2011 04:05 PM

Does anyone know what the policy for someone who was initiated into an NPC GLO, transferred schools a week after initiating and would now like to become a member in an IFC GLO (it's coed) at their new university? The sorority she was initiated into is not present at the new school. Someone had said at one point that she might need to be desistered from the the sorority, but would that necessarily be true if it's NPC and IFC?

knight_shadow 11-13-2011 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by maverickmagali (Post 2106300)
Does anyone know what the policy for someone who was initiated into an NPC GLO, transferred schools a week after initiating and would now like to become a member in an IFC GLO (it's coed) at their new university? The sorority she was initiated into is not present at the new school. Someone had said at one point that she might need to be desistered from the the sorority, but would that necessarily be true if it's NPC and IFC?

You need to ask the IFC GLO.

Titchou 11-13-2011 04:37 PM

And there's no such thing as "desistering." One resigns one's membership.

Psi U MC Vito 11-14-2011 03:34 PM

Also you shouldn't be treating what ever the fraternity is as a consolation prize.

naraht 11-14-2011 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by maverickmagali (Post 2106300)
Does anyone know what the policy for someone who was initiated into an NPC GLO, transferred schools a week after initiating and would now like to become a member in an IFC GLO (it's coed) at their new university? The sorority she was initiated into is not present at the new school. Someone had said at one point that she might need to be desistered from the the sorority, but would that necessarily be true if it's NPC and IFC?

I know the original poster left it general, but isn't there only one member of the NIC which has co-ed chapters? (ADPhi)

knight_shadow 11-14-2011 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by naraht (Post 2106453)
I know the original poster left it general, but isn't there only one member of the NIC which has co-ed chapters? (ADPhi)

Looks like that's what this person is a member of:

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Originally Posted by maverickmagali (Post 2106293)
I'm a member of the Alpha Delta Phi Society!


MysticCat 11-14-2011 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by naraht (Post 2106453)
I know the original poster left it general, but isn't there only one member of the NIC which has co-ed chapters? (ADPhi)

Alpha Delta Phi Fraternity ("ADPhi") is all-male. Alpha Delta Phi Society, which split from ADPhi over the co-ed issue and which shares traditions with the fraternity, is co-ed. But I don't think the Society is a member of the NIC.

As Vito would tell you, Psi U has co-ed chapters. So does Delta Psi (aka St. Anthony Hall).

ETA: I checked the NIC website, and Alpha Delta Phi Society is not listed as a member. But note what maverickmagali said:
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Originally Posted by maverickmagali (Post 2106300)
. . . .but would that necessarily be true if it's NPC and IFC?

NIC and IFC are not the same thing. Fraternities that are not NIC members can and often are IFC members.

Psi U MC Vito 11-16-2011 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2106458)

As Vito would tell you, Psi U has co-ed chapters.

We actually had a chapter that for like a year the only member was a woman. We also have a chapter that intentionally always elects a women to serve on the IFC.

Kirain 12-05-2011 03:00 AM

I was wondering if anyone can help me. I am part of Delta Chi (social) and Phi Alpha Delta (prelaw professional).

In the past, I rushed for Delta Sigma Pi (business professional), I really liked them but I didn't get a bid. Does anyone know if I can be in all three fraternities if I successfully rush them?

Just fyi, I am a double major with background in both political science and economics.

jb1992 12-08-2012 03:53 PM

One of my sisters who I am very close to is considering dropping and pursuing another greek organization later. We are in a npc sorority and the organization she wants to join is a part of NALFO. I know there are rules against joining another npc sorority but is there a rule about joining another sorority in a different council? I want to convince her not to drop and I feel that I would be more successful if I had some facts to back me up.

33girl 12-09-2012 01:57 AM

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Originally Posted by jb1992 (Post 2192616)
One of my sisters who I am very close to is considering dropping and pursuing another greek organization later. We are in a npc sorority and the organization she wants to join is a part of NALFO. I know there are rules against joining another npc sorority but is there a rule about joining another sorority in a different council? I want to convince her not to drop and I feel that I would be more successful if I had some facts to back me up.

There may not be a written rule, but she should probably think very carefully before deciding to drop.

thetalady 12-09-2012 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by jb1992 (Post 2192616)
One of my sisters who I am very close to is considering dropping and pursuing another greek organization later. We are in a npc sorority and the organization she wants to join is a part of NALFO. I know there are rules against joining another npc sorority but is there a rule about joining another sorority in a different council? I want to convince her not to drop and I feel that I would be more successful if I had some facts to back me up.

That is a HUGE risk to take. It will really be up to the rules, written & unwritten, of the NALFO organization. As often advised here, if she drops, she needs to be prepared for the possibility that she will remain without a sorority for the rest of her collegiate career.

CUPrez 12-13-2012 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by 1908Revelations (Post 1439966)
One of my sorors is in a Christian Sorority.


ETA
Varies....Check with orgs in question

I wonder if it is ours Delta Psi Epsilon Christian Sorority, Inc. (http://www.deltapsiepsilon.com) We have every NPHC sorority represented in our sorority and a couple of NPC ones as well. It is about 1/3 of our membership.

AlwaysSAI 12-15-2012 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Kirain (Post 2110269)
I was wondering if anyone can help me. I am part of Delta Chi (social) and Phi Alpha Delta (prelaw professional).

In the past, I rushed for Delta Sigma Pi (business professional), I really liked them but I didn't get a bid. Does anyone know if I can be in all three fraternities if I successfully rush them?

The rules vary by organization, but usually as long as the fraternities are under different umbrellas it is within the regulations to be a member of all three.

I'm a member of Sigma Alpha Iota (music sorority), Phi Sigma Pi (Co-ed Fraternity), and Alpha Gamma Delta (general sorority). So, it has and can be done.

PADFSUGirl2K2 12-26-2012 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Kirain (Post 2110269)
I was wondering if anyone can help me. I am part of Delta Chi (social) and Phi Alpha Delta (prelaw professional).

In the past, I rushed for Delta Sigma Pi (business professional), I really liked them but I didn't get a bid. Does anyone know if I can be in all three fraternities if I successfully rush them?

Just fyi, I am a double major with background in both political science and economics.

See my siggy! It's very possible!

naraht 05-06-2013 03:21 PM

Membership in multiple Title IX exempt groups...
 
OK, for a Sorority which is a member of the NPC, is Sigma Alpha Iota the only national women-only collegiate Title IX exempt group that their members can belong to simultaneously? I know we've got NPC/SAI dual members here on Greekchat. Theoretically would a NPC/NPHC dual sorority membership be allowed?

Similarly for a Fraternity which is a member of the NIC, is Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia the *only* national men-only collegiate Title IX exempt group that their members can belong to simultaneously? Not sure if we have any NIC/PMA here on Greekchat. Theoretically would a NIC/NPHC dual fraternity membership be allowed? (and I'm excluding those groups that belong to both NIC & NPHC like Alpha Phi Alpha) (so if you have to pick an example: Alpha Tau Omega/Omega Psi Phi).

MysticCat 05-06-2013 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by naraht (Post 2215884)
OK, for a Sorority which is a member of the NPC, is Sigma Alpha Iota the only national women-only collegiate Title IX exempt group that their members can belong to simultaneously? I know we've got NPC/SAI dual members here on Greekchat. Theoretically would a NPC/NPHC dual sorority membership be allowed?

I know that members of both NPC and NPHC sororities have said in the past that dual memberships are prohibited. Where that might be written down, if it is, I couldn't tell you.

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Similarly for a Fraternity which is a member of the NIC, is Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia the *only* national men-only collegiate Title IX exempt group that their members can belong to simultaneously? Not sure if we have any NIC/PMA here on Greekchat. Theoretically would a NIC/NPHC dual fraternity membership be allowed? (and I'm excluding those groups that belong to both NIC & NPHC like Alpha Phi Alpha) (so if you have to pick an example: Alpha Tau Omega/Omega Psi Phi).
I can't say if we're the only group like you describe, but off the top of my head I can't think of another. That said, even though there is no national prohibition, dual memberships can still be prohibitied on some campuses where a Sinfonia chapter is an IFC member.

And I would note that Omega Psi Phi is the only NPHC fraternity that is not also in the NIC, so I think it's the only org for which your theoretical NIC/NPHC question could apply.

naraht 05-06-2013 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2215889)
I know that members of both NPC and NPHC sororities have said in the past that dual memberships are prohibited. Where that might be written down, if it is, I couldn't tell you.

I can't say if we're the only group like you describe, but off the top of my head I can't think of another. That said, even though there is no national prohibition, dual memberships can still be prohibitied on some campuses where a Sinfonia chapter is an IFC member.

And I would note that Omega Psi Phi is the only NPHC fraternity that is not also in the NIC, so I think it's the only org for which your theoretical NIC/NPHC question could apply.

Hmm. So Phi Mu Alpha/NIC dual ability varies by campus, that sort of surprises me; individual Phi Mu Alpha chapter decision, university rules, or something else?

I knew that 3 of the 5 NPHC Fraternities were in, but I thought it was either Phi Beta Sigma or Kappa Alpha Psi, not both. I was wrong.

MysticCat 05-06-2013 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by naraht (Post 2215890)
Hmm. So Phi Mu Alpha/NIC dual ability varies by campus, that sort of surprises me; individual Phi Mu Alpha chapter decision, university rules, or something else?

I don't have first-hand experience with it, so I stand to be corrected. But my understanding is that on many if not all campuses where our chapters are members of IFC, part of joining IFC is an agreement not to allow dual memberships with other IFC chapters -- in other words, to play by the same rules with regard to dual membership that other IFC fraternities play by.

Bear in mind that while many chapters do belong to IFCs, most of our chapters do not. (I don't have hard numbers, but my sense is that the chapters belonging to IFC tend to be on smaller campuses.) The decision to join a campus IFC is made by the chapter in consultation with national staff/officers based on what works best for the chapter.

Gamma Xi Phi 05-06-2013 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by naraht (Post 2215884)
Theoretically would a NPC/NPHC dual sorority membership be allowed?

....Theoretically would a NIC/NPHC dual fraternity membership be allowed?

Not usually. Most NPHC orgs have rules against that.

TSteven 05-06-2013 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by naraht (Post 2215890)
I knew that 3 of the 5 NPHC Fraternities were in, but I thought it was either Phi Beta Sigma or Kappa Alpha Psi, not both. I was wrong.

Iota Phi Theta is the forth NPHC fraternity that is also a member of the NIC. An interesting historical note is that Iota Phi Theta joined the NIC in 1985 - eleven years before they joined the NPHC in 1996.

naraht 05-06-2013 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2215891)
I don't have first-hand experience with it, so I stand to be corrected. But my understanding is that on many if not all campuses where our chapters are members of IFC, part of joining IFC is an agreement not to allow dual memberships with other IFC chapters -- in other words, to play by the same rules with regard to dual membership that other IFC fraternities play by.

Bear in mind that while many chapters do belong to IFCs, most of our chapters do not. (I don't have hard numbers, but my sense is that the chapters belonging to IFC tend to be on smaller campuses.) The decision to join a campus IFC is made by the chapter in consultation with national staff/officers based on what works best for the chapter.

I've seen Alpha Phi Omega (the co-ed service fraternity)l on a few cases get shoved onto the greek council, but as you said campuses with a small number of social greeks. The "if you pledge, you end up on the council" rule. However I've not seen any Alpha Phi Omega chapter where that has let to limitations on who can join.

naraht 05-06-2013 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by TSteven (Post 2215894)
Iota Phi Theta is the forth NPHC fraternity that is also a member of the NIC. An interesting historical note is that Iota Phi Theta joined the NIC in 1985 - eleven years before they joined the NPHC in 1996.

I was use of APhiA and IPhiTheta, it was ZPhiB and KAPsi I wasn't sure of...

The difference is that the NIC *had* rules on how a Fraternity would join it... :)

naraht 05-06-2013 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Gamma Xi Phi (Post 2215892)
Not usually. Most NPHC orgs have rules against that.

OK. If they do, that answers the question.

MysticCat 05-07-2013 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by naraht (Post 2215912)
I've seen Alpha Phi Omega (the co-ed service fraternity)l on a few cases get shoved onto the greek council, but as you said campuses with a small number of social greeks. The "if you pledge, you end up on the council" rule. However I've not seen any Alpha Phi Omega chapter where that has let to limitations on who can join.

Like I said, I don't have first-hand experience with it. It seems, though, like the difference could be that APO is a (co-ed) service fraternity, so requiring it to be part of IFC is really trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. In that case, it would make no sense to anyone to limit dual membership.

Phi Mu Alpha, on the other hand, is a social fraternity, albeit not a general fraternity like most other NIC/IFC fraternities and not a member of the NIC. While I think there are some instances of schools saying "you're a social fraternity, so you need to be in IFC," there are also instances of chapters deciding they want to be in IFC because it is a good fit for them.

naraht 05-07-2013 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2215963)
Like I said, I don't have first-hand experience with it. It seems, though, like the difference could be that APO is a (co-ed) service fraternity, so requiring it to be part of IFC is really trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. In that case, it would make no sense to anyone to limit dual membership.

Phi Mu Alpha, on the other hand, is a social fraternity, albeit not a general fraternity like most other NIC/IFC fraternities and not a member of the NIC. While I think there are some instances of schools saying "you're a social fraternity, so you need to be in IFC," there are also instances of chapters deciding they want to be in IFC because it is a good fit for them.

And my guess is that there are situations on the IFC where Phi Mu Alpha would be the only dual membership group to the entire rest of the council, but in the cases where Alpha Phi Omega ends up on the council, you've got the Social Fraternities, the Social Sororities, APO, KKY, TBS and probably others...

UniquePink 05-07-2013 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1440012)
For Delta the prohibition is only for another NPHC or NPC sorority. And in fact it says is now or ever have been--meaning if you denounced your previous sorority you still cannot join Delta.

Other social, service, professional, cultural, etc. --fine.

You have been the only person to answer this question.
The other threads become very intense lol

UniquePink 05-07-2013 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jb1992 (Post 2192616)
One of my sisters who I am very close to is considering dropping and pursuing another greek organization later. We are in a npc sorority and the organization she wants to join is a part of NALFO. I know there are rules against joining another npc sorority but is there a rule about joining another sorority in a different council? I want to convince her not to drop and I feel that I would be more successful if I had some facts to back me up.

I have actually known a couple of women to do that.
It is actually allowed (mostly)
Just wait the full calendar year and everything should be fine.

APOcalypz 05-10-2013 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by UniquePink (Post 2216071)
I have actually known a couple of women to do that.
It is actually allowed (mostly)
Just wait the full calendar year and everything should be fine.

What about people who join two NPHC orgs at different schools? *true story*

naraht 05-11-2013 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by APOcalypz (Post 2216495)
What about people who join two NPHC orgs at different schools? *true story*

*boggles*

GammaGirl1908 05-12-2013 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by naraht (Post 2216591)
*boggles*

For reals?! How did THAT happen? I can't believe no one Googled that girl.

And please note that I have a friend who is a member of an NPC sorority, but whose mother is a member of an NPHC. She said offhandedly to me one day in college, "Well, it's not like they REALLY cross-reference the lists. I'll just join [NPHC] grad chapter after college."

We now are over 15 years out of school, and she's never had the nerve to try, which I think is a wise choice in the age of technology.

pshsx1 05-12-2013 06:54 PM

Here's a problem we've run into:

A guy was a part of a newly recolonized chapter of XYZ at School A. He was expelled within a semester because he failed to pay the entirety of his dues and was never registered with XYZ headquarters, despite the fact that he went through initiation.

This guy then transfers to School B and attempts to begin the colonization process of ABC.

Both ABC & XYZ are a part of the NIC.

Now, because he was never a registered member of XYZ, is he allowed to be an ABC?

(in case you're just curious what happened to him, he's already been banned from being a member of ABC due to some other issues)

33girl 05-13-2013 12:38 AM

Technically, he's allowed since he is not a technical member of XYZ, but I think he would probably fail to be picked up by any other group under the Douchebag Rule.


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