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Kevin 05-07-2006 08:42 PM

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Originally posted by bows&toes
I havent read this whole thread but just to address the title...

I realize why GLOs & schools have to renounce "hazing", its a liability thing. But hazing is a double-edged sword, without it, greek chapters go downhill...the quality of guy in a fraternity that doesnt haze compared to one that does is very evident. If you didnt have to work your ass off to EARN those letters, you will never respect it as you should, and you will most likely be a slapdick active that doesnt do anything. There is a reason the millitary trains to "break you down" then build you up, its the same concept.
I think our respective HQ's recognize that, that's why we have all of this new national programming stuff, e.g., Sigma Nu's LEAD, Sig Ep's "Balanced Man," etc. I gather that our HQ's are trying to give us an option. Whether or not it's a superior option is up to each chapter. Of course, if they're caught hazing, the HQ's have to deal with them pretty harshly.

LPIDelta 05-07-2006 08:42 PM

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Originally posted by macallan25
I would think The activity would have to be taken into account.
Unfortunately the courts and the press aren't that forgiving....

ilikehazing 05-07-2006 10:07 PM

Balanced Man and True Gentlemen are the worst programs ever.

exlurker 05-07-2006 10:57 PM

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Originally posted by ilikehazing
You are arguing quality?

The richest houses, with the most social activities, with the strongest reputation of being the top tier have always been in the south. I could name off the top houses in the nation, all in the south.

Phi Gam at UT-Austin, KA at Bama, The Fabulous Xi Chapter of Kappa Sig at Arkansas or LSU, SAE at Auburn, Sigma Chi at LSU and Arkansas (maybe.), Pike at.... well I guess Florida State if they are actually good anywhere, it is the biggest fraternity house in the nation. Beta's better than normal at Florida. Apparently they're better than average at Baylor too. I could probably go on and on.

Interesting evaluations. After I read that, I wondered if there happen to be any "top houses," in your estimation, at any private universities? Or maybe at any universities that are in the top 50 of U.S. News and World Report's 2006 listing of "America's Best Colleges and Universities"? I see that U. of Texas - Austin is #52 for U.S. News, Baylor is #78, Auburn is #85, Bama is #104, Florida State is #109, and then LSU and Arkansas are simply ranked as "third tier."

Now I have nothing against major state universities. Students can get excellent educations there. But I'm just wondering -- does it seem that students going to some private universities (or some very competitive public ones) are at a disadvantage if they want to be in a truly "top house"?

If so, I guess it's too bad -- all that work to get high SATs or have outstanding talents, to have lots of activities, to do well in interviews, and (at privates) to be prepared to pay tuition, fees, room and board ranging from the mid - $30,000 area to well over $40,000 -- and still not even have a chance at being in a "top house."
I guess it's a choice some students and their families have to make. Just hope they know what they're doing.

LPIDelta 05-07-2006 11:04 PM

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Originally posted by ilikehazing
Balanced Man and True Gentlemen are the worst programs ever.
Why?

bows&toes 05-07-2006 11:39 PM

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Originally posted by Heather17
Why?
are you joking?

macallan25 05-08-2006 12:02 AM

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Originally posted by Heather17
Unfortunately the courts and the press aren't that forgiving....
You are making an argument out of an unknown situation....you can't just say, "oh, well, if a kid dies of heart failure from overexertion then you and all of your brothers are going to be sued and lose all of your money." I assume both of you are talking about law suits. Its really idiotic to even say something like that and not take into account the situation, setting, parents feelings, etc.

ilikehazing 05-08-2006 12:05 AM

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Now I have nothing against major state universities. Students can get excellent educations there. But I'm just wondering -- does it seem that students going to some private universities (or some very competitive public ones) are at a disadvantage if they want to be in a truly "top house"?
Well sure. Though I do believe schools like Washington and Lee which has an excellent greek system but has no top houses, is a private school. I would seriously consider Kappa at W&L one of the best in the nation. It is impossible to have top fraternity at private schools because of several factors. Money, Time, Social "Prowess" if you will. The only top house that I could possibly see coming out of a private fraternity would be DKE at Yale. However, DKE at Bama is one of the top DKE houses in the nation. It's disputed obviously.

macallan25 05-08-2006 12:08 AM

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Originally posted by exlurker
Interesting evaluations. After I read that, I wondered if there happen to be any "top houses," in your estimation, at any private universities? Or maybe at any universities that are in the top 50 of U.S. News and World Report's 2006 listing of "America's Best Colleges and Universities"? I see that U. of Texas - Austin is #52 for U.S. News, Baylor is #78, Auburn is #85, Bama is #104, Florida State is #109, and then LSU and Arkansas are simply ranked as "third tier."

Now I have nothing against major state universities. Students can get excellent educations there. But I'm just wondering -- does it seem that students going to some private universities (or some very competitive public ones) are at a disadvantage if they want to be in a truly "top house"?

If so, I guess it's too bad -- all that work to get high SATs or have outstanding talents, to have lots of activities, to do well in interviews, and (at privates) to be prepared to pay tuition, fees, room and board ranging from the mid - $30,000 area to well over $40,000 -- and still not even have a chance at being in a "top house."
I guess it's a choice some students and their families have to make. Just hope they know what they're doing.

UT is a very competitive public university and is considered a "public ivy." I wouldn't put it in a list of normal public schools. It is extremely competitive and equally hard to get into...and also is ranked in the top 20 in just about every graduate school category public or private.

To answer your question though......yeah, I think it would put you at a disadvantage....allthough there are very good chapters at private schools as well.

macallan25 05-08-2006 12:10 AM

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Originally posted by ilikehazing
Balanced Man and True Gentlemen are the worst programs ever.
I am an SAE and I honestly don't know of very many chapters that really go by the TG Initiative.

LPIDelta 05-08-2006 09:21 AM

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Originally posted by bows&toes
are you joking?
No--if someone is going to make blanket statements like that, I think they should back it up with information.

LPIDelta 05-08-2006 09:23 AM

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Originally posted by ilikehazing
. It is impossible to have top fraternity at private schools because of several factors.
You do realize that Baylor, one of the "top" schools you listed, is private, right?

LPIDelta 05-08-2006 09:35 AM

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Originally posted by macallan25
You are making an argument out of an unknown situation....you can't just say, "oh, well, if a kid dies of heart failure from overexertion then you and all of your brothers are going to be sued and lose all of your money." I assume both of you are talking about law suits. Its really idiotic to even say something like that and not take into account the situation, setting, parents feelings, etc.
Idiotic as you may find it--national officers and volunteers are in the "business" of protecting the organization from liability. They probably aren't going to spend much time trying to justify why something happened, but be more concerned that it did. And counting on grieving parents to care about what action is taken against a chapter is a gamble I wouldn't want to take. In my research, the courts have shown favor toward national organizations that act swiftly in cases involving injury or death, usually closing the chapter so that there is one less entity to sue or find liable.

Its not that you absolutely will get sued--its that it could happen. And that is what national organizations are trying to prevent--so yes, you may find the rules and definitions extreme, but they are in place at the advice of lawyers and others in order to protect our organizations and our members. The additional benefit is that they also encourage our organizations to adopt programs that will help our members and chapters develop.

bows&toes 05-08-2006 03:37 PM

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Originally posted by Heather17
You do realize that Baylor, one of the "top" schools you listed, is private, right?

Its a "top school" with a horrible greek system.

Tom Earp 05-08-2006 03:54 PM

Why is Baylor such a poor Greek School.

Seems that they have a lot of GLOs there.

DeltAlum 05-08-2006 03:59 PM

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Originally posted by macallan25
who gives a flying s**t what an insurance company thinks about a chapter.
You should. That's why your dues are so high -- the large percentage of them go for insurance.

Do the math.

Tom Earp 05-08-2006 04:18 PM

DeltAlum, is that really true?;)

Well, some get and some dont!:(

Oh, try laws that make GLO Houses put in Sprinkler systems which will break many Chapters.:(

Granted, they are needed, but lets take it easy.

That is why it is called Risk Management isnt it? The Risk and Cost.:confused:

bows&toes 05-08-2006 05:20 PM

Lots of reasons, one of them being that they dont have houses @ baylor.

macallan25 05-08-2006 07:54 PM

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Originally posted by Heather17
You do realize that Baylor, one of the "top" schools you listed, is private, right?

wasn't exlurker the one that posted all of those schools.

macallan25 05-08-2006 08:03 PM

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Originally posted by DeltAlum
You should. That's why your dues are so high -- the large percentage of them go for insurance.

Do the math.


I understand that perfectly....allthough I am really not that concerned with dues because I don't pay them personally. I made the comment because I really don't think an insurance company has that much of a bearing on the national reputation of a chapter. Insurance companies are going to do what they want when it comes to the business of them making money.

macallan25 05-08-2006 08:11 PM

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Originally posted by Tom Earp
Why is Baylor such a poor Greek School.

Seems that they have a lot of GLOs there.

Waco is a horrible town, with horrible athletics, no houses, and the university is ridiculously strict because of its Baptist affiliation.

ZTAMich 05-08-2006 08:30 PM

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Originally posted by macallan25
Waco is a horrible town, with horrible athletics, no houses, and the university is ridiculously strict because of its Baptist affiliation.
I think tho that everyone going to Baylor knows what they are getting into when they apply & accept. My sister is on her way there this fall.

LPIDelta 05-08-2006 10:08 PM

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Originally posted by ilikehazing
Apparently they're better than average at Baylor too. I could probably go on and on.
He then went on to say:

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Originally posted by ilikehazing
It is impossible to have top fraternity at private schools because of several factors.

bows&toes 05-08-2006 10:24 PM

Heather quit trying to grab for straws, you know what the man is trying to say.

macallan25 05-08-2006 10:37 PM

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Originally posted by Heather17
He then went on to say:
He said the Beta chapter at Baylor was better than average.....he didn't say it was one of the Tops in the country. Don't be an idiot and try to make something out of nothing.

LPIDelta 05-08-2006 10:45 PM

No...sincerely...I have no idea what he is trying to get at because he does not consistently back up posts with facts or information.

Since I live in Texas--I am curious why someone would think that Baylor is not a good school. Is it because it ascribes to certain values and has what some would consider high expectations for its students' behavior?

Related, is the overall challenge with hazing that students don't understand Greek values or just don't want to be told what to do? Or is it because they don't see the liability or circumstances of their actions, and have not been taught to think through moral and ethical dilemmas? Is it because hazing is easier than the alternative?

macallan25 05-08-2006 11:05 PM

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Originally posted by Heather17
No...sincerely...I have no idea what he is trying to get at because he does not consistently back up posts with facts or information.

Since I live in Texas--I am curious why someone would think that Baylor is not a good school. Is it because it ascribes to certain values and has what some would consider high expectations for its students' behavior?

Related, is the overall challenge with hazing that students don't understand Greek values or just don't want to be told what to do? Or is it because they don't see the liability or circumstances of their actions, and have not been taught to think through moral and ethical dilemmas? Is it because hazing is easier than the alternative?

He never said Baylor wasn't a good school. He said the Greek Life wasn't good, which is true.

Again, your questions are asked with the connotation that hazing is negative, a liability, and not morally right. You have to consider the subject on a chapter by chapter basis. You can't just lump everyone in together and throw out a bunch of negatives concerning the act of hazing and pledge programs. Yes, some chapters and groups of individuals do very stupid things....but not all of them.....even the ones that will say that they haze and have a specific program for their pledges. The word hazing has become far too broad a term...one which is pretty much impossible to discuss rationally as far as i'm concerned.

LPIDelta 05-08-2006 11:45 PM

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Originally posted by macallan25
You have to consider the subject on a chapter by chapter basis.
How do you propose a national organization maintain different sets of standards or expectations for each chapter? Are you saying that we tell one chapter its ok to haze but we tell others that they can't because they aren't big, or southern, or in a house?

DeltAlum 05-08-2006 11:47 PM

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Originally posted by macallan25
allthough I am really not that concerned with dues because I don't pay them personally.
That may explain a lot.

A majority of fraternity men (about 60% in the last survey I saw) have jobs, and many struggle to pay their dues.

bows&toes 05-08-2006 11:59 PM

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Originally posted by Heather17
How do you propose a national organization maintain different sets of standards or expectations for each chapter? Are you saying that we tell one chapter its ok to haze but we tell others that they can't because they aren't big, or southern, or in a house?
I wish we didnt have nationals, what is their point? insurance??? all they do is take our money and try to tell us what to do...now I know that is not possible to just boycott our nationals, so I realize that they have to have a no hazing policy. How well they uphold that policy should be based on a chapter to chapter basis, depending on the situation.

DeltAlum 05-09-2006 12:18 AM

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Originally posted by bows&toes
I wish we didnt have nationals, what is their point? insurance??? all they do is take our money and try to tell us what to do...now I know that is not possible to just boycott our nationals, so I realize that they have to have a no hazing policy. How well they uphold that policy should be based on a chapter to chapter basis, depending on the situation.
I'm sorry, but that's an incredibly naive outlook.

macallan25 05-09-2006 12:31 AM

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Originally posted by Heather17
How do you propose a national organization maintain different sets of standards or expectations for each chapter? Are you saying that we tell one chapter its ok to haze but we tell others that they can't because they aren't big, or southern, or in a house?
No, you misunderstood what I was saying. I think you have to consider the subject of hazing from a situational standpoint. Not all chapters think of hazing like you and AGDee do. Not all chapters try to make hazing negative and immoral.

macallan25 05-09-2006 12:37 AM

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Originally posted by DeltAlum
That may explain a lot.

A majority of fraternity men (about 60% in the last survey I saw) have jobs, and many struggle to pay their dues.


What does that explain? I'm sorry, but I don't think nor have I ever thought that very strong chapters with good reputations garner those titles because of what an insurance company thinks about them.

When people talk about FIJI at Texas or KA at Alabama or Phi Delt at Ole Miss.......they don't say, "Oh they're great chapters because their insurance company says so." or "They must be really strong because their insurance is low."

Whether or not I have to pay for my dues is besides the point.

LPIDelta 05-09-2006 12:38 AM

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Originally posted by macallan25
No, you misunderstood what I was saying. I think you have to consider the subject of hazing from a situational standpoint. Not all chapters think of hazing like you and AGDee do. Not all chapters try to make hazing negative and immoral.
My point is--chapters don't make the rules. Chapter leaders have a duty to follow the rules and ensure their members do as well. It doesn't matter if your chapter thinks its ok to haze--there are rules, and therefore, you are putting your chapter's longevity in jeopardy if you choose not to follow them.

I don't make the policies or decide what is moral or negative--I educate people about the policies so that they will, hopefully, chose to follow them.

macallan25 05-09-2006 12:50 AM

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Originally posted by Heather17
My point is--chapters don't make the rules. Chapter leaders have a duty to follow the rules and ensure their members do as well. It doesn't matter if your chapter thinks its ok to haze--there are rules, and therefore, you are putting your chapter's longevity in jeopardy if you choose not to follow them.

I don't make the policies or decide what is moral or negative--I educate people about the policies so that they will, hopefully, chose to follow them.

YOU HAVE TO CONSIDER WHAT IT IS THAT IS BEING DONE.

....you can't just tell everyone that they are putting their chapter in jeopardy until you know what it is that is being done.

LPIDelta 05-09-2006 01:16 AM

Alabama's Definition
 
Again, I don't make the rules--I just follow them. If activities fit the definition of hazing, then, it is technically, putting a chapter in jeopardy.

Since Bama was brought up, what follows is the definition from The University of Alabama. It is fairly extensive, probably for liability reasons:

Hazing Is

[B]Hazing includes any act which inflicts extreme physical, emotional, or psychological pressure or injury on an individual or which purposely demeans, degrades, or disgraces an individual. Though most commonly associated with sororities and fraternities, hazing can occur in any academic, social, service, military, or athletic organization. All national sororities and fraternities have regulations strictly prohibiting hazing...In the State of Alabama, individuals committing acts of hazing can be charged with a Class C misdemeanor and can be subject to both criminal and civil prosecution. Additionally, an individual or organization participating in a hazing or knowingly permitting hazing forfeits entitlement to public funds, scholarships, awards, and grants.

The University of Alabama Hazing Policy

The University of Alabama does not condone any form of hazing, and students involved in hazing incidents are subject to University disciplinary sanctions. The University has accepted and approved the following anti-hazing policy:

Hazing, as defined by Section 16-1-23, Code of Alabama (1975), and such Section as may be amended from time to time.

Additionally, for the purpose of this Code, hazing shall include any mental or physical requirement or obligation placed upon a person by a member of an organization, individual or a group of individuals, which could cause discomfort, pain, or injury including, but not limited to, striking, laying open hand upon, treating with violence or offering to do bodily harm to a person with intent to punish or injure the individual, or other treatment of a tyrannical, abusive, shameful, insulting, or humiliating nature.

Hazing is an action taken or situation created, whether on or off University premises, to produce mental or physical discomfort, embarrassment, harassment, or ridicule. Hazing is also considered to be the creation of a situation, which results in or might result in mental or physical discomfort, embarrassment, harassment, or ridicule, including involuntary servitude, often called “personal favors.” Both individuals and organizations may be held accountable for such activity.

This statement prepared by the Fraternity Executive Association further clarifies this policy:

Hazing is defined as any action taken or situation created intentional, whether on or off fraternity premises to produce mental or physical discomfort, embarrassment, harassment or ridicule. Such activities and situations include paddling in any form, creation of excessive fatigue, physical and psychological shock; quests, treasure hunts, scavenger hunts, road trips or any other such activities carried on outside the confined of the house; wearing publicly apparel which is conspicuous and not normally in good taste; engaging in public stunts and buffoonery; morally degrading or humiliating games and activities; late work sessions which interfere with scholastic activities; and any other activities which are not consistent with fraternal law, ritual or policy or the regulations and policies of the educational institution.

The Interfraternity Council maintains an anti-hazing policy as part of the organizations constitution and by-laws; and the Panhellenic Association supports National Panhellenic Conference unanimous agreements concerning hazing. Upon notification of an alleged incident, the Office of Dean of the Dean of students instigates an investigation based on information received and Current University policy.

macallan25 05-09-2006 01:24 AM

Was it really necessary to post Alabama's hazing by-laws. I'm sure ours at Texas says the same thing. Haven't read it in a while, probobly does.

Again, you have to consider what is being done.

DeltAlum 05-09-2006 09:28 AM

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Originally posted by macallan25
....you can't just tell everyone that they are putting their chapter in jeopardy until you know what it is that is being done.
If you are breaking the rules of your organization, the mandates of your college/university, or local or state laws, it doesn't make any difference what is being done.

If you are doing something to void your insurance coverage, it doesn't make any difference what is being done.

Fair or not, that's the way it is.

utealum 05-09-2006 01:37 PM

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Originally posted by macallan25
Was it really necessary to post Alabama's hazing by-laws. I'm sure ours at Texas says the same thing. Haven't read it in a while, probobly does.

Again, you have to consider what is being done.

I suppose in law school they will teach you that ignorance of the law is no excuse?

shinerbock 05-09-2006 02:23 PM

First, it isn't naive not to appreciate nationals. When we go to convention, our officers from the big southern chapters are the ones they ask to speak in all the sessions. So basically, we pay to teach everyone else what to do. Most national officers are people who weren't in good chapters, and therefore really have nothing to pull from in helping other chapters around the country. Secondly, nationals does treat different chapters differently. Our national org constantly looks the other way regarding things we do, and we generally ignore what they do. We don't follow the changes in terminology, or the PC'ing of our fraternity literature. We don't have a regional advisor, which I assume is due to the fact that they really just don't wanna know. It works for them, it works for us.


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