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To me it makes sense if you are a strong chapter (and can manage it financially) to take less members and keep the numbers under control. I can't imagine the number of sisters present in one chapter there, especially since my whole chapter was as big as quota at Alabama!
My only thought when seeing this idea posted (taking less than quota purposefully) was what about the girls who didn't get bids on bid day? Doesn't that mean that there were about 12 that went bidless? |
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Yup, I went through rush as an excited rushee too. I signed a pref card, then became a pledge. I had a Pledge Trainer and was given a paddle with our letters on in it which had to be signed by every member of the Chapter. The seniors purposely tried to make it difficult for all of us lowly pledges to do. I had phone duty which included door and wake up duty (no alarm clocks allowed in the dorms/sleeping porches). I had a Pledge Mom and was initiated in January. Then I moved up the Chapter Roll every year as new pledges came in. That meant I could speak in Chapter or pick a room before someone with a lower number. YIKES! How horrible! How politically incorrect! I was hazed and didn't even know it! How did I ever survive? :eek: :D :eek: :D |
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Great post!!!!!! Everything you said really hits home! :) News straight from the second floor of the KD house: I have spoken to a current KD senior, and she had NO CLUE that they did not meet their numbers....She said everyone was so excited about the new members and it seemed she genuinely did not know that they didn't meet quota. She said that all of their top girls pledged and that is all they care about! I am not sure if the Exec board is keeping it quiet or what, but I think that publicizing whatever did happen would hurt all of the new pledges (and actives!) feelings. Thanks for everyone's insight and for sharing all the news of the chapters at Alabama. It has been great to read all of the good news! I have a few pictures from friends that I will post soon! |
How do i post photos?
I can't figure out how! :( Any advice?
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AGD rush!!!
Congrats to all Moms, New members and alumni on a fantastic Recruitment! All of the new girls are absolutely precious! Alpha Gam's new class is fantastic and like most houses all of our top girls pledged so YAY! Again, congrats to all!
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More Pledge Class Pictures :-)
Hi Everyone!
Any more luck on any bid day pics? MVisKD...thanks for your kind comments!! Don't you miss Magnolia Drive...hope those girls know how special these years are & how fast they will fly by. O.K....now I really sound like my mom! By the way, The new pledge class KD got this year has 10 or 11 girls from my hometown & I even recognized a few last names myself as ancient as I am:-) Congrats...they're all fabulous women!!! Take Care & post those pics ladies!!! |
I MISS MAGNOLIA DRIVE TOO!!!!
That said, if KD wanted to meet quota, they would've. They are very selective, they have the right to be...and like a previous poster said - they know years in advance who is going to be in the house. When I was in school, I remember a few Old Row sororities not making quota - not because they couldn't, but because they didn't have too. In general those houses will always be strong and don't need to take quota to have a successful rush (I refuse to call it recruitment). |
It's our fault?
This was one for the books and I had to share it with all of you. I received a call from a alum who was absolutely livid! She was calling on behalf of her distraught friend/pledge sister and the mother of a legacy who had been released. To add insult to injury, the active recruiting the PNM didn't even know this girl was a legacy and so didn't treat her with the courtesy she was entitled to.
I track all the legacies going through the Recruitment process and this name didn't ring a bell. My initial reaction was what went wrong? Sure legacies aren't guaranteed a bid, but we do make all of our actives aware of the legacies during our Rec Reviews in workshop week. Needless to say I apologized and promised to investigate. So I pull out our Legacy Intro/Rec books. Nothing there. Did we misfile her info? That might explain it. I checked the non-legacy Rec books, nothing. YIKES! Please don't tell me it got lost! I check the PNM's Panhellenic application -- she left the entire section blank. No mention of being a legacy at all. The alum had given me her name and address as well as mom's. I checked on our Inat'l database. Sure enough there they were, initiated at this Chapter. Why is this important? It obviously wasn't a case of being from a school where they didn't know any better. It also means they are receiving their Inat'l magazine at the correct address. Every summer it includes the Legacy Intro and Rec forms along with the addresses of where to send them for every school. I called the alum back and asked (politely of course :)) if she had sent in a Rec. No. Had mom sent a Rec or a Legacy Intro? No. I see. No explanation was offered as to why, but apparently we should have just known. Seems we didn't do our homework to know who the PNM and her mom was. (I didn't say this but I certainly thought it.) You're kidding me right? We had 1410 PNM's signed up and it's our responsibility to investigate all of them to see if they are/aren't legacies? We did at least investigate those who claimed on their app's to be legacies but we didn't receive any paperwork on. You never know if Grandma passed away or is infirmed. But this PNM didn't even identify herself as a legacy when she signed up for Recruitment. *sigh* Yeah, it must be all our fault. :rolleyes: |
Zillini,
No, it's not your fault. All you can do is process the information you receive. THEY dropped the ball. Question...did the young woman mark herself as a legacy on her Panhellenic form? |
Those were the days...
Not only do I miss Magnolia Drive, but I miss swaps, fried friday - all of it!! Even Rush, apparently! :)
I am on a MAC and I still can't seem to post the pics I have....I will keep trying but when I click on the mountain it is asking me to type in a URL. |
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Ladies, I can assure you, even strong, good, Old Row chapters wouldn't want this to happen four years in a row. |
This whole thing goes back to one of my original posts: Some responsibility falls on the PNM. Mom, grandmom, aunts, rec writers, etc. can do all the grooming they want, can write all the recs in the world -- if the PNM doesn't follow through and take on some of this responsibility she could very well be dissapointed in the end!
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Oh good lord, I'm quoting Hillary Clinton? |
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I know you feel allegiance to your home chapter as well and wouldn't want everyone spreading rumors that they snapped 16 girls or had alums come back to help rush because they didn't have enough members to do so. I am only trying to keep a good vibe about my chapter so this news doesn't spread down to next year's potential rushees and keep us from getting quota again. So thanks for all the KD support and good words, everyone! |
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I do wish KD all the best and I'm positive they have a terrific pledge class, but it rubs me the wrong way when the mantra is something like "they didn't want quota" ... "they didn't even know they didn't make quota" ... etc. |
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A quote I live by (that is appropriate here): "Failure to prepare on your part does NOT constitute an emergency on mine" It was their FUBAR |
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I know this has happened to all chapters. During my years at Alabama I saw chapters get smaller and smaller and the quality of the girls pledged every year just diminish - they ended up with pledge classes full of someone else's leftovers. It is a hard thing to come back from and I don't wish it on anyone, and especially not my chapter. |
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Shame on you, Zillini! You don't have the entire alumae database memorized yet? :rolleyes:
They both should have known better!! |
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I guess I am thinking of the KD situation differently. I am wondering if this is a case of a strong chapter falling victim to the new release figures - not being familiar enough yet with that process to avoid this pitfall. I know that a few years ago at Georgia some of the strongest chapters had to snap to quota and the general feeling was that the new release figures caught them off guard a little. The new release figures help the smaller chapters right off the bat, but the stronger ones may need several recruitments to understand fully how to achieve the same results with fewer PNMs.
Just a thought. |
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Um... Okay, IT TAKES A VILLAGE!!!! :p Omigosh, now I'm doing it.... |
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We never got another color TV!! |
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I wouldn't look it at it as "falling victim." If you think about the way the new release figure method works, it's normal to expect that some very strong chapters are going to miss quota from year to year. Top chapters have big release numbers and they are all competing for the same girls. But the chapters aren't psychic. They can't possibly know for sure what Polly PNM or Patty PNM is going to do ....it's happened to everyone that a group of PNMs that have "bonded" during recruitment week and they all decide they want to stick together and pick the one house they all have in commom and boom! there goes 5,6 10 girls on your bid list who may truly have loved you. Whatever. Some of the greatest members you'll ever get are pledged in COR. Sheesh all these chapters are fabulous in their own right. I give 'em all snaps for a terrific recruitment! |
You ladies have been great keeping us all informed of the Rush #'s and such. My daughter is a legacy of a chapter that is not present on this campus. She had a great expierence and never once complained.I think the Rush process works and these young ladies end up where they belong. The strength of character comes out going through Rush especially in the dog days of summer. My daughter is happy:)so I am happy. Personally invoved in Bama rush and now moving on to a
texas rush a little more at ease. A little diffence in #'s. 795 women going through. |
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I wanna know what "fried Friday" is. ;)
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No wonder I gained weight at Bama. :rolleyes: Sloooowly working it off in the past couple years. Not to mention that you can get sweet tea 24/7 at my sorority house. Geekypenguin knows all about that! |
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NutBrnHair: I was going to make a quote from a previous poster and write "Bad Form!", but instead will simply say: you are a very gracious lady, and a compliment to your sorority.
Zillini: I am aghast that anyone in this day and age (and did you say this alum WENT to Alabama?) would not know about filling out a rec form, etc. If you were ever in ANY sorority, sat through the voting process, had alums in the room, yada, yada, yada, you would KNOW about rec forms!!! Which is the obvious reason you went behind yourself, trying to find "your" mistake! I swear to goodness, this takes the cake!! (And, yes, a proud member here of early seventies frills rush, paddles, getting THREE signatures per member in a BOOK that we had to carry everywhere we went for a full quarter!) Hazing to the max! And, lastly, thank you for all you do in ADPi. |
Theta was her second choice.She went ZTA
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