LOLOL

I am surprised that he is with someone like that, but as they say - as you get richer, some things get lighter.

:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Why? Maybe these "Beckys" need to teach us a class on to get a brotha! :mad:

Do not sweat it. If the man doesn't dig us, he doesn't dig us and we don't have to waste our time pining for something that's not going to happen. It's tough, but I'm learning this the hard way with my family situation.

Can I get an AMEN?

NO. SHE. DIDNT!!!!!


*I was saying the same damn thing. Either the fade or the braids, but not both. And Imma need you to SING the damn song, and not dance*

Oh trust I'm not sweatin it. We just had this discussion at work not to long ago. On how we have to give "Becky" her props, they stay gettin the brothas, stay finding a way to not work, stay finding a way to have nannies, stay at the gym and well manicured. Hey you can't hate the game.

I. am. dead.

RE: Becky and 'nem:

I wonder if we could conduct a poll on GC where we ask non-AF AM females:

1. if they have dated Af Am Males
2. if yes, how long did they date
3. how did they meet
4. what was/is his occupation
5. what was/is her occupation
6. what were her tricks/ etc

:p :D :o :eek:


Ya'll think we could get away with that? :confused: :o
Of course, the poll would have to be conducted on THIS side of the RR tracks. :p

I don't think we could get away with it today because of some things (and posters) that have happened in the past. If it were to be done, however, I'd rather it here because these rooms are more tightly moderated.

Soror,

Probably 1-5 we could but the heat alone from 6 would be the fool!

I QUADruple dog dare ya!! :D

But its Terrence Howard...*in my Mariah Carey voice* "We belong togettthhhhheeerrr"

*sigh*

Aiight Nikki & Professa......LOL:p :D

LOL. Terrence Howard is OK. Then again, my tastes run more toward people who look like Emeka Okafor and other dark, chocolaty ballers.
:p

BGA was there
 

He was there. I remember a quick shot of him during Gladys' performance. He was just standing there. How do you just stand there when Gladys performs? She is the best honoree thus far. Her voice is still the same. Very classy performance.

Re: Rereading comments
 

I think her whole CD is for that Mexican dude (Luis something) she was engaged to a few years ago (he broke it off, she went into a depression, he's married to someone else, she aint depressed no mo but she aint over him) *shrugs*:D

You know they're gonna reair that junk 40 times before the weekend is over:p

I think she just ready to be done with them other two

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!

Or a least that clumsy Michelle. Thanks to Tivo I watched the show again because I somehow missed the almost fall of Michelle. I bet B and Kelly talk about her after their shows.:o

Yeah, I bet they do. Michele looked like she barely made it down the stairs. She was off the first two steps and had to catch up. Then she looked shaky with the routine. But the second go round of the chorus she decided to be a little cocky with it and tried to do it like yeah, I got this!" Uh no girl, you are still struggling, was all I could think.

Terrence Howard looks delicious. He's got to be one of the finest actors of the 21st century. The only reason he's with Becky is because I wouldn't give him another chance. There, now you have the truth. Sorry, ladies.

The show was aiiight for me guys.

I loved the Fugees performance, but Lauryn looked like a cross between Ike Turner and Andre 3000.

Michelle of DC, is just not a 'vixen' or whatever she's trying to be. She looked like she was up there with her daddy or something. Just off, notice how beyonce and kelly were on the LEFT side of their guys and Kelly was on Magic's RIGHT at the end. The girl is slow.

Omarion, do you know baby hair was cool in like the 80's?? But hell, so was lining lips with black eyeliner and filling it in with bright red lipstick!

Mariah Carey...what was up with the hand thingy? Fabolous should have got up there with her and told tha girl to BREATHE!

CTFU @ the descriptor of Lauryn. You could say that she did look like a cross between Andre Benjamin and Isaac Luster Turner.:p

Getty images has the pics. I could not post them.

I forgot about Sorors Gladys and Alicia! That's cute. But yeah, no pinky or anything! :)

Soror, that's her boyfriend. I was reading in the magazine that they have been close friends for years and the sparks recently kindled.

My Sawrah Gladys sang!!! And tore it up by the way.

SC

Soror, I hear you. This is actually the first time that I've ever seen a BET awards show...and I must confess that I saw a taped version of the show (not the actual show) at my aunt's house a few nights ago. I keep telling folk that watching tv is overrated. :)

HC my minister referred to B and nem and their "lap dance" today? LOL

He used them and other artists here for Essence and Essence itself as an analogy as to how folks are MORE devoted to them and other and things than God. :o

I didn't know that he was married to a Becky.
My bad. I thought that he was into us. I will have to inform all of my girls to strike him off the list. But seriously, if that is his preference then I would not have wanted him anyway so it's really no decrease in my (or most AA women's) pool. I tend to prefer men who prefer AA women so it all works out. :)

ETA: On an interesting note, I have recently moved to Cali and have been approached by several non-AA (hispanic, indian and white) men. That's not the way that I flow but if it was then it would be on I guess. I think the interracial thing is just the in thing in Cali so I wouldn't take Terrence and the rest of them to heart too much.

SC

Y'all are insane.

All I have to say about DC is...

did they plan who they were going to pick out, or was Michelle just a dunt-a-dunt for pickin' Magic Johnson in front of his wife and with HIV...makes NO SENSE!

Beyonce picked Terrence Howard and he's married.

Does his HIV status make Magic not eligible for a lap dance? :confused: :confused: :confused: I don't think HIV is transmitted that way.:confused: :confused:

I'm watching the re-air of the BET awards (I missed the original airing). The segment with Stevie Wonder and John Legend is off the hinge.....

and I'm cracking up watching this show in light of this thread. yall crazy. :D

i get geeked when i see texas represent!! i was all over the mike jones/slim thug/paul wall performance with big bank hank throwing money. i took classes with paul wall at the univ of houston my freshman year and i remember when he was part of the street team for swishahouse. he even came to a step practice we had one time. he is soooo cool. that's why i get excited to see him on bet, mtv, vibe, source and whateva else. i don't care what nobody says, call the tow truck cuz the south wrecked it!!!!

Cosign, cosign! I had the dubious honor of watching the show at a friend's home not once, but twice on Sunday. I remarked to my husband, "How come he managed to attend and many of the awardees didn't?"

it was a joke...

Please - No BET Awards 2006
 

Hi ladies - it's me tickledpink. I've been MIA for a while.

Anyway - I saw the BET awards and all I can say is - a hot mess. I thought last year's was much better - especially the old school rap part.

Who was that in the Missy performance that took his shirt off? Music should never make you loose that much control. :rolleyes:

What's up with Lauryn Hill - not only did she sound bad, but she looked awfully skinny (unhealthy).

I fast forwarded my Tivo thru most of it, but I had to go back to the lap dance after I read the posts. :o