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CarolinaCutie 02-15-2006 03:25 PM

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Originally posted by saetex
OU = University of OKLAHOMA.............what the hell is Oglethorpe??????

What is my role exactly champ? You have no idea what we do at UT...therefore you can't comment. Furthermore, when such minor things such as dressing alike or saying things in unison is considered hazing on many campuses....who the hell are you to say who souldn't be a chapter. Not being biased, but if you knew anything, SAE and FIJI at UT are two of the strongest chapters in the nation.

Oglethorpe University is in Georgia... the South?

saetex 02-15-2006 03:25 PM

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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
Your loyalty to your school and hometown would be heartwarming if you were part of a local fraternity.

You aren't therefore it isn't.

and I am glad that I am not. every male in my family was SAE...not gonna screw that one up.

saetex 02-15-2006 03:27 PM

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Originally posted by CarolinaCutie
Oglethorpe University is in Georgia... the South?
yes Georgia is in the South. I have never heard of that school...atleast I don't think. I made a reference to OU and that is what he though I meant.

CarolinaCutie 02-15-2006 03:28 PM

You know... Texas is barely even LIKE the rest of the South. Maybe that's why you've never heard of it?

mulattogyrl 02-15-2006 03:30 PM

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Originally posted by SigmaChiGuy
Know you're roll
This made me laugh. I miss The Rock. Carry on.

HotDamnImAPhiMu 02-15-2006 03:38 PM

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Originally posted by saetex
Actually we both used that in our respective posts....that were between us two. Nice try though sport. Im sorry that I used a common phrase and you don't like it. Perhaps i'll have you screen all of my posts.
Heee. I would've turned your last post into a pop discussion on Britney's baby seatbelt buckling habits, and everyone would've been impressed with the upswing in rational thought.

saetex 02-15-2006 03:43 PM

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Originally posted by CarolinaCutie
You know... Texas is barely even LIKE the rest of the South. Maybe that's why you've never heard of it?
Oh really? how is that? I have been all over the South and one of our vacation homes is in Sea Island, GA.....and I have never heard of Oglethorpe. Sorry?

If you are trying to say that I must not leave Texas much...you are wrong.

CarolinaCutie 02-15-2006 03:48 PM

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Originally posted by saetex
Oh really? how is that? I have been all over the South and one of our vacation homes is in Sea Island, GA.....and I have never heard of Oglethorpe. Sorry?

If you are trying to say that I must not leave Texas much...you are wrong.

No, I was not suggesting that you are not a nationwide traveler. But it's interesting, because I would not really consider Oklahoma to even be IN the South... so if I was thinking about OUs in the South, Oglethorpe would perhaps come to mind before OU. But Texas culture is a different thing than Southern culture, IMO. They have similarities but they are NOT the same. Anyway, enough with the hijack.

SigmaChiGuy 02-15-2006 03:50 PM

Please give me a history lesson. Do you know when/where your fraternity was founded? Can you tell me the meaning behind Minerva? Please post your stats. I will give you a reason why you're not the best, for every reason you tell me you are.

You can boast your fraternity all you want. Fiji is the best in the world, to a Fiji. Same with SX, Sig Ep and Beta.

Again, some 19 year old sophomore who is spooging in his pants about his chapter, holds no water with me.

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Originally posted by saetex
hey bud, you are the one causing all of this commotion. since SAE is considered the top fraternal organization in the nation....i would say that it exists outside of Texas. Texas Small? Theres a new one. SAE also thrives throughout the South and Southeast. Would you like a history lesson as well?

you can argue about my claim, rather than argue back, ill just tell you to go look it up.....statistics, established chapters, membership, wealth, whatever you choose.


shinerbock 02-15-2006 03:55 PM

This is getting fun.

For one, I'm from GA, and would never think that OU is Oglethorpe University. However, I actually watch college football, which is probably why we immediately thought Oklahoma, and Sigmachiguy was confused.

Now as to our friend Sigmachiguy, I dont really wanna get into his signature or whatever, he can think what he would like to, and personal attacks don't really disturb me. However, from what I ascertain from his posts, it seems that his ideal greek life is that which:

-Has no standards for bidding. Why shouldnt everyone get a bid, after all, we're not interested in being a traditional fraternity, just a microcosm of the campus.

-Allows pledges into their brotherhood without being tested. I'm sorry, but my house isn't open to everyone. We've worked hard to build it to what it is, and so have those who've come before us. Why now would we want to let any random person be initiated, without making them overcome obstacles. I've never advocated striking a pledge, or making them drink, etc...However, I don't see how lining them up and questioning them about their responsibilities in front of one another is a bad thing. Maybe you're not one who cares for responsibility and accountability, but we do here.

-Ignores the role of common ideals, religion, etc...when considering membership. I am not one who buys into the idea of diversity for diversity's sake. I like meeting people from other places, I like seeing how other people from all walks of life live, but that is not the role of a fraternity. I live here, these are my best friends, and we all share essential goals, faith, and interests. Most people wouldnt choose a roommate who is completely different from them, why would I want to fill my fraternity with such.

That being said, if that is what greek life is to you, I'm glad you found something you enjoy. I'll personally will stick to the south.

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RACooper 02-15-2006 03:55 PM

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Originally posted by saetex
1.) You have got to be kidding me with the closet homosexuals. God, what is your deal? They are not going to be in any top tier chapter in the South. Its not going to happen, whether you think so or not. Closet or not, they are going to be noticeable.


Well I think lifesaver refuted that one... besides I've been to Fraternity conferences that include 'top tier' chapters from way down south... guess what they had gay members...

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2.)Who the hell are you to question my Christianity? Frankly, calling someone a name does not make theam a racist or a bigot. What if someone were to tell a black joke....does that make them a f*cking racist???? NO...Why is that so hard for you to understand.



Hmmm... intersting, in that you consider the use of hateful and derogatory language to not be indicative of beliefs... yet you believe that a guy professing his desire to 'bang chicks' is indicative of his heterosexuality.

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3.) Having sex with a girl and having some fun with a pledge does not make me a hypocrite, just because I do not condone homosexuality based on christian values. How are they even on the same level? Are you serious? So I guess if I hit someone, but then criticized someone for them committing murder....i'd be a hypocrite in that both are sins? Furthermore, I don't remember hazing being in the Bible.



Well last I checked the Bible condemns adultery and fornication just as much as it does homosexual acts, so one should condemn both equally as well... unless of course on is only using his faith as a shield to hide his prejudice behind

Oh as for hazing or the mistreatment of other not being covered in the Bible - ponder this:
Mattew 25:40 "...Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me."

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4.) I am not a bigot, nor do I HATE anyone. I said a couple words....I didn't lynch them or try to reinstate Jim Crow or kill or beatup someone becasue they were gay. Calm the fu*k down.



I believed I covered your expression of hateful or prejudiced langauge as an indication of your true nature - afterall I'm only applying the same exacting standards you apply to others... and unfortunately they mark you as a bigot...

But if that's not enough - beating, lynching, or killing aren't the only ways to demonstrate your prejudices - just the most extreme. But as soon as you start using blanket derogatory statements, it's a pretty easy call to make that you do harbour prejudice beliefs.

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5.) Thanks for being the 233287239 peson to use the TG as some way to push your arguments. Come back to me when you are an SAE and you know what you are talking about.

233287239> Wow thats a lot of people that think that you aren't a gentleman... perhaps that might be an indication they're on to something huh?

HotDamnImAPhiMu 02-15-2006 04:01 PM

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Originally posted by SigmaChiGuy
Again, some 19 year old sophomore who is spooging in his pants about his chapter, holds no water with me.

AHAHAHAHA. So gross and so true.

shinerbock 02-15-2006 04:02 PM

I'd like to know what schools these top tier fraternities where from that claimed they had gay members. Not all southern greek life is the same. When people talk about traditional southern greek life, they're talking about Alabama, UGA, Ole Miss, Texas, Auburn, LSU, etc...They're not talking about FSU, UF, Miami, Georgia State, Duke...

OhioCentaur 02-15-2006 04:03 PM

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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
This entire discussion is based on speculation.

I speculate on what you would do if this was a different topic and you speculate on what you would do ((what you claim to tell your heterosexual brothers may or may not be delivered with the same judgment and enthusiasm on your part--it's still interesting that you mention sin is a sin but you give your heterosexual bros the "what if it was your sister" analogy and not a Scripture)).

I speculate on what your linebrothers would tell you and you speculate on what your linebrothers would tell you. I still find it highly unlikely that someone would open up their heart to you if they knew they'd get a sermon and a Bible beating. This does not mean that they would not, it means that the absence of a confession doesn't imply the absence of the attitude or behavior.

Thats just it. They wont get a sermon because to be really honest with you, if someone that close to me said they were homosexual i wouldnt even discuss the topic much more. Now if they asked what i thought about it i would give them the sermon on the mount (haha joke there) but i would feel so uncomfortable about the situation because unlike how you perceive me to be i know tha twould be a big deal and wouldnt want to dwell on it. And as far as aggressiveness toward those who are doin the hetero version of adultry i would come at them with scripture but very few of those who participate in that are of christian belief. What good does it do to throw scripture at someone who is unreceptive to it. If the gay person wasnt claiming to be chrisitian and i knew they werent into church i wouldnt hit them with scripture. You adapt to the playing field your on. You dont wear spikes to play on astroturf...

saetex 02-15-2006 04:06 PM

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Originally posted by SigmaChiGuy
Please give me a history lesson. Do you know when/where your fraternity was founded? Can you tell me the meaning behind Minerva? Please post your stats. I will give you a reason why you're not the best, for every reason you tell me you are.

You can boast your fraternity all you want. Fiji is the best in the world, to a Fiji. Same with SX, Sig Ep and Beta.

Again, some 19 year old sophomore who is spooging in his pants about his chapter, holds no water with me.

March 9, 1856 Black Warrior River....Tuscaloosa Alabama

Would you like to know about Minerva's Highway, or Minerva's shield?

Oh yeah, you are a fag...and if you are older than 25, which I assume you are because you have been a member since 2001....you are an even greater fag.


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