I would just like to say that I totally agree with you. I am a Zeta from Mich. state by the way! I was just reading the replies you got back from this post and I thought that they were sort of mean. I understand about Kate Spade, but I don't think that there is a single girl in my house that does not own one of her pieces or at the VERy least know of the line! So don't feel like you stand alone on this subject! Also, not to be rude, but Kate Spade is known as a world-wide corporation and I have actually purchased a little black bag in Toronto! I mean, just because it may not be as popular, I am sure that any one even slightly interested in haute couture would be familiar with this name. So, please don't take offense to this post anyone! I PROMISE I am not shallow, just adding to ZTAmizzou's message! (What chapter are you from?)

Hmm, I did not intend to offend, antagonize or violate your beliefs . . . http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

But . . . I do stand with my mouth agape. I would think that aesthetically Ben Foster is pretty much American average. Cute would be a good description. He is not physically developed to any degree. Or like your Calvin Klein models mentioned in other posts.

I probably just have add this to my "Things I don't understand about women list."

Well, I never go without my silver chain with my silver Pi Sigma Epsilon lavaliere that my "mom" gave me at initiation, plus the Sigma Alpha Mu (Sammys)lavaliere that my bf gave me that I put in the same chain. =)

Your virginity! http://www.plauder-smilies.de/lach.gif

ladies, don't front you know that there are some things that aren't so glam that sorority girls (especially AKA sorors) really need, like...
1. a white suit
2. some white pumps
3. a planner
4. voice mail that holds alot of messages
5. suits
6. a cell phone

Lets not forget:
lots of patience
love
understanding
independence
support
ambition
flexability
and above all faith in the creator

I am not a sorority sister yet, but I have my own list of necessities that I cannot do without: They are as follows, and is not shallow, or whatever:

1. My black Prada Classic Backpack
2. Bath and body works "Sweeet Pea and Country Apple Anything"
3. Anything Express
4. My Samsung Touchpoint 1100 Phone
5. My 2 way pager
6. Chapstick
7. Johnson & Johnson Acne Face wash.

To everyone, call it how you want to, different people are accustomed to certain things and don't hate that some pople are just able to buy certain things for themselves without a man or parents to help them. Lets hear it for all the independant women out there who works and takes care of themselves!!!! Yeay!!!!!!

every sorority's girls neccessities, very good post....lets see hmmm....

1. the Celly, with the phat face plate
2. Sorority pants( u know the black express or limited boot cut pants)
3.Lip Gloss(Bonnie Bell Lip Shaker,anything with a scent, thats gooey)
4.Diamond stud earrings
5. Get u pumped cd mix for the car ride there
6.Duh your ID http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
7. definetly some gumm to make sure your breath is fresh and so clean clean
8. Perfume : Curve, Candies, Tommy or CK
9.A mini hair brush with you , to fix the hair when on the road or where ever
10. Favorite jewerly and my favorite guess watch
11. Teddy Bear
12.Tons and tons of pictures

All I need in life is...
*a mall
*tiffany jewelry
*my diamond earrings
*my adorable red civic coupe
AND...
MY PHI SIG SISTERS!
"once a phi sig, always a phi sig"

YOU MUST HAVE
1)cell phone-don't know where the party is unless they can contact u
2)car-u can cruise around in ur SORORITY BUMPER STICKER and do PR!
3)credit card-daddy pays for everything(DPHIE)
4)Beanie BABIES-nice lil collection
5)ID-can't get in to clubs unless ur of age

Ok, here is my list:
1)Black Kate Spade Claire Bag
2)Wallet w/ID and credit card
3)black "movie star" sunglasses
4)black slut pants
5)cute michael stars or other tank top to go with the pants
6)strappy sandals in the summer, boots in the winter
7)DARK DENIM JEANS!
8)ironed oxford shirts
9)strand of pearls & pearl studs
10) Tiffany heart tag bracelet & Paloma heart ring (both college-related presents from my parents)
11)cell phone
12)a sweet boy!!!
13)self-confidence and a SMILE (this one is the most important)
14) MAC makeup and Nars orgasm blush
15) perfume - lancome miracle or Chanel Allure
16) watch
17) cheesy teenybopper music (nsync, britney)to sing along to!!!
18) some great, loving supportive friends
19) my contacts
20) a gym membership (and that great after-workout adrenaline rush)
21) a lifetime supply of diet coke and starbucks nonfat lattes
22) A place to get a cheap, pretty french manicure (mine are $15!!!)

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1.Black Prada Purse
2.Nokia Cell Phone w/ pretty PINK cover
3.Black Pants-bootcut
4.cute fuzzy turtleneck-ribbed (for us midwest gals...)
5.Diamond Earings
6.gold lavalier http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
7.A good man
8.Sunglasses-the ones that go from dark blue on the top to purple in the bottom
9.Lux car, with cd!

and of course, love, patience, and soul



[This message has been edited by PhiStar (edited May 25, 2001).]

OTW you actually replied to something that made sense! :O Let me add a little more of NECESSITIES:

1. Your virginity.
2. If not, some birth control pills.
3. Condoms.
4. A cell phone.
5. Sobriety.
6. If not, a good sober friend.
7. Some kind of concealed weapon
8. If not, some pepper spray.
9. Self defense lessons.
10. Bringing your own drinks to a party.
11. A car in good working order.
12. A lawyer.
13. Your clothes.
14. An extra pair of clothes, it is not all that uncommon for someone to spill beer on you.
15. Breath mints.
16. A BIBLE!!!

Black slut pants! What the fuss are those?

How about...
a gym
personal trainer and nutritionist
unlimited use of spas(hello?facials)
my own seats for the hottest concerts in town
a tanning machine at home
nice sound system for my car
personality tests
JOICO K-PAK conditioner and hair wax! gotta have nice bouncy hair with the sunroof open
Really nice picture frames to frame your sorority pics
A nice tiffany set lavalier and ring
Thats bout it!