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are big-girl panties a thong or a g-string ? :p

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Originally posted by Diamond Delta
She doesn't need to do anything for you. You desire answers. There's a difference.

She HAS NOT told her husband anything. Therefore, there is not a problem.

Put on your big- girl panties and deal with it.

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Originally posted by 33girl
She pretty much said in her first post that she saw NOTHING wrong with sharing secrets of any sort with a spouse because they are "one." If she had said "some people believe married couples should share everything" and let it go at that, I don't think anyone would have gotten offended. But she took it a step further and affirmed that she lives her own life this way as well.

Yes, I did say this, as I am one of those who do believe that married couples CAN (not *should*) share everything without having that be considered as "breaching an oath". But I never said that you have to agree with that or advocate that....just that this is not an entirely unheard of perspective.

I'm not sure why pointing out that *I* have this view would "offend people" MORE than pointing out that *some people* have this view, as, regardless of my affiliation, I have never claimed to be taking an "official fraternity perspective" on this issue...at all.

I am posting the opinion of one who happens to be an Alpha Phi. Not posting Alpha Phi's opinion. So why this should "offend"....I don't know.

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Whether she's actually shared these things with her husband or not is not the point.

I think it is the point only inasmuchas some people went on the personal attack regarding something I have not done.

I also think it is unlikely to reach a consensus about this issue....

To me, it is a matter of the baseline argument. Because of my spiritual beliefs with regard to marriage, you are not likely to convince me to become angry or hostile toward a sister who discloses information to her husband.....

But, even when I don't agree, I find it helpful when others explain the place from which they are coming in order to gain an understanding of their thinking on any given issue.

I am fine to agree to disagree....and don't feel the need to attack anyone's personal views in order to do that.

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Originally posted by Lovely_gurl
...I think I will stop posting now just to keep the peace.

Broken promises.

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Originally posted by Senusret I
Broken promises.

LMAO.
No offense, lovely_gurl, but that is kinda funny.

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Originally posted by James
are big-girl panties a thong or a g-string ? :p

Can I show you later? ;)

Um....yeah....actually I also found that funny myself....as I already drew attention to that in this post here:

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Originally posted by Lovely_gurl
Has anyone else noticed that I said I would stop posting like 12 posts ago???

Sorry....I guess I am becoming a Greekchat addict!!!! And I don't want anyone to think I am unwilling to answer questions or go through the gauntlet!

However, I fear by the end of this thread I am likely to be a SENIOR MEMBER! haha!:D

Re: Re: Addicted...

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Originally posted by Lovely_gurl
Um....yeah....actually I also found that funny myself....as I already drew attention to that in this post here:

But I'm Senusret I...... :confused:

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Originally posted by Senusret I
Broken promises.

If you break one promise, what's stopping you from breaking more? ;)

Re: Re: Re: Addicted...

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Originally posted by Senusret I
But I'm Senusret I...... :confused:

Yeah...I still don't know how to quote two different posts....I was thinking you would know I was responding to your broken promises comment. And I was pointing out that I had already drawn attention to this on page 6 of the thread.
:)

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Originally posted by Munchkin03
If you break one promise, what's stopping you from breaking more? ;)

*giggles* though I know you would enjoy it....I'm not biting on this one.

;)

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Originally posted by Lovely_gurl
Yeah...I still don't know how to quote two different posts....I was thinking you would know I was responding to your broken promises comment. And I was pointing out that I had already drawn attention to this on page 6 of the thread.
:)

Actually, I realized all of that....."But I'm Senusret I" was meant for people who've been around GC longer than a few posts.

To be honest, I haven't been reading all of your posts....don't really care much to after the few that I've read.

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Originally posted by Senusret I
Actually, I realized all of that....."But I'm Senusret I" was meant for people who've been around GC longer than a few posts.

To be honest, I haven't been reading all of your posts....don't really care much to after the few that I've read.

But you ARE Senusret I. Teee heeee heeee har har.

Miss, er Mrs. Lovely, I think you should really keep that promise now.

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Originally posted by Senusret I
To be honest, I haven't been reading all of your posts....don't really care much to after the few that I've read.

Yeah...I'm sort of getting tired of reading all my own posts as well....but I am going to need a 12-step program to stop!!!! :D

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Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine

Miss Lovely, I think you should really keep that promise now.

Though I find it disheartening to be asked to shush because of a dissenting viewpoint, if it is really causing that much strife, I indeed will stop. *shrugs*

Did not think it was harming anyone and really have tried to phrase my opinions and responses in a very non-offensive manner.

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Originally posted by Diamond Delta
Just to put a differnt spin on the topic.....many rituals have changed. What if I discuss something in the ritual that is no longer there? Is that still breaking an oath? I haven't done this of course, but I think it does preent an interesting question.

That is an interesting question. Here's how I look at it: SAI's ritual has certainly changed over the past 100 years. The women who went through any old ritual are still keeping their oath of secrecy, and I should honor the oath that they took. Just because it was a different ritual than mine doesn't mean it should be made public.