Some ol' DC mess
 

HC I heard of something yesterday I'd never heard of before?
HC here in DC they have a name for the day after Easter?
HC it is called EASTER MONDAY?
HC what in the world??
HC some people have that day off?
HC some people barbeque (sp? is it a c instead of a q?)?
HC that is just too funny to me?
HC I want to know if yall have that anywhere else?
HC we didn't have this in the Midwest?

To: 1saavydiva
 

HC I usually don't post on the "HC threads"
HC when I read your post it touch me hardly!
HC I don't know you but I know what you're going through;) .

HC I've been there.
HC I was innocent and that nigga did me wrong.
HC "waiting to exhale" the movie had just came out round that time.
HC I played "how could you call her baby " by Shanna a thousand times.
HC I prayed but at times it felt like it wasn't working.
HC I had to keep pressing on even if I wanted to cry...whether it was in class, church, the nail shop or whereever.
HC I had to continue praying and praying.
HC I had friends and cousins who were really prepping me up and helping me through those gloomy days.
HC GOD gave me the strength to keep myself up and to keep myself looking cute, and neat.
HC I moved to Memphis and had a ball "rollout, rollout"
;) .
HC I met men in Memphis who'd ran trains around that nigga back home (wisdom,$$$,fun, attention)
HC I must admit those were some of the things I needed.
HC I learned to focus more on GOD and not even them.
HC I got married girl and my husband makes that nigga at home look like Denzel vs. shabba ranks:D :D
HC my wedding was wonderful and so is my platinum bling bling ring.
HC now that I look back over it the hurt was well worth it.
HC this is my story
HC you're going to be not fine........... but wonderful.
HC I'ma do you like my friends did me and say "girl go get your nails, toes, and hair done"
HC I'm telling you from experience.
HC I know you're be coming out on TOP if you keep GOD 1st.

Re: To: 1saavydiva
 

HC I SOOOOOO appreciate this post?

HC I am soooooo glad that my SF's cared enough to post and offer advice.
HC I still haven't said anything, but HC he can tell that something has changed?
HC I don't know exactly how I am going to break it off, I have to work up the nerve.
HC I am not going to degrade myself by calling the girl back because it's not her fault
HC since then, I have noticed all the time that he has been 'incogNEGRO'.
HC I had been sick all weekend and haven't had the energy to do or say anything
HC I just ate my first meal since Friday?
HC I never thought I would be strung out like this?
HC I still know that it will be alright

HC Thank you to all my SFs who sent me email or PMs...thank you sooo much it was taken to heart!

HC my husband just spoke with one of the police officers at the scene of my accident.
HC the police officer confirmed that the accident was NOT my fault.
HC the other people have full coverage AAA insurance.
HC I knew that already, but am relieved by that confirmation that the other driver was at fault.
HC it's time to go car shopping. :D

HC I prayed for you yesterday at church?
HC I asked the Lord to watch over you?
HC I thanked Him b/c you were ok?
HC I'm glad you got confirmation regarding the accident?
HC Time for you to get a new set of wheels?? :D

HC Black folks don't realize that it is a privilege to vote?

HC a lot of us don't take advantage of this privilege?

HC years ago, we weren't even considered to be a whole person?

HC we have come a long way?

HC we have a long way to go?

HC exercising your right to VOTE can help us in that journey?

HC people just don't see this?

HC the republicans SWEPT the state of SC for the most part?

HC Steve Benjamin was very close to becoming the first BLACK Attorney General for SC (and he is a member of Kappa Alpha Psi...do you think all of his frat brothers exercised their right?:confused: )

HC this shows that a lot of us did get out and vote?

HC it's still not enough?

HC I need some ideas, I want to get on the soapbox on campus next semester to DRILL the importance of just ONE vote to my fellow students?

HC IF YOU DON'T VOTE, YOU CANNOT COMPLAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HC IF YOU DON'T VOTE YOU CAN'T COMPLAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HC IF YOU DON'T VOT YOU CAN'T COMPLAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!

1savvydiva,

HC I feel your pain too.
HC just a few months ago, I went through something similar
HC I’ve known my ex all my life
HC he was my best friend 10 years before we got together
HC he proposed to me in March
HC April he’s sleeping with a coworker
HC May she’s pregnant and emailing me at work
HC I’ve never been hurt like that before
HC it felt like a dagger went straight through my heart
HC the Holy Spirit was speaking to me
HC in my prayer, I asked God if marrying my “then boyfriend” was his will for my life (before I knew about the girl)
HC that’s when ALL the skeletons fell out the closet
HC I attended a conference and the guest minister preached “How to Go Forward”
HC I received my rhema word (a word that speaks directly to your situation)
HC I got my praise on for it
HC that was a rough period for me
HC he was the only one that I talked to about everything because we’ve known each other all our lives
HC I didn’t want to talk to my girls about it
HC they were having troubles of their own
HC I don’t like pity parties anyway
HC this fool calls and leaves messages at least 3 times a day.
HC on one message he said, God said, “I am his wife”
HC God didn’t send me that memo
HC I can’t be with someone who has not one, but TWO BABY MOMMAS
HC I know I deserve better
HC looking back, I realized I settled and accepted a lot of mess that I didn’t have to take
HC that was because I didn’t want to lose my friend
HC with time, tears, and much prayer, I’ve found God to be a healer!
HC I can say I feel much better about the situation
HC up until then, I never experienced drama in a relationship
HC this is merely a glimpse of the story
HC I’m about to change the subject
HC I made it just in the nick of time to vote yesterday
HC traffic was crazy
HC all I got was a little piece of paper that said thank you for voting
HC my coworkers of the other persuasion received stickers
HC the Democrats won just about every available seat
HC I feel a change comin’ on
HC I hope it’s for the better
HC I rarely get to visit GC
HC I have to get back to work
HC bye

Voting HCs
 

HC I feel ya, 1savvydiva?
HC I made sure to do the absentee while I’m away from home?
HC I went out w/ the Urban League to do voter reg. In September?
HC this one lady made us shake our heads?
HC she was in her fifties?
HC when we asked her had she registered, she said, “No”?
HC one of us said it was important?
HC her reply was “in all my years, I ain’t never voted, don’t want to vote, and ain’t gon’ vote”?
HC folks fought too hard to get us this privilege and some folks just don’t care?
HC we expected responses like that from people in their 20’s & 30’s, but not someone in her 50’s?
HC it was a damn shame?
HC you’re right, 1savvydiva, we’ve got a loooonnnng way to go?
HC it rained here yesterday in Indiana?
HC I knew that meant the voter turnout will be low?
HC it was?
HC republicans pretty much took this state?
HC **shaking my head** http://www.click-smilie.de/sammlung/.../aktion053.gif

How come........................................

I FAILED a test today?
I went BLANK?
I studied for that dayum test for WEEKS?
I cried like a baby afterwards because I KNEW the info?
It's over now?
I'm glad it's not hanging over my head anymore?
CT4 is a wonderful friend?
She always encourages me?
She brightened my day today more than she knows?
She always does that?
Ideal has a way of doing that too?
I've noticed how close her walk with God has become?
I'm proud?
It's making her so much stronger?
She shakes off the BS?
WONDERFUL08 isn't around often?
She hasn't called in a while?
Imma send out an APB?
The semester is almost over yall?
I can't wait?
We're throwing down for my birfday/Thanksgiving?
Fried turkey, baked macaroni, cornbread dressing, green beans, gumbo, ham, smoked roast, potato salad, Three layer yellow cake (from scratch) and fresh chocolate frosting, pecan candy, sweetpotato pie, lemon chess pie, cheesecake, stuffed bell peppers etc?
I can't wait?
Diet be-gone?
My whole family is coming down?
I can't wait to see them?
I know I won't be able to wait to send them back?
Goodnight all?

HOW COME :(
HC BLANK MIND:(
HC you are still exquizitly precious?
HC 6 more months?
HC kick box your way to the degree?

HC TTTTTTTTTT GGGGGGGGGG IIIIIIIIIII FFFFFFFFFFF?
HC I am soooooooooo sleepy?
HC I was in the bed and sleep by 8:00?
HC I am still sleepy as all get out?

HC have a good one yall?
HC today is CT4 Beautification Day? :D
HC Blind Date tomorrow?
HC the "I MISS YOU MAN" from 3 weeks ago is now the Never Gonna Get It Man?
HC when you snooze you lose SUCKA?:o

HC the man i have a date with has a child?
HC that is such a no no on my list of qualifications?
HC but I will go to get out of the house and make a new friend?
HC nothing against baby mama's and daddy's because I love some of yall but I don't want to walk into drama and ready made families?
HC we'll see?
HC one day at a time?

HC CT4 should not dismiss the brotha with the child?
HC even if you too don't hit it off, he has FRIENDS :D?
HC :D?
HC I haven't HC"d in a while?
HC I think I am anemic?
HC I have been "tired than a mofo" for the last 3 weeks?
HC it hit me yesterday that I eat little meat?
HC because I am "on the go like Mo" all the time?
HC I am sic of 8 Mile already and the movie just came out?
HC I do not plan to see it?
HC a movie about how hard a white boy had it on the streets :rolleyes: just doesn't sound appealing to me?
HC BOOO!
HC the racist group called the National Socialist Movement is wanting to have a rally here?
HC BOOOO!
HC what really pisses me off is the fact that they want to have it at a park that is DIRECTLY across the street from my apartment complex? :mad:
HC I don't want that bullsh*t in my neighborhood, take that mess somewhere else! :mad:
HC :mad:
HC I plan on joining the counter-protest?
HC take that !!!!
HC I am almost (2 gifts left to buy) Christmas shopping?
HC YEA!!!! :)
HC it feels so good to not have that hanging over my head?
HC I do not feel good today?
HC I think my allergies/sinus is acting up today?
HC ???

HC the movie wasn't that bad actually?
HC he doesn't really portray a hard white boy at all?
HC he is pretty vulnerable in the movie?
HC my upbringing ALMOST mirrored his character in the movie's?
HC I liked the film?
HC it wasn't the bomb, but it definitely made sense to me?

HC I wanna know how CT4's blind date went?
HC it musta been lovely if they should be illegal? LOL :D

HC I want to know too? :)
HC is he a keeper or a sleeper? :p
HC, CT4, HC????
HC today is going by sooooo slow?
HC I just want to go home and crawl into bed, watch Judge Mathis and eat some kettle corn?
HC what's up with Judge Mathis's glasses?
HC he didn't get the memo about Hammer glasses being soo passe?
HC Judge Mathis, HC?
HC y'all know he can afford a new pair?
HC I like 702's new song?
HC I am soooo tired of J-Ho?
HC why J-Ho?
HC I heard that she is being sued over the name of her perfume?
HC I want to know if anyone has smelled it and what does it smell like?
HC there is a song called "Tell me what that thang smell like"?
HC GROSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HC GROSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HC if I could get the "puke" smilie, I would use it right here?
HC I have been like "The Rambler" on here?
HC I'm out?
HC I need to get back to work?
HC, yeah right....I leave in 30 minutes :D?
HC I think I will shuffle a few papers for the next 30 minutes?
HC, PEACE!!

HC that song is not new, lol?
HC it has been out in Fla for a hot minute?
HC I really thought it would stay in Miami?
HC it escaped? :(

HC it became a pick up line of sorts?
HC walk through the mall..."ay, gul, what that thang smell like?"
HC thank god it is over?
HC now the people who are just hearing the song will have to experience it?
HC HC HC, FL?!?
HC for Khia and for Black Jesus (what that thang...)?
HC there is lots more that really does stay here and everyone should be glad it does?!

HC NEVER NO MORE?
HC NEVER AGAIN?
HC Folks THINK they know you?
HC stay single forever before I date this mofo?

HC math time?
HC COWBOY BOOTS + HAMBURGER HELPER + NO POTS & PANS + INVADING MY PERSONAL SPACE + TALKING DURING THE MOVIE = Please lose my number?

HC I got CUTE for this mofo?
HC I bought a new outfit for this date?
HC I coulda wore any old thang?

HC no more blind dates EVER?

HC....

Some folks have not yet grasped the concept of effective communication?


HC....

I'm going to drop the Hot a$$ vocabulary word on y'all to better assist folks with their communication skills?

HC.....

That word is:

1. ***TACT - http://www.plauder-smilies.de/person/znaika.gif Acute sensitivity to what is proper and appropriate in dealing with others, including the ability to speak or act without offending***

HC....

I AM NOT THE ONE http://www.plauder-smilies.de/nono.gif to be wretchin' around (Y'all saw Kings of Comedy) with ill-mannered, discourteous people


HC....


Folks should either "approach" me correctly...or NOT AT ALL

Bye Bye Now http://www.plauder-smilies.de/wavey.gif

And we wonder how the CEOs can do it!
 

HC....


It's almost frightening that people can abuse insignificant power too http://www.plauder-smilies.de/lach.gif

(It's never THAT serious...is it? http://www.plauder-smilies.de/rofl.gif)

It's because I'm black, right?

Ooh Ooh http://www.plauder-smilies.de/party/luxhello.gif Can I be down? I wanna delete posts too!

Boy...I just love my people http://www.plauder-smilies.de/remybussi.gif

HC I smelled J. Lo Glow?

HC I thought it smelled like stanky boo-boo? :mad:

HC she is getting married yet again :confused:

HC Honeykiss that I too am so sick of her?!?

HC Sexy Mocha seems ticked?
HC????? HC????? HC????? :confused:

HC I"m lol at Gina1201!!!!!!:D (She didn't say stanky boo-boo, did she?!!)
HC I'm REALLY not liking my job right about now?
HC I only like one person there and that's b/c he's HELLA cool (i.e. pretty fly for a white guy)??
HC I tightened up my resume and cover letters and sent 2 out last week?
HC my office manager went on vacation --FOR A WEEK-- one week before an audit?:confused:
HC the office aint nowhere NEAR ready for an audit?
HC I am PRAYING that I get an interview at some other place?

relax relate release
 

HC Sexy Mocha seems a bit perturbed
HC What's wrong gurl
HC You know I work in NYC
HC you know I'll get somebody for ya!
HC I'm so protective of my GC sistafriends
HC:D

HC Cowboy boots? :eek: :eek: :eek:
HC At least he didn't have a S-Currl

Re: relax relate release
 

HC I did just what you suggested Toocute?

HC I http://www.plauder-smilies.de/sleep2.gif...http://www.plauder-smilies.de/user.gif, http://www.plauder-smilies.de/person/phone.gif....and http://www.plauder-smilies.de/angel2.gif


Dionysus,

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HC it is CLEARLY time for a new hc thread?
HC I am on it right now?
HC I have been str8 lazy about this?