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Xanthus.. good luck. For your sake I hope you have learned. If you are indeed 30 like someone mentioned earlier, I feel a little better about the situation. I thought you were much younger (I don't know why). I also hope that you don't have any STDs.
I'm not going to judge you for your mistake. I can sort of understand. Though I don't think you made a smart choice, I'm not going to criticize you because that's not going to change the fact. This kind of thing happens a lot, and it's unfortunate, but now you've learned something. It's just a shame that it took a pregnancy to prove a point. (Hence, this is what's called an *accident* - no one plans to accidentally get someone pregnant, EVER. But you did, and you have to deal.) Good luck. Be supportive of whatever SHE wants to do, it's her body. Make sure the kid is yours. If it's not, be outtttttttta there. If it is, be the most supporitve father you can be. |
Why didn't you two just do anal? 0% chance. The only kids that can come out your ass are Cosby kids.
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Xanthus, Kevin gave you some good advice, especially about being the best father you can be. Regardless of what happens, remember that the child didn't choose to be created, and thus you have to do your best to make it right for him/her. |
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I do agree with you on this, I guess I didn't word it the right way to get across my point. I was more trying to say that you don't always have sex with the intent of getting someone pregnant, and, IMO, if you ARE using the Pill, condoms (unlike the OP), spermicidal lube, etc. all at the same time and you STILL get pregnant - well, then THAT'S an accident because you took every precaution you could. Technically, you could practice abstinence, but let's be realistic - not everyone does. I don't think it's fair to blame someone for a pregnancy if they use every single precaution and still get pregnant. However, this is irrelevant so let's just leave it. I know you probably disagree with me, but that's fine. The point is, the OP didn't use a condom. Hopefully he has learned, and others reading this, as well. |
Also, I forgot to mention that some states will require that the father reimburse the mother for expenses related to the pregnancy and birth. This is all stuff you really need to sit down with a lawyer and talk about. You're in all likelihood about to be a party to a paternity case (once the kid is born), but it really helps to know your rights ahead of time, e.g., what happens when you acknowledge paternity, when and whether you can ask for a DNA test, etc.
ETA: And for the ladies who continue to lecture us about condom use.. For the love of Christ, we all know about that. People do make mistakes and they do have to live with the consequences. Glass houses, stones, etc... STFU. |
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See this post by me, lol (with several other WTF posts to follow): http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...9&postcount=59 |
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Xanthus, is this a joke, man? :confused: ETA: Xanthus, I'll ask you. Why do you want to get a blood test if she's so clean and hasn't screwed another dude? I see what you did. You waited until her panties were wrapped around her knee caps, got the nookie, and now that you got the call "I'm pregnant" you don't want to deal with the responsibility. Dude, please.:rolleyes: |
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1st off, fuck you troll buster. I'm not a fucking troll. You seem to think anyone with under 100 posts is a troll, when in reality you're the only dipshit on here trolling. I knew what I was getting myself into when I started this thread, but this is serious and I don't need you posting your stupid jokes. No one gives a shit about your stupid troll busting, you fake moderator stupid fuck. stfu or gtfo!
I know a lot of what I said doesn't make any sense, but right now this is all new to me. I know, I fucked up, but I have to put that behind me now, and move on. KSU Violet I already said "I brought this on myself", post your thoughts, but I don't need you to repeat it back to me. Pretty boy, to answer your question, I'm not ready to be a parent, (if you're not already) are you? If you and others were in my shoes, you would have doubts too. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. I pretty much know it's my kid, but I also know people who thought the kid was theirs and it wasn't. Kevin and the rest who have given good advice to me, thanks a lot for your support. I made an appointment with an attorney for Wednesday and I'm getting a physical this Monday. I'll keep you guys posted. Probably via pm because some of you aren't being very helpful at all. Kevin and 33girl thanks again. |
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