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dnall 04-14-2011 11:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 2046907)
IF YOU DO NOT DEVELOP YOUR PEOPLE THE WAY I THINK IS BEST YOU ARE FAILING. FAILING SIR.

I SAID GOOD DAY.

LOL!

Sorry all, edited to add the example after your posts. My bad.

sigmadiva 04-14-2011 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06 (Post 2046887)
I say everyone ignore everything dnall says, no matter what thread we're in. Maybe he'll go away...

I thought about this after I posted. ;)

DrPhil 04-14-2011 11:17 PM

DNALL WINS.

DeltaBetaBaby 04-14-2011 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2046897)
And yeah DBB, I totally want to set him up on a date with the chapter consultant who bemoaned our "casual" dress (when it rains or snows 6.8 days out of 7, I'm not going to class in silk dress pants and $200 flats).

They can head over to the U of I Greek Week, and clutch their pearls in shock when they realize nobody shows up. Yes, that's right, the biggest greek system in the country doesn't give a shit about greek week*. Can you believe that? They have an ATO chapter that doesn't do stuff like show up to greek week! It's almost as though the greek systems on different campuses have different priorities!

*This may have changed in the last decade, I suppose, but while I was in school, NOBODY showed up to greek week events unless they were IFC/PHC officers. I didn't even go when I was chapter president.

LatinaAlumna 04-14-2011 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by dnall (Post 2046815)
The kid asked a question... his chapter is 20 something plus pledges while the others are all 50-60 plus pledges, is there anything to be concerned about. So, yeah, the whole conversation is disadvantages of small chapters and why that's a motivation to grow.

No, you PERSONALLY perceive having a smaller chapter to be a disadvantage and a concern. Again, just because YOU think it is cause for concern doesn't mean that his chapter feels the same way. No amount of faulty statistics or faulty logic that you spew is going to change that.




...and yes, Dnall is indeed "THAT GUY"--probably within his fraternity, at the workplace, at the bar, etc.

dnall 04-15-2011 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by LatinaAlumna (Post 2046938)
No, you PERSONALLY perceive having a smaller chapter to be a disadvantage and a concern. Again, just because YOU think it is cause for concern doesn't mean that his chapter feels the same way. No amount of faulty statistics or faulty logic that you spew is going to change that.

Okay.

I explained some common sense disadvantages to small chapters. It's all common sense and very straight forward.

The response so far, other than personal attacks, has been:

First, your small chapter is/was in your personal view perfectly fine - very few of those being NIC orgs. That applies to all campus situations just as poorly as any complaint against the stuff I said. Both are to some extent generalizations. If we're only going to comment on things that involve our own campus and council then there's not going to be much conversation around here.

And second, that it's a broad generalization to assume small chapters are in any way less capable (despite less money/manpower) than large orgs. That in itself relies on a broad generalization that members in larger chapters are by default less dedicated or involved than peers in smaller chapters. Having seen all ends of that spectrum, I would strongly dispute that.

At minimum, none of that is any better than any logic I used.

If you disagree with my opinion, that's your prerogative. You're free to state your own opinions and the OP can decide for himself. Unless you think it's better if we always all agree and tell everyone they're perfectly fine no matter what their situation or there's some very narrow circumstance under which they'd be okay so all cases like that are okay regardless of circumstance. I think it's probably better to have some diverse opinions though. Keeps things just a little bit less boring.

MysticCat 04-15-2011 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by dnall (Post 2046815)
Most NIC orgs and a lot of IFCs require fraternities to maintain a min number or they're in danger of being closed down. I don't know about TKE or that university, but most places I've seen it, that the number is 20.

To a national headquarters, all chapters cost about the same (transport cost of the traveling consultant being variable - and this guy is in Hawaii) . . . .

The OP (who seems to have disappeared) never said he's a TKE. He didn't identify his fraternity, nor did he say where he is. Are you maybe confusing him with HawaiiTKE, who posted questions about expanding Greek life at his school around the same time as the OP posted this question?

dnall 04-15-2011 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2046999)
The OP (who seems to have disappeared) never said he's a TKE. He didn't identify his fraternity, nor did he say where he is. Are you maybe confusing him with HawaiiTKE, who posted questions about expanding Greek life at his school around the same time as the OP posted this question?

You're right. Thanks for pointing that out. My bad.

The OP does however say 23 actives plus 12 pledges & he's still a pledge as of very recently (someone crossed in winter? quarter system maybe?), while other chapters appeared to be 50-60.

So, yeah maybe he's wrong and average chapters are in their 30s where he's at. Maybe his national and school don't have any rules about low member levels. Maybe his school doesn't have a lot of rules about how they can do socials and very little enforcement, so they can get away with murder on the way cheap. If all that's true then, while I still think it's dangerous and not good for the chapter, then might be okay.

That said, I still stand by all the stuff I said about super small chapters. It's not a good thing. There is too much risk of it falling apart, and not enough resources or capability to reach the potential of your members.

I've clearly said orgs can be too large as well, and that the right number range for a happy medium is a wide expansive gray area definable by the particular campus. But, don't let any of that be an excuse by the chapter to say they're super exclusive and are small because they want to be. That's virtually always denial.

33girl 04-15-2011 04:18 PM

23 people plus 12 pledges (that makes 35) is not "super small" if the other groups are 50-60. 8 members and 2 pledges would be super small in that environment.

This chapter is obviously not averse to growing or they wouldn't have taken 12 freakin' pledges. For them to take more than that at once at their present size would be crazy - unless the current members are completely burnt out, don't want to do anything and are quite willing to have someone initiate on Friday and be elected president on Sunday.

Abitworried 04-15-2011 04:38 PM

Wow, I didn't expect my thread to spark such a huge debate. Anyway, our pledge class went down to 10. One dropped because his girlfriend didn't approve of the idea and the other for family issues. I am in a NIC fraternity for those that are wondering.

The quality of my fraternity is excellent. Although we are not quite as large as others our participation from actives, alumni, and pledges is phenomenal. Currently, we're in first place in points for greek week, one of our brothers placed in the top 5 for some Sorority's model competition, and as a group we've already lowered our dues by doing a fundraiser event. Also, I'm pretty sure our numbers will naturally go up next year considering only about 2-3 actives are graduating after our Spring quarter.

So far I'm enjoying being in this fraternity and the quality of the brothers far outweigh how many people there are.

ASTalumna06 04-15-2011 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Abitworried (Post 2047159)
Wow, I didn't expect my thread to spark such a huge debate. Anyway, our pledge class went down to 10. One dropped because his girlfriend didn't approve of the idea and the other for family issues. I am in a NIC fraternity for those that are wondering.

The quality of my fraternity is excellent. Although we are not quite as large as others our participation from actives, alumni, and pledges is phenomenal. Currently, we're in first place in points for greek week, one of our brothers placed in the top 5 for some Sorority's model competition, and as a group we've already lowered our dues by doing a fundraiser event. Also, I'm pretty sure our numbers will naturally go up next year considering only about 2-3 actives are graduating after our Spring quarter.

So far I'm enjoying being in this fraternity and the quality of the brothers far outweigh how many people there are.

And here, my friends, is what really matters.

Go out and enjoy your new brotherhood. It sounds like you're having a great time already!

dnall 04-15-2011 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Abitworried (Post 2047159)
Wow, I didn't expect my thread to spark such a huge debate. Anyway, our pledge class went down to 10. One dropped because his girlfriend didn't approve of the idea and the other for family issues. I am in a NIC fraternity for those that are wondering.

The quality of my fraternity is excellent. Although we are not quite as large as others our participation from actives, alumni, and pledges is phenomenal. Currently, we're in first place in points for greek week, one of our brothers placed in the top 5 for some Sorority's model competition, and as a group we've already lowered our dues by doing a fundraiser event. Also, I'm pretty sure our numbers will naturally go up next year considering only about 2-3 actives are graduating after our Spring quarter.

So far I'm enjoying being in this fraternity and the quality of the brothers far outweigh how many people there are.

Good. I'm glad for you. It's awesome that you found the place where you fit best and that the chapter is motivated and trying to do good things.

You're still a relatively small chapter. You're at 33 counting pledges, minus how ever many are graduating/leaving, so probably 25ish coming back into Fall rush.

I don't think it's necessary to ask you what your active dues are, but being a small chapter means you're going to have very limited money/manpower. That puts some major limitations on the good things you're able to accomplish. Everyone wants freedom from those kind of restrictions so they can achieve bigger better things. I don't think I'm telling you anything you don't know when I say you want to grow your chapter.

My advice on how to do that is year round out of the box recruiting. Make friends with the non-greek leaders and quality guys on campus. Send your guys (esp younger ones) home over summer with a mission of making friends with at least one guy from their high school that's coming to school there. It's not about rush at this point, it's just about making friends. Come orientation and the beginning of school, get those new friends around the chapter and express how much it means to you. Your older guys will be better at selling them on going greek and your org in particular. You'll get better at that with practice.

When fall rush comes around, you should have around 50% of what you normally take already locked up. Just hold onto them while you run your normal rush and you'll end up pulling 125-150% of what you normally do. And, those will be quality guys that fit will with your chapter.

With your numbers up just a little bit, you're going to see you have exponentially more resources to accomplish all the things you want, the chapter will stay closer to the high you're on now rather than have big up and down swings, and you'll have some breathing room so that everything doesn't always have to be perfect for it to work.

Right now though, you're a pledge. I'm glad you're thinking about the long term and believe in your fraternity, but for a little while longer you need to just stay motivated and focused on the things they're trying to teach you. Hold your pledge class together and get to the other side. You'll understand a lot more when you've seen your initiation, and when you get to see how the chapter really works as an active. It's likely different than you think now from your perspective, but that's not necessarily a bad thing.

Good luck!!

ASTalumna06 04-15-2011 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by dnall (Post 2047173)
Good. I'm glad for you. It's awesome that you found the place where you fit best and that the chapter is motivated and trying to do good things.

You're still a relatively small chapter. You're at 33 counting pledges, minus how ever many are graduating/leaving, so probably 25ish coming back into Fall rush.

I don't think it's necessary to ask you what your active dues are, but being a small chapter means you're going to have very limited money/manpower. That puts some major limitations on the good things you're able to accomplish. Everyone wants freedom from those kind of restrictions so they can achieve bigger better things. I don't think I'm telling you anything you don't know when I say you want to grow your chapter.

My advice on how to do that is year round out of the box recruiting. Make friends with the non-greek leaders and quality guys on campus. Send your guys (esp younger ones) home over summer with a mission of making friends with at least one guy from their high school that's coming to school there. It's not about rush at this point, it's just about making friends. Come orientation and the beginning of school, get those new friends around the chapter and express how much it means to you. Your older guys will be better at selling them on going greek and your org in particular. You'll get better at that with practice.

When fall rush comes around, you should have around 50% of what you normally take already locked up. Just hold onto them while you run your normal rush and you'll end up pulling 125-150% of what you normally do. And, those will be quality guys that fit will with your chapter.

With your numbers up just a little bit, you're going to see you have exponentially more resources to accomplish all the things you want, the chapter will stay closer to the high you're on now rather than have big up and down swings, and you'll have some breathing room so that everything doesn't always have to be perfect for it to work.

Right now though, you're a pledge. I'm glad you're thinking about the long term and believe in your fraternity, but for a little while longer you need to just stay motivated and focused on the things they're trying to teach you. Hold your pledge class together and get to the other side. You'll understand a lot more when you've seen your initiation, and when you get to see how the chapter really works as an active. It's likely different than you think now from your perspective, but that's not necessarily a bad thing.

Good luck!!

Oh my God. Just stop. I think he already saw everything else you posted in this thread, and he very subtly told you that you're wrong.

Move along.

MysticCat 04-15-2011 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by dnall (Post 2047173)
You're still a relatively small chapter. You're at 33 counting pledges, minus how ever many are graduating/leaving, so probably 25ish coming back into Fall rush.

He said they only have 2-3 brothers graduating, so that would be more like 30 coming back in the Fall. He also that the chapter "isn't quite as large as the other chapters," which seems to be a little different from the impression he said he got from rush, where he "thought" most chapters hovered around the 50-60 range.

Abitworried, glad you're enjoying your experience and your new fraternity so much!

dnall 04-15-2011 09:02 PM

Seriously. I'm saying nothing negative to the kid at all.

I said situation X = disadvantages Y. This should motivate you to recruit your ass off to reach situation X+whatever. I'm EXTREMELY confident his chapter, and probably he, agrees with that position.

And just in case you're curious:

http://thefraternityadvisor.com/12-r...rnity-to-grow/

http://thefraternityadvisor.com/10-s...9s-rush-sucks/

http://www.ato.org/AlphaTauOmega/dow...cruitment.aspx

http://www.amazon.com/gp/offer-listi...&condition=new


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