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I don't want PNMs to get the impression that they can rush with a 1.9 and get a bid because that is the exception, not the rule. At most schools, you would get cut IMMEDIATELY. |
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33Girl,
I guess you're right, but the thing about your example is that the PNM really doesn't have a shot at the one she wants anyway. If she's sure, she should suicide because she won't get them as an addition. And if the other group usually goes through almost their whole bid list to match to quota, she'll probably match to them anyway in regular big matching, never even getting to QA. For a girl who is interested in joining a group and is willing to give all the groups a try, then quota additions and guaranteed matching are great things but they don't guarantee a bid at your top choice or the big certainly would get bigger. It does seem that quota additions could really help some girls who used to "mismatch." Let's say a girl prefs three middle groups all of whom she'd happily take a bid from. In the olden days, her ranking the groups differently than where she was on their bid lists really could have affected her outcome IF all groups matched to quota before going all the way through their lists. Now with quota additions, this girl would still get matched to a group that she wanted and that wanted her. (Right? It's the historic example that I'm not sure of. I'm fascinated by bid matching, but I can never be sure I understand it.) At so many competitive rushes, PNM have to decide at some point to go with the groups that want them or to drop. There's not much they can do to get picked up by their top choices. |
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That said, while I was active, my chapter took a new member via COB, and she had a GPA lower than 2.0. (She was a second semester freshman when she pledged, so she only had 1 semester's GPA under her belt. Also, she did not initiate until that second semester's grades were in and brought her cumulative up substantially. But, she did pledge w/a sub 2.0 GPA.) However, she had 2 very close friends from HS in the house who really fought for her. She actually ended up being a good member, went on to graduate school, and has a fairly prestigious job these days. (I'll decline to say specifically what she does, for her privacy's sake.) She was very, very much the exception and not the rule though. |
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Sorry for the double-post, but a couple of comments:
1) A PNM should NOT list a chapter that they would not accept a bid from under any circumstances. Usually, if a PNM absolutely hate hate hates a chapter, it is because they are the small/weak chapter on campus. If you list them on your bid card, you will match there before you will be a QA to your favorite group. The only way to be a QA is if all the chapters you pref make quota. 2) Getting "cross-cut" is a bit of a myth. That is not exactly how bid matching works. You should put your first choice chapter first, rather than trying to guess where you are on some chapter's bid list. 3) Please remember that campus rules trump the Green Book, so do not take anything as the gospel because you saw it here. Go ask your Greek Life office. |
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In the second scenario you listed, it may not be that they didn't think she was a good fit...they just don't know her well enough yet. If they invite her to a COB event to get to know her a little better, they might fall in love with her and realize that they almost missed out during formal recruitment. In the first scenario, the group already feels like they know her (one would assume if you're going to go to the trouble of dirty rushing a PNM like that, you feel like you know her well enough)...even though they already feel like they know and like her, they just don't like her enough to rank her high on their list. In one scenario, they don't realize what they're missing out on. In the other scenario, they're well aware that they could be taking the risk of losing her by not placing her on the 1st bid list, and they go ahead and take that risk anyhow. |
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Yeah - kinda that, and the fact that in the dirty rush scenario, that GLO would be sabotaging the rest of the PNMs rush, so she wouldn't even get a CHANCE to place with other houses. If they like a PNM enough that they would want her to ruin the rest of her rush experience, and her possible future as a Greek if they don't follow through and either QA or COB her, then she should be insulted that she wouldn't be high enough to make it on their first bid list. To me, it's all about intention. If you rush fairly, don't get a bid due to your favorite group hitting quota, but then are picked up in COB because they still have spots to fill to hit total, great. It's not so much that you get in NUMBER ONE on the bid list, but that you get in because you truly belong there and gave all the other houses a chance as well. But, I'll freely admit that I don't come from a university where Greek life is the end-all-to-be-all and PNMs would sacrafice their first born to get in. |
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1. Large Chapter 2. Small Chapter 3. Large Chapter 4. Small Chapter 5. Large Chapter 6. Large Chapter 7. Medium Chapter And my pref carf was: 1. Small Chapter 2. Large Chapter Although, I guess we've already established that I'm not the norm when it comes to recruitment.;):p |
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Can you take someone you released before pref as a quota addition or do they have to have attended your pref? And yes, hating a chapter has nothing to do with it being small or weak a lot of the time. It can have to do with things like the chapter having a rep for hazing. |
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And...as for this girl with the 1.9 GPA, I remember her specifically because she was hated by one of my pledge sisters. They apparently dated the same guy! Hard to forget someone you talked extensively about. Also, I know for sure what the grades were in my rho chi group. I did advise them during rush that they should not be surprised if they were cut (I knew my own chapter's rules) but imagine my surprise (and relief!) when most of them got bids! |
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With respect to quota additions, the women do have to have attended preference at the chapter to be a quota addition to that chapter. |
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