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rhoyaltempest 06-04-2008 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1663245)
:p


what are you talking about?

i don't get it.

what's really going on?

hey, did someone see that flying saucer?

:):confused::eek::mad::rolleyes::cool::p

My point was that the words of Tom Earp can easily be flipped around and it would not make sense because it doesn't make sense. Does that make sense?

Now, Why did I have to explain that to you???:p

DSTCHAOS 06-04-2008 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1663257)
Yeah...cuz we're all the same. We all have the same beliefs. Have the same life experiences. We all have the same values. We all have the same education and income levels. We all look alike, dress alike. We're all Christian and belong to the Baptist denomination. We all wake up to a bowl of grits, then munch on fried chicken, biscuits, and watermelon thoughout the day. We all run fast, jump high, and can keep a rhythm. :rolleyes:

dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb, dummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmb.......

starang21 06-04-2008 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1663261)
My point was that the words of Tom Earp can easily be flipped around and it would not make sense because it doesn't make sense. Does that make sense?

Now, Why did I have to explain that to you???:p

actually, i didn't even read your post

LOL

i just felt like being silly

starang21 06-04-2008 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1663259)
Why can't they all be like you?



I'll pass on the eggroll. Greasy and fried nothingness. Not big enough for a full meal. Waste of calories. Gets better with ducksauce but I'd rather have Asian noodles.

You have an Asian noodle?

i can make ducksauce on command. it comes (he he) out of the egg roll.

they can't be like us because we're the model minority. blacks and hispanics should strive to be like the asians.

and own nail salons.

and black hair care stores.

and do math good.

wait.

who is "they?"

Dionysus 06-04-2008 05:43 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1663262)
dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb, dummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmb.......

Think what you like. It burns me up when I hear "black" and "own culture" in the same sentence.

DSTCHAOS 06-04-2008 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1663265)
i can make ducksauce on command. it comes (he he) out of the egg roll.

/end transmission

Quote:

Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1663265)
they can't be like us because we're the model minority. blacks and hispanics should strive to be like the asians.

and own nail salons.

and black hair care stores.

and do math good.

wait.

who is "they?"

This is what makes "you people" middlemen minorities and allows "you" the perfect niche in the economy. Go get 'em, tiger!

DSTCHAOS 06-04-2008 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1663268)
Think what you like. It burns me up when I hear "black" and "own culture" in the same sentence.

Luckily, "black culture" doesn't disappear just because some don't understand.

starang21 06-04-2008 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1663269)
Go get 'em, tiger!


i love it when you talk dirty.

<== making ducksauce as we speak.

rhoyaltempest 06-04-2008 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1663268)
Think what you like. It burns me up when I hear "black" and "own culture" in the same sentence.

Speaking for the NPHC, I think we may have dodged a bullet with this one.

*breathes a sigh of relief*

And by "own culture" some of us mean something deeper than just African American culture. Try African diasporic connections.

Senusret I 06-04-2008 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1663288)
Speaking for the NPHC, I think we may have dodged a bullet with this one.


YOU DO NOT SPEAK FOR THE NPHC.

Stop it.

DSTCHAOS 06-04-2008 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1663288)
Speaking for the NPHC, I think we may have dodged a bullet with this one.

*breathes a sigh of relief*

It really fits in with everything we've said.

Dionysus was candid about how she went about choosing organizations but I'm much more interested in her conceptualization of self, which also goes back to what we were saying.

rhoyaltempest 06-04-2008 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1663299)
YOU DO NOT SPEAK FOR THE NPHC.

Stop it.

I put that in there just for you! I knew your ass would take the bait. I can't help that I'm your favorite SGRho, the one you love to hate!:p

DSTCHAOS 06-04-2008 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1663299)

YOU DO NOT SPEAK FOR THE NPHC.

Stop it.

Geesh, Senusret, I think everyone knows that. ;)

Senusret I 06-04-2008 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1663302)
I put that in there just for you! I knew your ass would take the bait. I can't help that I'm your favorite SGRho, the one you love to hate!:p

I don't hate any SGRho. I just strongly dislike the ones with inferiority complexes who have to lump themselves in with eight other organizations to make themselves feel more relevant.

This is not an organizational problem. This is an individual problem.

Sigma Gamma Rho is perfect. It's the twits that mess it up.

DSTCHAOS 06-04-2008 06:32 PM

Squeak: Harpo! Who dis woman?
Harpo: Now come now, you know who this is.
Squeak: She best'a leave you alone.
Sophia: Fine by me.
Harpo: [to Sophia] You ain't got to go nowhere. Dis here my jut-joint.
Squeak: [to Harpo] You said dis here our jut-joint!
Harpo: Listen woman can't a man dance with his wife if he wants to?
Squeak: Not if she left'm!
[to Sophia]
Squeak: And not if he my man! You just a big ol heffa. Ha Ha Ha.
Sophia: [to Squeak] Like I said, fine...by...me!

*Smack*

Band: Whoop...gotta go *packing up*

Dionysus 06-04-2008 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1663271)
Luckily, "black culture" doesn't disappear just because some don't understand.

I can buy that there's many black cultures under one umbrella. The part of the "umbrella" you belong to will probably influence which conference of organizations you choose to join...and going buy some of what I read here on GC and PP, which organization within the NPHC you choose to join. I think location matters a lot also. The same person who went to school in Chicago may have a completely different experience with the various Greek systems if they transferred to a school in San Diego.

rhoyaltempest 06-04-2008 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1663304)
I don't hate any SGRho. I just strongly dislike the ones with inferiority complexes who have to lump themselves in with eight other organizations to make themselves feel more relevant.

This is not an organizational problem. This is an individual problem.

Sigma Gamma Rho is perfect. It's the twits that mess it up.

Didn't I say I put that in there just for you? I was dead serious. I actually think before I write/type.

Now as far as all that other unnecessary isht you wrote:eek:, you said a whole lot more about you than me, especially since you don't know me from jack.

Please find something better to do than e-attack people you don't know.

RaggedyAnn 06-04-2008 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1663242)
I just wonder why some Whites are so anti for joining so called black GLOs?

It seems that there is more racism from Whites than Blacks when it comes to these situations.

If you do not walk in those persons shoes, who are any to belittle them?

They as an individual make their choices, not any of the posters who may want to act snide about it!:rolleyes:

People will go to where they feel at ease not because of color.

Get my point?!:rolleyes:

OK, I have to interject here. We did have an NPHC sorority on my campus. They were part of Panhellenic Council and had vote on sorority campus affairs (and, the service sorority did not) When rush came along, the NPHC chapter participated in the first day. It was 10 minutes of talking with each chapter on campus. When I moved to the NPHC group, I said hello and asked about the sorority. (Keep in mind I knew very little about Greek life and did not know what was the difference between any of the chapters.) The member of the NPHC GLO said I had to be black to join their organization. I responded, oh, can you tell me a little about your org since I have to be here for the next 10 minutes anyway? I sincerely was curious. She said no and the members ignored all of the rushees that were standing there.

DSTCHAOS 06-04-2008 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1663313)
I can buy that there's many black cultures under one umbrella.

That's a different way of saying what I said earlier:

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Originally Posted by ME
People misuse the "monolithic group" phrase everyday. It's like someone used "monolithic" in a sentence one day and caused a EUREKA in people's minds that can't be overcome.

Saying there is a such thing as an "XYZ culture" isn't about being a monolithic group.

No matter how much you and your brother love black people (), you still acknowledge that you are Filipino and that there is a "Filipino and/or Filipino-American culture." This doesn't require that Filipinos think, say, and do the exact same things to recreate the culture.

When people begin to overstate the obvious, they overlook the similarities and trends in an attempt to highlight what smart people already know.

(I don't care about organizations anymore so I'm ignoring the rest of your post.)

Dionysus 06-04-2008 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1663329)
That's a different way of saying what I said earlier:



When people begin to overstate the obvious, they overlook the similarities and trends in an attempt to highlight what smart people already know.

(I don't care about organizations anymore so I'm ignoring the rest of your post.)

I agree it's obvious. That's why it's crazy that there's 55 threads about this subject on GC.

taurus0426 06-04-2008 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1663176)
At this point, I must tell you to worry about you. You're a nongreek and you're all over the place.


Well i really just need some clearance here. How am I nongreek?

tld221 06-04-2008 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1663257)
Yeah...cuz we're all the same. We all have the same beliefs. Have the same life experiences. We all have the same values. We all have the same education and income levels. We all look alike, dress alike. We're all Christian and belong to the Baptist denomination. We all wake up to a bowl of grits, then munch on fried chicken, biscuits, and watermelon throughout the day. We all run fast, jump high, and can keep a rhythm. :rolleyes:

man, you need to stop reading my blog. but i havent had any watermelon in a hot minute...
;)
Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1663304)
I don't hate any SGRho. I just strongly dislike the ones with inferiority complexes who have to lump themselves in with eight other organizations to make themselves feel more relevant.

This is not an organizational problem. This is an individual problem.

Sigma Gamma Rho is perfect. It's the twits that mess it up.

tell em why you mad son! and im so swaggerjackin this ^^^ for my siggy.

tld221 06-04-2008 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by taurus0426 (Post 1663352)
Well i really just need some clearance here. How am I nongreek?

ok now youre just being a PITA.

taurus0426 06-04-2008 08:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1663309)
Squeak: Harpo! Who dis woman?
Harpo: Now come now, you know who this is.
Squeak: She best'a leave you alone.
Sophia: Fine by me.
Harpo: [to Sophia] You ain't got to go nowhere. Dis here my jut-joint.
Squeak: [to Harpo] You said dis here our jut-joint!
Harpo: Listen woman can't a man dance with his wife if he wants to?
Squeak: Not if she left'm!
[to Sophia]
Squeak: And not if he my man! You just a big ol heffa. Ha Ha Ha.
Sophia: [to Squeak] Like I said, fine...by...me!

*Smack*

Band: Whoop...gotta go *packing up*

HAHA

taurus0426 06-04-2008 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 1663354)
ok now youre just being a PITA.

:confused:

taurus0426 06-04-2008 08:19 PM

Nevermind I found it.

taurus0426 06-04-2008 08:21 PM

This topic of blacks rushing NPC and "selling out" about it reminds me of that episode of Fresh Prince when they rushed.

tld221 06-04-2008 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by taurus0426 (Post 1663361)
This topic of blacks rushing NPC and "selling out" about it reminds me of that episode of Fresh Prince when they rushed.

before you all go rush to youtube:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=auF0BupvT0A
http://youtube.com/watch?v=JOY9CbIK9zk
this might actually sum up the whole freaking thread.

AKA_Monet 06-04-2008 08:56 PM

Pantherteke--I haveta be honest, I ain't never met a sistah named Molly... Maybe Michelle, Monique or Mercedes AMG ;) But not Molly... LOL

tld22--as a new grad ad--(my ad-vice :rolleyes: ), the best thing you can do for your sorority sisters is make sure they graduate from college, successfully!!! Use your Sorority's International program objectives to make that happen. One thing that worked for me is review their school schedules and get their parents names, addresses, phone numbers and cells. And give an upfront cost to being a member. Also use your fellow greek advisors from the NPHC. Make the grad council NPHC work together for your organization. Meet with the school admins, meet these "kids" professors, and if you get the chance, have contracts to be signed. Why that is important? When I cleaned up some of my undergrads "academic issues", other NPHC UG greeks and some IFC/NPC greeks started coming to me. My university was NOTORIOUS for alienating ALL GLO's. A more comprehensive program would prove beneficial. And that is how we do it as graduates anyway--or atleast that is what it should be.



Let's set the record straight--NO WHERE IN MY COMMENTS SAY I AM OPPOSED TO ANY BLACK PERSON JOIN THE ORGANIZATION OF HIS/HER CHOICE!!!

What I AM saying is we have these "kids" who see all the hoopla at recruitment. Then they join. Then they see all the NPHC hoopla and wonder why they just did not know. And they slide back to us and wonder why they cannot join--some don't care and K.I.M.

Is that an issue for us? Welp, we keep getting kids posting new threads on GC to pit the IFC/NPC vs. NPHC GLOs... And we have to PLACATE to these non-searching insecure asinine fools. My question is WHY? If dude or chick ain't grown enuf to make a gottdayum decision then they don't know who the fcuk they are!!! PLEASE DON'T JOIN MY SORORITY!!! WE DON'T WANT YOU!!! BE SOMEBODY ELSE'S PROBLEM!!!

taurus0426 06-04-2008 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 1663362)
before you all go rush to youtube:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=auF0BupvT0A
http://youtube.com/watch?v=JOY9CbIK9zk
this might actually sum up the whole freaking thread.

I remember the end of this episode when they were all at home...it made me think of a PSA but it's true.

laylo 06-04-2008 08:59 PM

hijack-
I hate that episode. Carlton finds a new way to say "I'm better than you 'cause I'm rich" in every episode, but when people don't accept him because of his wealth (and their accurate perception of his attitude), suddenly its a deep disgusting issue.

true_story 06-04-2008 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by rhoyaltempest (Post 1661596)
ALL of the NPHC organizations have White members. They also have Hispanic, Indian, Asian, etc. members; the same as with the NPC and other greek organizations. Now there may be certain members/chapters that take issue with this since our orgs are historically and predominently African American, founded at a time in which Blacks could not join White GLO's, but there are non-NPHC GLO members/chapters that have issues with non-White members also.

But to answer the question, yes, all NPHC orgs have non-Black members and we cannot discriminate based on race, religion, etc.

I'm sure I'm extremely late, however, I wasn't posing a question, I was answering one. I guess that's what I get for trying to answer a question with a question! Thanks for the comment though. :D

DSTCHAOS 06-04-2008 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1663336)
I agree it's obvious. That's why it's crazy that there's 55 threads about this subject on GC.

Because people such as yourself panic when you read "black culture" and need to reassert the misplaced "blacks aren't monolithic."

DSTCHAOS 06-04-2008 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 1663354)
ok now youre just being a PITA.

Not to be confused with the bread. Or PETA, who are also a PITA.

carnation 06-05-2008 09:13 AM

Let's take a break.

PenguinTrax 06-05-2008 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by carnation (Post 1663533)
Let's take a break.

You beat me to it! :D


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