whether I had it short or long...I have never liked weaves...I like women natural....

I think that the more fakeness there is, the more is trying to be compensated.

I don't know your interests and personality. But you'll find a woman who can deal with all of that, if you haven't found her already. :)

He's talking about cheerfulgreek. :)

yeah....ssuuuuuuurrrreee....why not....? too much drama?


hahahahah

And paranoia is always creative. ;)

1. Ugly
2. Fake
3. Hoochie looking

Anything else to add? LOL.

get outta my head.

I hinted at this earlier. I'm desperately seeking someone with the same level ambition. As for education, a bachelor's degree is fine. I'm three months away from getting my Master's, I usually attract those with community/career college educations (if I'm lucky). I consider my level of ambition to be average (perhaps realistic). I'm seeking a 9 to 5 job, and starting a small business on the side when I graduate. I attract those with really low ambition (doesn't mind working at a gas station forever) or those with really high ambition (wants to be come a professional athlete or musician). I don't consider my standards for education and ambition that high. What is going on?

What a funny dealbreaker!

Get out more. No, really. I can see not feeling comfortable with certain people as a group, that's pretty natural. But, it's not impossible to find someone as an individual from an different ethnic group that you feel comfortable with. Throwing out whole racial/ethnic groups really shrinks your dating pool.

Yes, that's a big turn-off for me also.

But, they are rumored to be better in bed. :p I think someone with a nipple (or whatever) piercing would do more freaky things. I might be wrong though.

Not necessarily so...just because you got extra tools to use doesn't mean that one is adept at using them ;)

Tyra had an excellent show on this that I caught on Oxygen yesterday. :) It spoke to this thread excellently.

While I despise "social experiments" done by talk shows, this one was interesting enough to spark dialogue.

This very sexy Asian man (not "starang21 sexy" but close) on the experiment panel made a point to announce that not all Asian men are nerds with small penises. The fact that he felt the NEED to announce that is crazy, but oh well. Toward the end, the panelists had to choose panelists to ask to be their fake life partners. All the women declined the Asian man's offer of life partnership because he's Asian. :(

but they are smart cumputer geeks with great martial arts skills and make lots of money by funneling it thru the Yakuza...what more could a woman ask for?

As I get older, I have been surprised at who I've become attracted to. Yes, there are men with receding hairlines that I have found very attractive in recent years. I never would've guessed that would happen! (although I did always find myself more attracted to eyes and smiles than anything else).

I also think we end up with more deal breakers over time, but they change as we learn from experience.

Perfect guy for me.. this guy that keeps showing up in my dreams. I'm waiting for the day I actually meet him in person!

But seriously. I'm getting to a point where I really like being alone. I can't imagine having to share a closet with someone else. I want to sit where I want and be in charge of the remote all the time. I don't want to work around someone else. The longer I'm single, the worse it gets.. more set in my ways. So now? I think a long term, every other weekend relationship sounds perfect. I'll see him more when the kids are grown and moved out. He can even move into the house next door to me, but please don't make me do his laundry.