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My GPA is a 2.9. I barely miss having a 3.0. It’s not the greatest but I don’t think my GPA is the problem. I KNOW my age was a problem, I knew going into it that it might be held against me. However, my letters of recommendation were excellent and my application was great. So I thought I may still have a chance. I don’t understand how you can tell me that you don’t know why I was turned down, yet you keep assuming that it was my GPA and my poor grammar on a chat. And every time someone supports me or gives me good advice you attack them.
I also know that to start the process of adding another organization on campus, someone (i.e. ME) has to show interest and a willingness to move forward with it. I can’t do it on my own and I know that and I also know that it will be a long process. However, it is a process that I’m willing to do. And that’s all that matters. Not what you say on here. |
We can tell you that we don't know why you didn't receive a bid, because the member selection process of every sorority is private.
Unless we were present with those sororities when they made their invite lists, we really don't know. We can speculate, but that's all we can do. We will never know for sure (and really neither will you). We're not being negative when we say that, it's just that we honetly don't know. Best of luck to you in your future endeavors. |
seriously utcutie315? are you going to hijack yet another thread ?
don't make me page teh triad! WE CANNOT TELL YOU WHY YOU WERE CUT. You can dwell on it and speculate all you want, but no one here knows and neither do you. The only people who know are the girls who were in MS, and even if you asked them, they can't tell you. |
Wow - busy night!
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I just don't understand that the speculations that are being made are putting me down or making me look bad. All I ever said was that my GPA was higher than what was asked. No one knew that my actual GPA was a 2.9. I just felt like I was being attacked, and I didn't really appriciate it. Is it not possible that I could have met every qualification and still been dropped? Why does it have to be because of something I did or could have done wrong?
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^^ Your thread (actually it was someone else's thread that you hijacked) was closed.
Let's close the book on why you were cut. We don't know. You don't know. Maybe the sororities have some super secret qualification that they are looking for that you didn't meet. You don't know what they are looking for in sisters. Maybe you "met the qualifications"... maybe you didn't. Once again, NO ONE KNOWS BUT THEM. |
I understand that you do not know. I wasn't asking why? I was asking what kind of options do I still have.
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I'm confused on what you mean when you say, hijacked a thread. Sorry if I did something wrong.
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How about you read the responses that were given to the OP? There are FOUR pages prior to this one.
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Miranda Hobbes has been quoted here often (I forget the dude's name who wrote the book, so yes, I'm quoting a fictional character), and I believe that theory is what most likely applies: the NPC chapters at your school just aren't that into you. Life sucks at times. There are obstacles in the road. Get a helmet, plow through. You are likely not going to be greek during your college years, and I'm sorry about that because you've made it clear you would like to have been. It's not the end of the world. So either just recommit to trying again next year or move on, re-engaging the same discussion over and over again on this board is going to get you nowhere. As the last couple days have sufficiently proven. |
Something to think about:
Just because someone's GPA is above the minimum, doesn't mean they automatically get a bid. At most schools, ALL of the girls going through are above the minimum 2.5. There are other factors that play into it. Not every girl whose GPA is above the min. gets a bid. These other factors include how involved the girl is on campus, how she presents herself in recruitment rounds, etc. There's alot of things, not just GPA being above the minimum. |
Am I missing something or is utcutie the OP.
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lol you're not... i thought the OP was someone else and ut was hijacking another thread LOL
my bad. Seriously though, in the first few replies people have told her: Quote:
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