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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
(Post 1525206)
But, see, what we are saying is your little brother needs to be involved in activities "relevant to the Black community".
If he wants to be a part of the NPHC, go where the Black folks go. The reality is, if you or your brother are not attending HBCU's, then you won't see us a PWI because our numbers are not vast at a 50K student population.
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Originally Posted by tld221
(Post 1536925)
is it really that cut and dry (on the bolded)? (im trying to come up with supporting argument, but really thats all i got right now) when i decided i wanted to be part of greek life, i went where i knew greeks would be. when i decided i wanted to be part of NPHC, i went where they would be. i dunno, i jus kinda read your statement as "at PWIs if you go where the black folks go, youre bound to find some NPHCers." which was SO not the case 9:10 times. but hey im jus one person.
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I don't know how your campus operates. Campi have similarities and differences. Generally speaking, getting a college degree in some major will have some basic similarities. Generally speaking, a college individually will have differences and that includes greek life and school's office. If you come to the university where I work, the Greek Life Office would be totally unable to tell you ANYTHING about the NPHC. The NPHC and the affiliates are considered as "clubs" rather than fraternities and sororities, irregardless what we do in the community.
With the current numbers of AfAm kids attending PWI's, it may be more than in 1970, but the number is still paltry. And most kids who are of African descent do NOT have parents or grandparents that were a part of the civil rights generation... Some kids never knew there were such things as Sororities and Fraternities, much less ours. So, it is a level of self-discovery. We have EXPECTATIONS for interested and potential new members but these PNM could care less about what our expectations are. We do not actively "recruit" and to even have competitive numbers of members like the traditional greeks or the HBCU's have, then how are we to say "if one really wants to be a member, one could" these days?
Kids these days do not know who WE are and WE expect them to know these things about us. WE tell them to do their "research", but what these interests and potential members are telling US is that WE are turning them off.
But see, would these PMN's ask that of a "Bill Gates" and demand "what Microsoft is and how is Windows???"
Help me understand why is it "okay" to question OUR existence and intent--especially when many of us are 100 years old?
You may be different, but even if you graduated in 2000, a PWI's campus is structurally different in 2007. That is the nature of most universities.
Hayle, I just walked around my campus, NUNNA OUR kids even looked me in my eye, nor smiled or nodded. That is a huge disconnect from my generation... Most kids starting school were born in 1988... I graduated from college in 1990... So, I have a totally different purview.