:eek: I can't believe she would tell you that. With all the secrecy surrounding how new members are chosen telling you something like that is just tactless, rude, and likely violating sorority policy. Yikes.

She apparently was very upset about the matter resulting in her disaffiliation a year later. I think that right there is a sign that things are going down.

I "got" to hear what my sister's chapter said about me after they cut me. My sister had just graduated but still had several friends in the chapter, of course. I heard they didn't think I "would be a very enthusiastic member." Me, who has never stopped being involved since pledging in 1984. Anyway, I wasn't devastated and really think it would not have been the right place for me. I'm not NEARLY bitchy enough to have been one of them.:eek:

I'm glad I got to know because to me, even then, it told me they were clueless.

Well, I suppose we need to look over this before Bid Days start, even though I hope we won't need it.