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I have to add, one of the smartest men I ever dated didn't have a degree yet when I was dating him (and he was in his late 30s then). He'd been career Army and had started his degree. When he retired from the Army, he went back and finished it up. He was articulate regarding a wide variety of subjects. However, that's what is more important to me. I need to be able to have real conversations about a variety of topics as well as someone who never stops learning. That man could kick my butt at Scrabble I tell ya.
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http://www.uncg.edu/phi/Revisions%20...osophy.html#_3 The fact is that in the modern economy, virtually no one can hack it just by holding a four year degree. This applies doubly so to those who hold degrees in the liberal arts. However, if you possess the traits that typically come with the attainment of a degree like that -- the abilities to quickly synthesize, interpret, communicate, and critically think -- then you're almost destined to make money anywhere. |
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As long as she's not needy, then I wouldn't really have a problem. I hate needy chicks.
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Neediness/clingy behavior.
Or any behavior that says to me that you might become needy/clingy down the road. Example: If we went out on a date, the date was over at 10:30, and I had like 15 texts and 3 voicemails from you by the time I get home at 11:15, I will assume that you are needy/a clinger and there won't be a date #2. |
Other things that tell me you might be a clinger and we don't need to go on any further dates:
*Getting upset if I don't return your calls right away. Example: if you call me while i'm at work, and I don't return your call until after 5, and the first words out of your mouth are "I called you three hours ago, why didn't you call me back?" (in a serious way and not being funny/sarcastic) there will be no more dates. *If you mutter any words such as "when we move in together..." or "when we have kids..." there will be no subsequent dates. *Requesting to be "In A Relationship" with me on FB when we have been on one date and maybe have known each other for a few weeks. *Getting defensive if we see someone I know while out and I say hi to them. Ex: I saw a HS classmate (guy) out while on a date and said hello to him. He is gay and was with his partner so he clearly wasn't hitting on me. We chatted for maybe a minute (I was even polite and introduced everyone), and once he was gone, Date said defensively "who was that guy?" I told him that I knew him from HS. Date asked "what if I talked to a girl I knew on a date?" I told him he was being ridic. He got out his phone and started texting girls. I ended that one early because he was just too clingy/passive aggressive for me to continue going out with him. |
What do you even say on a first date? That won't sound like a job interview? Advisable to go to a place where both of you will be distracted ei)movies, concert
or in a quieter place ei) park, museum? |
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Don't go on a date where you both be distracted. LOL. What's the point of a date if you are distracted? Go where you will both have fun with the atmosphere and with each other. |
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That one was pretty bad. To top it off, he called me like a week later. When I didn't pick up, he left me some long rambling message wondering why I hadn't returned his emails or answered the phone.
Ummm...if you actually have to ASK why I am no longer interested in you, I feel really badly for you. |
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