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Wonderful topic.....
I crossed over into Delta-Land while an undergraduate. But my journey was unique--My school Private HBCU did not have a chapter. So a few of us went on a quest (LOL) to find out how we could become the first greek letter chapter on the campus and DST was the ONLY WAY. The journey was hard, exhaustive and fulfilling all at the same time. We belonged to a social organization on our campus that was being advised by a soror. She helped us along the way. IT took more than a year of introductions and proving ourselves to one of the local college campuses. We did alot of work and preparation before even being considered for regional initiation. After the regional conference we came back to campus and worked hard to charter a chapter. It still has not happened.....but the seed was planted!! What I find interesting; after also pledging a few lines undergraduate and graduate...you can see the interests who have Delta in their heart!! There is something very sincere about them --- and you can tell that they are determined to make their dream a reality. I will continue to welcome new sorors (undergraduate and graduate) who will work for Delta and remain true to her goals. P.S. Is anyone working with Project ACE in their chapter? |
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Thank you love, I appreciate it. If I am blessed and do become a member of an organization, you will be the first on GC to know about it! LOL |
I did not pursue membership this year, but I have in the past, so here it goes......
I've been interested in Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated since before I got to college. I did a lot of research and found that the sorority's ideals and goals largely matched with mine. I respected the women who fought for a future they probably realized wouldn't come in their lifetimes...but they fought. They fought for ME! I also liked what DST was doing in the present tense- from the Summits to the Thrusts, I was enamored with the idea of becoming a member. And then there were the campus programs--fantastic! I expressed my interest and was fortunate enough to be given "the time of day." However, for personal "such is life" reasons I was not able to become a member. Missing out on that opportunity was tough, DEFINITELY! I mean it hurt...Bad! By the time I had graduated college, I had a 3.6 GPA, and degree in hand, had awesome experiences including receiving one of the top leadership awards at my school, teaching a couple of classes, leading an organization on campus as president, and securing a full-time job. I did service in my community because I wanted to serve. I focused on having a good GPA because it reflected on me. I sought after opportunities for ME and not necessarily to prepare myself for an ogranization (even though I always knew I wanted to pursue). Now that I am out of college, my interest is still as strong as it ever has been! I'm just continuing to do what I love...serving others and getting better at being me. If my goal is to work hard just so I can get into DST, what will happen if/when I finally reach my goal and am invited into the sisterhood? I want to work hard because there is WORK to be done. So, I keep pressing on.... ~Pretty Young Thing For Christ (that's me!) |
I love this thread! It is such an inspiration to see so many success stories and the stories of persistence also. I knew nothing of BGLOs before I started college as neither of my parents went to a university. I started my collegiate experience at one school and I was impressed at a particular sorority's involvement on campus. I went to many programs, not because I was seeking membership but because I was genuinely interested in what they were talking about. Once I started thinking about joining a BGLO I knew that this organization was the only one for me. Unfortunately I wasn't as focused as I should have been while at that school and I was an out of state student so tuition was killing me. I had to take a semester off and I switched schools.
Now I am at an HBCU, whereas I was at an PWI before so I have seen both sides. I'm not sure I see as much involvement of my desired organization here as I did there, but I think the difference is that it was more... important for lack of a better word at the PWI. Now I have Drastically improved my GPA, gotten involved in a radio reading service on campus and I also plan to join the student government. This organization is still the only one that is in my heart, as I have studied the history and it speaks to me, and so I pray that when next spring comes I will have finally reached my highest potential and will be able to join the ranks of the best!! Thanks again sisterfriends for support and inspiration :) |
I believe that this is a wonderful thread and it will truly help me in my journey into XYZ organization. I attended rush and unfortunately recieved a rejection letter in undergrad. I have graduated with a gpa above a 3.5 and am involved in my community. I know that those things alone are still not enough. So I continue to pray and wait for my time to come, while also improving other aspects of my life.
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Wow! I love this thread!
Wow, I cannot believe that I did not reply to this back in 2001 when I was a wannabe! :)
I joined DST via an alumnae chapter. In undergrad I attended events, volunteered with the chapter and went to rush but I did not submit an application. Although I think a "collegiate" experience would have been great, I would not change an ounce of my journey to DeltaLand. After graduating college in 1998, Delta was still very much in my heart. I went to grad school and learned as much as I could about the chapter in my area. I continued to support their events and meet people in the chapter. Fortunately I did not have friends who were getting membership while I was still waiting. I made many friends online via Greek Chat and Deltanet (one of which is my LS...Salience, I miss you!) I would say, if Delta is truly in your heart, yourwill continue to pursue membership until you have it. I wanted to be a Delta since my senior year of high school it took from 1994 to 2002 for my dream to become reality. I would also say, be able to truthfully answer why you want to be a Delta. It is important to know the 22 founders and the history of the organization, but it is more important to know why Delta is in your heart. If you reasons are material and/or artificial, then you need to begin soul searching before pursuing membership. Good Luck! |
I became a member of DST via an undergraduate chapter. It was an experience that I will never forget. I must say that since I crossed into Deltaland just a few short months ago, my life has not been the same.
Like many people, my best friend (well my used to be best friend) and I were going to attend rush together. Unfortunately, my friend did not keep on top of her priorities that semester and her GPA fell a a little bit short of being a 2.5 We were devastated that we would not become Deltas at the same time. I can tell that my friend is greatly hurt by the fact that I am a Delta and she is not. She hardly ever talks to me now. I would like to let all SFs know that if it is meant for you to become a Delta, it will happen; just continue to be you and helping hand to your community. |
Hello Ladies,
I am a new member of the forum, but I’ve been reading the posts and this is one I felt more inclined to comment on. I’m a transfer student attending skool in the fall and I am really interested in joining XYZ org. I’m working on my community service and my grades are up to par. I’ve met and attended functions with ladies of XYZ before they became members, but I may not have made a good impression…I was young minded and there were other things I felt was more important at the time. Well, its 3 years later, and I’ve done a complete 180, and some of the ladies are still in skool. I was wondering if anybody though that could be a bad thing for me, even though it happened a few years back? Back to the topic at hand I’ve never been rejected by XYZ (b/c I haven’t applied), but I do know about rejection. One thing I keep in mind is that rejection is like a brick wall—it isn’t there to tear you down or scare you, but it’s there to see how bad you want what’s on the other side. I’m the kind of person who strongly believes “If it’s something I want, I will get it” (not to sound arrogant). Because I am a child of God and I’m in his favor, I am willing to do what it is to get what I want. If you don’t think this way about yourself, who else will? Another thing that helps me is the Serenity prayer: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. And always remember Proverbs 3:5-6: Trust in the Lord with all your heart…and He will direct your paths. If it’s meant for you, TRUST and BELIEVE, you’ll get it!! PEAAACCCEEEE!!!! JazzE |
A. Did you apply for membership during your college years?
Yes, once. I originally attended an HBCU where the chapter was on probation and later suspended. I transferred two years later b/c my department lost accreditation. The chapter at my new school had a line the second semester I was there and I submitted even though I didn't expect to make it due to the fact I had not been there very long. I just wanted to put myself out there because since the 8th grade my interest NEVER waivered. I still did a lot of service with the chapter and the community and focused on my academics. I became really close friends with chapter members who...six years later...were there for me EVERY step of the way... B. While waiting for the chance to join, what did you do in the meantime? I knew if and when it was my time, God would have me in place. I kept doing service on my own, focused on my career goals, and went to grad school. While in graduate school working on my master's, I ended up working with a young lady at the university who was a member of the local alumnae chapter and I participated and volunteered in a lot of the chapter's events while doing my service and working hard at school on my own. This connected me with a lot of young women in the chapter I would later be initiated along with my 14 other LS':D. C. While others around you were becoming members, how did you stay focused on the mission of joining the sisterhood that you felt lead to pursue? I was very happy for them...and two of my closest elementary school friends that crossed at my undergrad school was always positive and supportive of me as I was to them. When I did cross on 4/28/07...the love I got from them and that chapter (as well as my own) still makes me tear up now... To ALL BGLO Sorority members, what advice would you give those who were not chosen this year for membership? When it is your season, EVERYTHING will fall into place. So, just do your part to make sure you are ready (community service/gpa/etc.) because everyone does not get a second opportunity. As CT4 stated, sometimes a denial IS a delay. Don't be discouraged by a no and if a no makes you decide to try to join another organization then it wasn't for you anyway. True character shines in the midst of adversity...so what will you do? |
^^^ I am sure the Deltas are not asking you to memorize anything.
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I am so excited to find this topic after reading tons of other topics that I thought were going to be helpful that ended up being bash-fests. While I haven't had all the life experiences you guys talk about, I am a member of a youth sorority and can relate to a lot of what you are talking about, though I'm sure on a much smaller scale. I tried to join my sorority 3 times, the first I missed the meeting b/c of bad info, and the second I didn't complete my forms right. And when I saw the girls on that second line with their pins and jackets, I believe a part of my heart broke. Not because I really had the org in my heart then, but because I felt like I had been robbed. In the months between when they crossed and when I crossed, I grew an appreciation, not only for my sorority, but for all GLOs, especially the D9.
I learned so much about true sisterhood and what sororities are truly about. I know God planned for this to happen in my life the way it did because I’m truly a new person now after that experience and crossing. I would have joined because my friends were doing it and because my sisters(I didn’t use the word we normally use because it seems to upset people on this forum :confused:;)) are the “it girls” in our town, but now I can honesty say that I know the meaning of sisterhood and that my heart and my soul belongs to my org and hopefully, there will be room in the heart of ABC/XYZ (I’m practicing discretion :D)for me, because there is certainly more than enough room in mine for them. Your stories of perseverance are so inspiring to me. Thank you all and God bless! |
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