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Rudey 04-22-2006 11:39 AM

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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
Haha. Yeah, that was me too, at 20.

You're right, the rules WERE laid down very early in your relationship - AT SEVENTEEN!

Life just kinda tends to happen to you - the early 20s/colllege years, especially. You can control a lot, but not everything - and I think from personal experience, the less pressure you put on yourself to be ONE certain thing (a virgin, a good student, etc) as though it defines you, the better.

Being a virgin or a good student are both great things. But they seem to work better as the RESULT of just trying to live life well, vs. as the end result itself.

You were a virgin at 20? Guys like virgins younger than that because they've got more pep and less wrinkles.

-Rudey

HotDamnImAPhiMu 04-22-2006 11:44 AM

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Originally posted by Rudey
You were a virgin at 20? Guys like virgins younger than that because they've got more pep and less wrinkles.

-Rudey


Well, the fact that I chain smoked Virginia Slims and insisted everybody call me "Aunt Marge" probably didn't help, either.

Rudey 04-22-2006 11:50 AM

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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
Well, the fact that I chain smoked Virginia Slims and insisted everybody call me "Aunt Marge" probably didn't help, either.
You're my Aunt Marge?

-Rudey

HotDamnImAPhiMu 04-22-2006 12:02 PM

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Originally posted by Rudey
You're my Aunt Marge?

-Rudey

Get your Aunt Marge a cigarette, honey.

Rudey 04-22-2006 04:40 PM

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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
Get your Aunt Marge a cigarette, honey.
Haha Marge remember that time I caught you making out with the butch cab driver? hahahhaha

-Rudey

Jestor 05-11-2006 08:19 PM

Hell, I'll toss my two cents in.

I'm 26 (be 27 next month) and have only ever kissed two girls and had any sort of intimate experience with one and yes, I preserved my V-card.

Why, you ask?

I could say that it's a matter of lack of opportunity, but that's not really accurate. It's more like the types of girls I tend to be interested in are usually not available to begin with and furthermore have lots of guys swarming around them.

That being said, I'd also like to point out that girls in turn haven't expressed interest in me, probably because I project an intimidating/aloof aura that only the most self-confident and self-assured girls are at ease with, which falls into the same problem as above.

Getting to the question of the OP though, maybe some of my situation plays into the scenario of the girl in question. Sure, I'd wonder why she hasn't done more and certainly ask, but by no means would it be a dealbreaker. In fact, I'd be even more intrigued, in point of fact, but that's just me. As with everything in life, YMMV.

Rudey 05-16-2006 11:28 AM

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Originally posted by Jestor
Hell, I'll toss my two cents in.

I'm 26 (be 27 next month) and have only ever kissed two girls and had any sort of intimate experience with one and yes, I preserved my V-card.

Why, you ask?

I could say that it's a matter of lack of opportunity, but that's not really accurate. It's more like the types of girls I tend to be interested in are usually not available to begin with and furthermore have lots of guys swarming around them.

That being said, I'd also like to point out that girls in turn haven't expressed interest in me, probably because I project an intimidating/aloof aura that only the most self-confident and self-assured girls are at ease with, which falls into the same problem as above.

Getting to the question of the OP though, maybe some of my situation plays into the scenario of the girl in question. Sure, I'd wonder why she hasn't done more and certainly ask, but by no means would it be a dealbreaker. In fact, I'd be even more intrigued, in point of fact, but that's just me. As with everything in life, YMMV.

This is a joke right? Someone is using a fake username to post this stuff right??

-Rudey

BobbyTheDon 05-16-2006 02:02 PM

Yea dude. I think it is either KSIG RC or Valkyrie.

adpiucf 05-16-2006 02:41 PM

It has to be a woman.

Rudey 05-16-2006 02:47 PM

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Originally posted by adpiucf
It has to be a woman.
I agree. If my friends ever even used the term "V-card" and they weren't being nerdy and referring to their email programs, I would have to shank them (Oz style).

-Rudey

adpiucf 05-16-2006 02:52 PM

You are all about the Oz references today!!!

BobbyTheDon 05-16-2006 03:38 PM

Ok so it is Valkyrie then?

I asked Valk a while back if it was her, and she denied it. She said she thought it was either RC, Sugar & Spice or GeekyPenguin. I just don't know who to believe anymore!

valkyrie 05-16-2006 03:43 PM

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Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
Ok so it is Valkyrie then?

I asked Valk a while back if it was her, and she denied it. She said she thought it was either RC, Sugar & Spice or GeekyPenguin. I just don't know who to believe anymore!

I thought it was an evil plot hatched by RC and S&S one night after he had a few, but who knows anymore. It's totally not me though, because my fake internet identities know more about shanks than the delicate nuances of relationships, fraternity rush, and wedding planning.

Dionysus 05-16-2006 04:57 PM

My votes are in for RC or James.

KSig RC 05-16-2006 11:42 PM

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Originally posted by valkyrie
I thought it was an evil plot hatched by RC and S&S one night after he had a few, but who knows anymore. It's totally not me though, because my fake internet identities know more about shanks than the delicate nuances of relationships, fraternity rush, and wedding planning.

Dude I wish that this was S&S and me - I'm blown away by whoever it is. The "kissed 2 girls" thing is absolute perfection - it's so subtle, so perfect.


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