Oh damn . . . :)

James, are you following me all over GC?:p

but of course, GC Virtual stalking . . . .

LOL! I guess that it is a good thing that I didn't give you my number! ;)

the plot thickens
 

So I met Matt's (the guy discussed earlier that I need to cut loose officially--though officially we are not a couple anyway...) coworker for drinks tonight-- supposedly to talk to him about doing some freelance copywriting for him. I was, for the reocrd, drinking sprite only....

OK, so we sit down and he tells me he's gonna email me a contact tomorrow of someone looking for someone to write freelance copy...

And then the next 2 hours proceed to be all friendly--we order appetizers and talk-- I mean he's asking me about my life, my family, we talked about movies and our mutual passion for them, it was a lot of fun, but... felt very date-y...

Found out he lived in Italy during his 20s playing professional soccer, we talked about things we are passionate about, etc...

Then we leave and he says "I'll walk you home." (I only lived a block and a half away) so we walk and I am cold so he puts his arm out for me to take and we walk and talk and get to my place and I'm all "This is me" And he seemed suprised that I was leaving him at my walkway and he goes to kiss me and I sorta turned my head and it half hit my mouth, half my cheek...

I mean at this point I am wondering WTF is going on-- when I met him the first time, not only was I the date of his coworker, but he was with a woman himself--who I thought was his girlfriend...??

So he said he'd call me tomorrow...and that we should get together again soon....???

OK, he is HOT HOT HOT, OMG he is hot, totally my type physically.. and he is smart and funny and athletic and ambitious and sensitive--all GOOD things...

Was this a DATE?

OMG if it was, I thought it was a meeting and could not have looked scruffier in my jeans and turtleneck and ponytail and very little makeup! ha ha

I am confused!!! Any guesses as to what just happened there oh fellow gc-ers?

:)
Amy

I think that regardless of what you want to call it he is interested in you! Time to find out if that girl he was with was his girlfriend and figure out if you're ready to cut the other guy loose officially. Sounds like fun!

Wait...I'm confused! Is the guy who lived in Italy the one you wanted to cut loose? When did Matt exit the scene and te "Hot" guy enter??? Or, is the "friend" now the "hottie"!!! I got up at 4 and only 1 cup of coffee so forgive me if tis is clear o everyone else.

Update
 

So, I am no longer frustrated by boys. I had a WONDERFUL time last night--great conversation, lots of laughs, lots of compliments(sidebar--guys, if the girl looks pretty when you pick her up and you can tell her without sounding fake, DO IT!! You will make her year) and just a great night. I am a very happy girl this morning!
Amycat--GO FOR IT!! The guy sounds VERY into you, so give it a try. And if he is HOT HOT HOT, even better(sorry, that sounds very shallow but oh well!). Thanks everyone!

hee hee Matt is the one I need to cut loose.
HOT HOT HOT is his co worker who I met at their company Christmas party when he was with a date...

:)

AOPiLala-- YAY! Good dates are so awesome--nothing feels quite like a great evening out with someone you're into!

amycat412-Thanks...I don't know where I lost the connection, but got it now!

AOPiLaLa-guys, if the girl looks pretty when you pick her up and you can tell her without sounding fake, DO IT!!
So true!
Glad you had a great time! Keep us in the loop! I love new romances.

Amy-
I don't think it was a date, I think you met a guy that likes you. Did you kiss him back??

Re: Update
 

So anything new?

Yeah, I can't wait to hear about the next encounter with HOT HOT HOT. I think that he definitely must be HOT for you, and he sounds like a real catch, too.

AOpiLALA, I am so glad that you had a good experience the other night! Yeah! :D

- Carrie

OK.. Hmm.. so...

The hottie that I met for those ambiguous is this a meeting is this a date drinks...

Didn't hear from him forever, so thought that settled that.

Then called me Monday at work, I answer the phone he's all "Hi Gorgeous"

Then I get a Happy V-Day email today...


I am confused and frankly, thinking I just need to not think about it, thinking he must have a girlfriend...

sorry that boys always seem to be so dumb. and it seems to never fail to be around the same time as the holidays .... grrrrrrrrrrrrr:mad: