Hi ConcordDZ! I'm a DZ here in Texas! Tell me more about this B. Moss store - I don't think we have those here. I am so jealous because I have been desperately searching for the imitation Tiffany stuff and I can't find it anywhere. I found a similar bracelet at TJ Maxx but it didn't have the nifty toggle closure. Anyone have any other ideas where to find it?

Oops, put my message in the wrong spot. Just wanted to mention that the infamous Tiffany's chain link bracelet can be engraved with Greek letters for an extra price.

The real bracelet from Tiffany's doesn't have the toggle bar closure - it has a reguar claw clasp. The necklace does, however, have the toggle bar.

I found a bracelet with the heart and toggle bar at TJ Maxx in January. It just broke last weekend - the heart snapped right off
http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif I'm thinking the boyfriend might be getting the real one for Christmas... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

Girls, realistically...

When it comes to trendy clothing items, buy those assymetrical tops on the sale racks at your favorite stores. If you splurge on a few items, invest in a peacoat, a pair of comfy and a pair of "going out" jeans, and a pair of classic black square toed pumps. But when it comes to jewelry, ALWAYS go for quality. Buy it real and from dependable stores. This means, buy the real Tiffany's bracelet. Based upon my experience, the more upscale lines have much better customer service and product guarentees. Plus, I would rather be head to toe Ross and have a real Tiffany's bracelet and feel like a million bucks. Plus, the chain link bracelet(heart and Return to Tiffany) is only $135...that's less than a week's paycheck. Splurge, girls. You all deserve it! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

I totally agree! Some splurges are worth it. And, on a related note, don't worry if something is trendy or not. I was in Tiffany's, looking at the bracelet, and some girl was like "ugh, I don't want THAT, everyone has it". So what? I like it and it makes me happy. So buy what makes ya feel good girls!

AAAAAAACK! I can't believe I actually did this.

Okay so I gave in.

I actually ordered catalogues for Tiffany's and Mignon Faget.

If I end up spending $$$ on new jewelry I'm going to blame you all for doing this to me! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

Turtlegirl,

Hello to another DZ! I always love to meet sisters from all over the world. :-)

First, about B. Moss...it is kind of a cross between the Gap and The Limited, but cheaper. They have really good quality clothes that are moderately priced when they first put them out, but they literally go on sale in a week. They're ALWAYS having some kind of sale and there's a huge area in the back of the store that has last month's markdowns for between $1 and $50. They have classic pieces that look good with everything--t-shirts, khakis, jewelry, underwear, coats, suits, formals, dresses, capris, pants, jeans, sweaters (they have GREAT sweaters)...you name it, they've got it. It's not a department store, just a retail shop. Their stores are about the size of a Bath and Body Works.

I got the bracelet there on clearance. Do you have Lerner New York stores? They have the bracelet,too, but it's just a little different. It has the claw closure and a couple of little hearts dangling with the big one. If you don't like those you can just clip them off. I got one for my big sis last week; it was on sale for $7.

About splurging on jewelry...I too love jewelry, and most of mine is high quality from the jewelry store and has been given to me by family members or boyfriends. However, when I see something like this heart bracelet that is really just a fad, I can't make myself spend $135 for something that isn't going to be in style next summer. I do have two pieces from Tiffany that I bought when I was in New York and Boston...one is a sterling silver cross necklace and the other is a sterling silver box link bracelet. When I handed over that credit card, I made sure these were items I could wear forever if I wanted. Plus, they were both under $100. As much as I would like to splurge, I have to pay for everything myself and I just can't do that. Trust me, I have expensive taste, and I hope that someday I have the money to go with it!

Emily :-)

Turtlegirl,
WHat school do you go to? I am so excited to meet another DZ from Texas!!!! Were you at Region last Year?
Yea!!!!!

IN the Flame,
Missy

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"Don't you think that life would be awfully boring, if the good times were all that we had?" -Pat Green

Hey Everyone! Thanks for all the tips and the B.Moss info (I'm so bummed we don't have those here). I think I'm going to go ahead and buy the TJ Maxx or Lerner bracelet and necklace because I really want them. I would love to splurge on the real things but sadly, that is just not an option for me. Oh well http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif.
Oh I go to to St. Mary's - where do you go Purpleturtle? I didn't make it to regionals last year but I'll be there this year http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

whoa just read all EIGHT PAGES (!!!) on this topic and i had to put my two cents in. how about a nice soft bed girls? we all now rush is tiring and really isn't your pillow the best boyfriend ever? never complains and oh so snuggly! that's my neccesity...bed and my pillow! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

whoa just read all EIGHT PAGES (!!!) on this topic and i had to put my two cents in. how about a nice soft bed girls? we all know rush is tiring and really isn't your pillow the best boyfriend ever? never complains and oh so snuggly! that's my neccesity...bed and my pillow! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

Alright here is my 2 cents on a Sorority Girls Necessities from AZ State Univ.:
1) Bebe and BCBG clothing
2) Tiffany's Jewelry- (at least the silver neclaces and bracelets rule ASU)
3) lavelier
4) Kate Spade bag
5) Cell Phone
6) Ralph Lauren shades
7) MAC make up

Turtlegal-
I go to Tarleton. I met a bunch of your girls at Regional and they are awesome!

PS I found a version of the heart tag Tiffany & Co bracelet at Wal-Mart, and the only difference from mine (Tiffany's) was the top of the heart where it attached to the chain.

In the Flame,
Missy

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"To the world I promise temperance and insight and courage...."

"Don't you think that life would be awfully boring, if the good times were all that we had?" -Pat Green

Staple Items:

1. Earl Jean Jacket
2. Diesel, Miss Sixty, Frankie B. and/or Earl Jeans
3. Anything Burberry-My boyfriend just bought me a matching purse and skirt : )
4. Tiffany Jewelry of course
5. Kate Spade messenger bag for text books-I also have the matching pencil case that included Kate Spade pencils and erasers!
6. Louis Vuitton Pochette
7. New Balance Tennies and Reef flip-flops for casual wear.
8. Anything BCBG
9. SUV's, BMW, Benz

Let's face it, when we are around tons of classy girls 24-7, our taste gets more refined. That's just one of the perks of being a sorority girl. Now, all in fun, I would like to discuss the anti-sorority girl(since they hate us anyway), you know, the girls you wish you could help with the major fashion no-nos:

The wardrobe of an anti-sorority girl:
1. Jeans by Bubblegum, MUDD, or Paris Blues
2. Platform shoes by Splash
3. knock-offs(the fake kate spades, gucci and louis vuitton bags, tiffany jewelry, etc. are really obvious, especially to those who own them. Trust me!)
4. Scrunchies
5.Anything from forever 21 and the likes

I know you girls out there know what I'm talking about even if it sounds a little mean. Maybe you can add to my list!

You say it's all in fun Gamma Phi, but next time you post, try and decide first if that post is going to offend some people.

I, for one:

• shop at Forever 21, Ross, and the likes because that's ALL I (not mommy or daddy) CAN AFFORD!
• own a few pairs of Splash
• also own MUDD and Paris Blues jeans because they fit me better than the more expensive brands
• head straight to the clearance sale racks whenever I shop
• like wearing scrunchies
• don't mind wearing non-brand jewelry
• buy my underwear in bulk because it's cheaper (especially at VS)...don't gag because you know you do it too

This "necessities" list was started in good fun and it eventually became a place to poke fun at ourselves. However, after reading your post I couldn't help but raise an eyebrow. Everyone has access to these boards--and people on other message boards have already pointed out that threads like these display our materialistic and elitist ways. Thanks for giving them more reason to be against us.

OTW, sounds more like a joke than anything. I sure wasn't laughing.

You know, I was thinking...

I wouldn't be surprised if Gamma Phi Girle was just some sorority poser from chickclick.com out to make us look bad.

Thats exactly what I was thinking.

I guess we'll find out sooner or later.

um, what's wrong with scrunchies? I must have at least 50 of them and most girls I know own at least a few :P

I was the one who first posted a link on chickclick to here and honestly I'm almost sorry I did. A few ppl have said they had questions answered but it's just gotten so childish and immature. It really bugs me that ppl from CC would just rush (no pun) over and check out topics on a chit chat board and not something a bit more greek oriented ya know?

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Thank you OTW. I too agree this must be a poser. I was offended by what the Gamma Phi (?Is that right) chick had to say. yes sororites help women become classy young ladies, but money does not define class. I know many girls who may not drive a SUV or BMW, but they have plenty of class. Most college students can't afford those things mentioned. I have to save my paychecks so I can afford nice things and I still can't afford a BMW or Kate Spade. What's wrong with scrunchies? Maybe Gamma Phi wears diamonds in her hair when she works out, but most girls(yes even sorority girls) wear scrunchies.

What's Chick Click??

I too, am curious as to what "chick click" is.

In response to previous postings:

My point about imposters is that if I can't afford the real thing, I simply don't buy it, or some knock-off of it. It is fine to have no designer names flashing around, but it is tacky to flash obviously fake ones.

Scrunchies for bed/working out- no big deal, but on the wrist to "coordinate" with your outfit, no no!

Come on, play along, some of you obviously have good taste(whether or not you have a huge budget). You have some fashion no-nos to add to the list!

haha, I don't really wear scrunchies out unless I'm really bumming (working out or lounging around at home)...
You weren't specific about it, so I thought you were saying that even owning scrunchies were tacky :P

When I was still in figure skating, I always wore my hair in a bun or ponytail when competing and almost always held it up with a scrunchie--that unfortunately, coordinates with my costumes....and since i probably have 8246346 scrunchies, sometimes I do wear one on a regular day just to keep my hair off my face.
I admit that with my own independence (and occasional parental generosity) I've had the privilege of shopping at Bebe,BCBG,A/X and GUess, but that doesn't mean i have a phobia from stores like Rave or Forever 21. like OTW, I am a proud shopper at Forever 21 and I even have sisters that work there during the summertime. I thanked God when I heard our mall finally had a store open up , I don't have to drive to the far mall anymore.In fact, I just bought stuff from there yesterday! They have pretty party clothes, and fine, the clothes don't scream TOMMY GIRL or something in the front but they are a good value, they have great selections and update their inventory like every other day. Maybe the reason you just don't wanna shop there, poser, is because you probably can't fit into their sizes.
:P
A real sorority girl won't put down stores that other Greeks shop at like you.

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"You've made me stronger
By breaking my heart
You've ended my life
And made a better one start
You've taught me everything
From falling in love
To letting go of a lie
Yes you've made me stronger
Baby, by saying goodbye"
--Regine Velasquez

What's Forever 21?

I like Charlotte Russe or I should say I did until some of their clerks were snotty. So the next time I went to that mall I shopped at Bebe and Guess. I understand that it can be a tough job, but all I was doing was buying my items and not being picky. I had asked for an application in December and it took four people before they figured out they weren't hiring even though only 2 days before they had now hiring signs up.

Forever 21 is a store somewhat like Charlotte Russe (only cheaper) and it sells mostly party/clubbing gear like dresses, "sorority pants" and sparkly tops, although lately they have started to carry more casual stuff too like jeans, tanks, etc. They also got some accessories as well. I am willing to bet that 95% of their stuff is under 20$...that's how cheap it is http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

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"You've made me stronger
By breaking my heart
You've ended my life
And made a better one start
You've taught me everything
From falling in love
To letting go of a lie
Yes you've made me stronger
Baby, by saying goodbye"
--Regine Velasquez

Ok, I'm gonna give GPhi the benefit of the doubt here, guys. GPhi, I totally understand what you are talking about. In fact we all do. But since we are on a public forum here, it's dangerous to put out an opinion that isn't perfectly wholesome. True, all of us have looked through mags and commented on tacky outfits or even been to dances and commented on tacky dresses chosen in poor tase. There is a time and an occasion for everything though. Stores like Forever 21 are fabulous for fun exchanges when you need something you'll only wear once or twice. But for staple items, I most def agree that you should go for quality. No one wants to bash you, girl. It's just that no one wants to hurt anyone's feeling either. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

I agree it's all about quality. Why buy something if you can only use it once or twice? But, there is nothing wrong with grabbing a party shirt at Charlotte Russe.... I am not that preppy & they have a lot of stuff that is my style. By the way, I for one do not own anything from Tiffany & I love my MUDD jeans... they are so worn in and comfy!!!!!!

I agree it's all about quality. Why buy something if you can only use it once or twice? But, there is nothing wrong with grabbing a party shirt at Charlotte Russe.... I am not that preppy & they have a lot of stuff that is my style. By the way, I for one do not own anything from Tiffany & I love my MUDD jeans... they are so worn in and comfy!!!!!!

back to what we all need: (and this is just a joke, so some of you stop taking it all that seriously!)
-a good tan
-a good haircut
-something with an abercrombie label on it
- a fraternity boyfriend
- a best guy friend (to take you to things when you and your boyfriend are fighting)
-a kate spade bag (SAM, preferably and they are cheap on Ebay)
-black boots
-black pants
-black strapless dress
-strappy black sandals
-a pack of cigarettes (even if you don't smoke a hot guy might ask you for one!)
-a lighter to light the hot guy's cigarettes
-good friends to laugh and confide in
-good sisters to laugh and confide in
-friends not in your sorority so you can complain abou it to them
-your own bar stool or table
-a favorite beer that isn;t too cheap or expensive
-good nailpolish that stays on
-be able to sing along to a favorite local band.
-be able to hold your liqour and not be a drunken idiot!
-a good job after you graduate (6 mos. grace period)so when you go back for homecoming they all go "oooooh" when you say what you do
-to know when to let go and to know when to remininse.
SHMILY! SATR!XI LOVE!

Charlotte Russe is my *FAVE* store!!! They're always having good sales at the one at Opry Mills! I also love Aeropostale for the more casual, sporty look. Also Wet Seal is a cute store for clubbing outfits. The only reason I can afford this stuff is because I don't have a car to pay for, LOL! I don't need a car living on campus, anyhow---plenty of other people can give me rides!
Oh, I don't agree with the "pack of cigs" thing---even if the guy is hot, a guy that smokes turns me off! It really grosses me out (no offense to those of you who do smoke). I kissed a guy that smoked onetime, and it tasted like licking an ashtray! :P
And lucky those of you who have a nice tan! I have freckles and red hair, so the only way I get a tan is from a bottle (I've become an expert at it LOL).

******Here are some of my nescessities:

black flair-legged pants


black chunky-heeled shoes

**liquid eye liner!---the other kind doesn't
stay on!**

lip gloss (I hate having rough chapped lips!)

a small comb/brush that fits in your pocket

a powder compact

Nokia cell phone w/changeable faceplate and sparkly case w/strap

a nail file

small irridescent stud earrings (they'll go with anything!)

a push-up bra (you know some of you wear these, too, ladies! Don't they work wonders?)

a nice manicure and pedicure (no hangnails or calluses for me, eek!)

at least one sequined halter top for clubbing

a tiny under-the-clothes waist-pouch for toting pic. I.D. and money for clubbing
(I found one at Wal-Mart--it's barely noticeable, and you don't have to stick those in your sweaty shoe!)

several pairs of khakis (I can't live without these--they go with any shirt!)

a cute, ruffly black skirt http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

a flat-screen monitor for your computer (I found one for only $399 at HHGregg!)

Okay....I can't think of anything else right now...






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***Tinkerbell***

~~~Don't worry, be happy!~~~

Tinkbell- Thanks for mentioning the pouch. I need to go get one. I'm sure it was so obvious that I was a freshman this past yr bc i carried a purse (from Express) to parties. How embarressing. Anway I need something to put essentials in bc a purse can be a real pain.

these listings, no offense, do seem a bit out-dated... so these are the 'every sorority girl's necessities' for the fall... or at least they are at my school....

1) Louis Vuitton or Prada pochette bag
2) Camo belt
3) Reef sandals in any color
4) lip gloss... a classic
5) anything Custo Barcelona
6) cut-off jean capris to wear w/ any and all sorority/fraternity tshirt to class
7) anything shabby chic for the apt.
8) an id/credit card/cash/change/key chain... this may be unique to only my school but it is definitely a necessity
9) the new tiny nokia
10) and ditto to maggie kay for the 'best guy friend'! they are the absolute best! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

help me out guys... i know there are some more

sarah

these listings, no offense, do seem a bit out-dated... so these are the 'every sorority girl's necessities' for the fall... or at least they are at my school....

1) Louis Vuitton or Prada pochette bag
2) Camo belt
3) Reef sandals in any color
4) lip gloss... a classic
5) anything Custo Barcelona
6) cut-off jean capris to wear w/ any and all sorority/fraternity tshirt to class
7) anything shabby chic for the apt.
8) an id/credit card/cash/change/key chain... this may be unique to only my school but it is definitely a necessity
9) the new tiny nokia
10) and ditto to maggie kay for the 'best guy friend'! they are the absolute best! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

help me out guys... i know there are some more

sarah

Hey Ya'll...I absolutely love this topic....i've probaly read it a couple of times when i'm bored at work!!!! Here's my list of things at my school:

1. Black Pants(of course to go out in, I have three pairs!)
2. Party Shirt
3. Northface Jacket and bookbag
4. Tiffany's Bracelet
5. Kate Spade(I got a great deal on one in St. Thomas V.I.)
6. Clinique Make-up and the little bonus bags you put all your stuff in for your purse!
7. Of course black and white pearls to dress up your outfits for meetings!
8. All the latest styles in flip flops from gap
9. Fun Capris
10. Your Letter shirt to show off your sorority!
11. Happy Perfume or heavenly from Vicky Secret!
12. Polo Shirts
13. Those oh so perfect jeans to go to class in!
14. Of course your sorority tote bag...i meet more AXO when i have that bag!
15. Steve Madden sandels
16. Lavaliere of course
17. Nice classy black dress
18. I can't forget about my curling iron to make my hair all cute and bouncy!
19. My bible....COSMO!!!
20. Lip Gloss of course
21. Sweater Jacket
22. of Course a camera to remember all the fun times
23. Sunglasses to hide your tired eyes from partying too much
24. BLUSH....I can't live w/out my blush and bronzer

okay i know i'll think of some more, but that is just a few!!!!!!

I forgot:

~~~Jessica McClintock perfume---it smells sooooooooo good! And I'm really picky about perfume---if it's too strong, I won't wear it.

~~~Clear nailpolish for runs in the pantyhose!

~~~Aussie Scrunch Spray and
Aussie Smoothy Gel

~~~Post-it notes and pens (you never know what you might need these for!)

~~~A three-way lighted makeup mirror (I got this for Christmas when I was 16, and it's awesome! Especially when I have to tweeze my eyebrows or put in contacts!)

~~~Instead of a curling iron, I use a curling thing with three different-sized attachments that have that velvety stuff on them (so it won't singe your hair!)

~~~Also, for parties or when I'm just feeling funky, I use another device that has four dif. attachments: a smoother, a shiner, a crimper, and a waver.



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***Tinkerbell***

~~~Don't worry, be happy!~~~

ok, so i am sitting here bored at work and i came up with a few more things:
-a light, nonoverbearing perfume (ie Abercrombie 8, vickie's Happy or Angel, Oxygen or Green Tea)
-khaki's
-capri's...but never ever wear a tube top and capri's it looks like you are trying to hard.
-tiffany's jewlery
-deffinityl LIP GLOSS
-Letter T-shirt
-Fraternity Banquet or Homecoming Tee
-Gray Sneakers/Tennis Shoes
-silver hoop earings or diamond like studs (not to big though!)
-any type of small cell that clips to the inside of your kate spade bag
-many different kinds of flip flops
-sorority sticker for your car
-sorority beer opener key chain
- cute single strap back pack (black or brown, leather is always good too)
-dark jeans!
-victoria secret underware/thongs/sleepware
-a pair of guy boxer's that were left at your place (even if they are your boyfriends or just a guy friends)
-beer in the fridge to always offer people when they come over
-the ability to throw a good party
-the ability to stay out all night and do well in your classes (it can happen and it does!)