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DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1649876)
^^^ You're right, and it wasn't for me.

I didn't want to attend a school which was hyper-aware of itself and its legacy.

Hey, you have to believe your own hype so that others can believe your hype. :D

But I feel ya.

starang21 05-12-2008 02:09 PM

i wasn't down for the cause.

tld221 05-12-2008 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1649882)
Replace "ghetto" with "down for the cause" and I agree with you. But it's different because while some NPHCers wouldn't accept a nonblack person regardless of what that person has to offer, the general sentiment is about whether that person understands and wants to be committed to our emphases and philanthropies.

We GENERALLY don't look for whites who "try to be black" and we GENERALLY don't look for whites who dress a certain way. If they can understand and contribute to our histories and causes, that's evidenced by something more than the exterior. On most campuses, whites do not pursue NPHC orgs but those who do are doing so because they have a reason to believe their contribution is a possiblity beyond being treated like a TOKEN (both inside that chapter and outside of that chapter).



LOL...sometimes it's one of those days. :p You actually did add something, though.

you know, that was my first thought, but i was going for some similar correlation to "fratty." Though SouthernFratter seems to describe "fratty" as a style of dress, im sure its just as much as behavorial/way of thinking, in particular in a less-than-favorable way.

33girl 05-12-2008 02:12 PM

There was an article in Rolling Stone once about a white guy who joined Phi Beta Sigma at Bama - does anyone else remember that? Basically he said he liked them because he wasn't good to go with the IFC groups on his campus, he found them elitist. He was from a tiny town and didn't have the $$ to join one of the bigger groups.

breathesgelatin 05-12-2008 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1649869)
(breathesgelatin) ...I was accepted to Morehouse and did not attend for reasons including it being somewhat of a black bourgeoisie machine.

Just my opinion.

Hah, well it was interesting because some (not all) of these same mentioned black guys were also like W&L guys insofar as they were... ah... unaware of their class privileges. To clarify, this was a volunteer internship program in which we did community service to needy populations, so we all had all these consciousness raising/privilege awareness activities at the orientation training. So via the discussion we had a really good idea of who thought what by the end.

DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1649890)
i wasn't down for the cause.

I know. :eek:

DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 1649891)
you know, that was my first thought, but i was going for some similar correlation to "fratty." Though SouthernFratter seems to describe "fratty" as a style of dress, im sure its just as much as behavorial/way of thinking, in particular in a less-than-favorable way.

I see what you mean. But SouthernFratter really believes in "fratty" whereas you don't really believe that "ghetto" is a desired quality in blacks or nonblacks.

tld221 05-12-2008 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1649903)
I see what you mean. But SouthernFratter really believes in "fratty" whereas you don't really believe that "ghetto" is a desired quality in blacks or nonblacks.

touche my friend. were on the same page.

starang21 05-12-2008 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1649900)
I know. :eek:


^^^^^ the reason

DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1649909)
^^^^^ the reason

Don't ever let a woman interfere with the frat. :p

haha...I'm glad I caught that I spelled "frat" as "fart" before I hit submit.

starang21 05-12-2008 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1649912)
Don't ever let a woman interfere with the frat. :p

haha...I'm glad I caught that I spelled "frat" as "fart" before I hit submit.

but i love Deltas.

:throb:

DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1649918)
but i love Deltas.

:throb:

^^^ would let me rock his letters :eek:

DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 1649906)
touche my friend. were on the same page.

I just wanted to be able to type:

"NOW, NOW...let's not get GHETTO...."

"I don't care if you're from the...BLACKVILLE...."

Ignoramus from Real World Hollywood

starang21 05-12-2008 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1649927)
^^^ would let me rock his letters :eek:


whoa now

:wassat:

DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1649952)
whoa now

:wassat:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9GNhdQRbXhc

AKA_Monet 05-12-2008 04:03 PM

Interesting stuff about Morehouse. Their valedictorian this year is here... :D

DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 04:46 PM

hijack/

I was waiting for someone to post that. LOL.

That fine specimen of a man is a great news story. :D

But other than being the first white valedictorian, he's the typical Morehouse man. I didn't like the fact that an article said that he "raised the bar." He didn't because he is the typical super-accomplished Morehouse man and isn't the only valedictorian with a 4.0. And of course he isn't the only white man at Morehouse. His being the first white valedictorian is indicative of inclusion on the part of Morehouse and his peers but not indicative of any triumph of whites amidst systemic adversity. Race, gender, and other minority groups' firsts are celebrated because of triumph amidst structural adversity.

/end hijack

Little32 05-12-2008 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1649985)
Interesting stuff about Morehouse.

Indeed, I had similar feelings about my time at my HBCU, less about the hyper-awareness of the legacy and more about the machine that was in place, which I rejected at every turn.

Still got an excellent education though.

ETA: Agree with DSTChaos. The article was generally problematic in its construction of Morehouse and Morehouse students in order to highlight the acheivement of this fella.

alum 05-12-2008 05:03 PM

I don't think the raising the bar statement implied that the bar was raised because a Caucasian happens to be the val. The bar was raised because an obviously bright, focused student was recruited to be part of the student body and that this recruit lived up to his potential. PWIs have recruited the best and brightest African-Americans for awhile. It stands to reason that HBCUs would do the same for their non-focus populations.

starang21 05-12-2008 05:06 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1650004)
hijack/

I was waiting for someone to post that. LOL.

That fine specimen of a man is a great news story. :D

But other than being the first white valedictorian, he's the typical Morehouse man. I didn't like the fact that an article said that he "raised the bar." He didn't because he is the typical super-accomplished Morehouse man and isn't the only valedictorian with a 4.0. And of course he isn't the only white man at Morehouse. His being the first white valedictorian is indicative of inclusion on the part of Morehouse and his peers but not indicative of any triumph of whites admist systemic adversity. Race, gender, and other minority groups' firsts are celebrated because of triumph admist structural adversity.

/end hijack

but they've overcome so much and have had so much disadvantage in this country. he is one of the "good ones." not like the rest.

and i should punch you in the boob for looking at another man.

DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by alum (Post 1650021)
I don't think the raising the bar statement implied that the bar was raised because a Caucasian happens to be the val. The bar was raised because an obviously bright, focused student was recruited to be part of the student body and that this recruit lived up to his potential. PWIs have recruited the best and brightest African-Americans for awhile. It stands to reason that HBCUs would do the same for their non-focus populations.

I don't think they consciously said it because he's white. Maybe subconsciously or because it sounded like a nice thing to say. But what it implies and what is embedded in it is what concerns me.

The bar wasn't raised by this valedictorian. And he probably learned more from this experience, which he admits along with admitting his Ivy League options, than they learned from having him.

You will rarely find a PWI or other predominantly white institution to praise blacks by saying "the bar was raised." Usually, blacks will be celebrated for excelling and working harder to achieve, what their white counterparts have already achieved, despite the status quo and defying whites' expectations/stereotypes.

AKA_Monet 05-12-2008 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by alum (Post 1650021)
I don't think the raising the bar statement implied that the bar was raised because a Caucasian happens to be the val. The bar was raised because an obviously bright, focused student was recruited to be part of the student body and that this recruit lived up to his potential. PWIs have recruited the best and brightest African-Americans for awhile. It stands to reason that HBCUs would do the same for their non-focus populations.

I think the reporter added her own inflection on that. The rest of America does not cherish or appreciate the grandeur of Morehouse like some of us do. This young man was accepted to Cornell? however he choose Morehouse instead and used all the resources that the House had to offer and took advantage of what they had to offer, too. I don't knock him for that. But The 'House is doing damage control after incidences occurred on campus. That is why this kinna thing is being publicized. Should dude be highlighted, sure! I think it is awesome to see any young person obtaining their dream. However, we in the business all know why Morehouse is doing this.

Senusret I 05-12-2008 05:14 PM

On a related note, my school didn't need to have a Valedictorian as you'd all be working for us some day anyway.

Little32 05-12-2008 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1650032)
You will rarely find a PWI or other predominantly white institution to praise blacks by saying "the bar was raised." Usually, blacks will be celebrated for excelling and working harder to achieve, what their white counterparts have already achieved, despite the status quo and defying whites' expectations/stereotypes.


I was just thinking/saying this.

DSTCHAOS 05-12-2008 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1650024)
but they've overcome so much and have had so much disadvantage in this country. he is one of the "good ones." not like the rest.

Yeah, no one would've expected a white man to come out on top.

Not taking anything away from this bright (and fine) young man and how hard he worked, of course.

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1650024)
and i should punch you in the boob for looking at another man.

I think I'm insulted right now but I still wuv u.

*****

Minority members in the IFC and NPC...ready...set...go!!!!

starang21 05-12-2008 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1650037)
Yeah, no one would've expected a white man to come out on top.

Not taking anything away from this bright (and fine) young man and how hard he worked, of course.



I think I'm insulted right now but I still wuv u.

*****

Minority members in the IFC and NPC...ready...set...go!!!!

:unsure:

i'm jealous.

oh yea, my frat is very diverse. we have 3 filipinos.

Unregistered- 05-12-2008 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1650040)
:unsure:

i'm jealous.

oh yea, my frat is very diverse. we have 3 filipinos.

Do you have TFC there?

Wowowee filmed here on Saturday as part of their US Tour. 20,000 Filipinos showed up.

starang21 05-12-2008 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1650048)
Do you have TFC there?

Wowowee filmed here on Saturday as part of their US Tour. 20,000 Filipinos showed up.

does directtv have it? but naw, plus every damn show is "parental advisory"

hell naw.

Unregistered- 05-12-2008 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1650049)
does directtv have it? but naw, plus every damn show is "parental advisory"

hell naw.

Doesn't look like they have it: http://www.abs-cbni.com/programming/tfc/index.html

It's a variety/game show. They even have their own dancers:

http://www.talkstink.com/wp-content/...weedancers.jpg

http://www.talkstink.com/wp-content/...wowoeegals.jpg

I didn't know "Parental Advisory" is still around...?

starang21 05-12-2008 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1650051)
Doesn't look like they have it: http://www.abs-cbni.com/programming/tfc/index.html

It's a variety/game show. They even have their own dancers:

http://www.talkstink.com/wp-content/...weedancers.jpg

http://www.talkstink.com/wp-content/...wowoeegals.jpg

I didn't know "Parental Advisory" is still around...?

a couple cuties. so that's always positive.

preciousjeni 05-18-2008 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1650004)
hijack/

I was waiting for someone to post that. LOL.

That fine specimen of a man is a great news story. :D

But other than being the first white valedictorian, he's the typical Morehouse man. I didn't like the fact that an article said that he "raised the bar." He didn't because he is the typical super-accomplished Morehouse man and isn't the only valedictorian with a 4.0. And of course he isn't the only white man at Morehouse. His being the first white valedictorian is indicative of inclusion on the part of Morehouse and his peers but not indicative of any triumph of whites amidst systemic adversity. Race, gender, and other minority groups' firsts are celebrated because of triumph amidst structural adversity.

/end hijack

God bless you.

DSTCHAOS 05-18-2008 03:03 PM

Thanks for reminding me that I spelled "amidst" wrong TWICE in that post. Yikes. :eek:

preciousjeni 05-18-2008 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1653465)
Thanks for reminding me that I spelled "amidst" wrong TWICE in that post. Yikes. :eek:

I didn't even notice it, but don't you hate when that happens? LOL! I fixed it.

Wolfman 05-18-2008 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by breathesgelatin (Post 1649860)
I remember the summer I participated in a summer program that was a joint effort between W&L, Spelman, Morehouse, and Berea college. I already had great opinions of all these institutions, but I remember being really shocked at how preppy some of the Morehouse men were. These guys were more preppy than most W&L guys! In fact they could give the guys in the top fraternity at W&L a run for their money in terms of preppy/expensive/classy clothing, wealth, and general personal comportment and class. There were definitely guys like that at W&L too, but not guys that got accepted into the supposed "top" fraternities. I felt like some of the Morehouse guys in the program were probably the preppiest people I'd ever met. I'm sure that many of them were involved in NPHC orgs.

That was a really educational moment for me - I wasn't particularly preppy myself before I went to college - I went to a big redneck high school and wore jeans and tshirts and had even been sort of goth early on in high school. So when I first met "preppy" guys in college, I did indeed assume it was a "white" thing, but it's definitely not. If you think otherwise it's probably based on your own lack of experience.

At W&L every sorority had African American members, but the "top" fraternities did not. Although - the "top" sororities had fewer African American members. They basically took the richest African American girls.

This highlights the ignorance of many whites when it comes to all things "black." As most African Americans collegians know, Morehouse enrolls many students from top Northern prep schools, day schools and private schools from all over America. One major reason they want to go to Morehouse is to enjoy a high quality majority African American educational and social experience, which many have not had in their lives.

breathesgelatin 05-18-2008 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Wolfman (Post 1653569)
This highlights the ignorance of many whites when it comes to all things "black." As most African Americans collegians know, Morehouse enrolls many students from top Northern prep schools, day schools and private schools from all over America. One major reason they want to go to Morehouse is to enjoy a high quality majority African American educational and social experience, which many have not had in their lives.

Let me clarify. I never thought Morehouse wasn't a prestigious school. I just didn't realize how preppy its students were.

Wolfman 05-18-2008 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by breathesgelatin (Post 1653679)
Let me clarify. I never thought Morehouse wasn't a prestigious school. I just didn't realize how preppy its students were.

No, the point I was making concerned the social composition and dynamics of a school like Morehouse (and some other HBCUs), where, for some, there is an undercurrent of classism and cliquishness. I personally know of two people who transferred from "elite" HBCUs for this very reason. And a few years ago when I asked a former coworker about sending his academically talented daughter to Spelman, he bristled. He objected to her being subjected to this treatment there; he remarked that he'd rather her suffer this fate at a Public Ivy with snooty white people. (She went to UNC-Chapel Hill.)

Psi U MC Vito 05-19-2008 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 989621)
Whether it is implicit or explicit, the argument can be made that they do.



I have stuff to do and not enough time to wade through 14 pages of posts, but I want to get my two cents in.

Personally I HATE the term cultural organization. While some GLO's do tend to focus on one culture, they all have one thing in common. Well at least the social orgs like NIC, NPC, NPHC and NALFO. The primary purpose of all GLOs is to foster brotherhood and sisterhood between their members. I personally am a Latino and a member of a NIC GLO. Psi Upsilon like almost all NIC fraternities is considered to be for white people. However it does not promote the white culture. Hell my chapter is mostly minorities like myself.

On the same note I hate when people generalize based on stereotypes, which I think is what the OP was talking about. On my campus Psi U in the past has been mostly asian for a good period of time. So I told people I was pledging Psi U and I was told "Wait, isn't that the Asian Fraternity?" NICs have never been about one particular culture , instead just promoting brotherhood between those who joined, regardless of background. It has just happened that most fraternities have been established at predominantly white universities plus the fact that alot of NIC and NPC orgs have a rep for being white only.

DSTCHAOS 05-19-2008 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 1653877)
However it does not promote the white culture. Hell my chapter is mostly minorities like myself.

Then your experience will certainly be shaped by the dynamics of your chapter, right?

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 1653877)
It has just happened that most fraternities have been established at predominantly white universities plus the fact that alot of NIC and NPC orgs have a rep for being white only.

There are very few coincidences in life.

Psi U MC Vito 05-19-2008 02:32 PM

You have a point about that, my chapter experiences are shaped by the makeup. and ass for my second point that you quoted lets try something else.

Alot of NIC fraternities were founded at insitutes of higher education at a time when those of non white descent did not truly have the option of doing so themselves.

DSTCHAOS 05-19-2008 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 1654031)
You have a point about that, my chapter experiences are shaped by the makeup.

Good then you can understand my response to your second point:

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 1654031)
Alot of NIC fraternities were founded at insitutes of higher education at a time when those of non white descent did not truly have the option of doing so themselves.

There are very few coincidences in life.

What this means:
Your chapter experience, which (whether you admit it or not) factors into your overall sorority experience, is shaped by the chapter makeup. So there is no denying that the majority of NPC and IFCers' experiences are shaped in the same manner. The members do not call it a "cultural" experience or emphasis, but that's only because "whiteness" was considered an invisible race and ethnicity for so long because it was mainstream and majority. However, patterns of socialization and networking are important to pay attention to even if the organizations' philanthropies don't target the "white community."


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