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KAY10 09-14-2006 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by _Opi_ (Post 1319773)
I would threaten divorce until he cleaned his act up :)

What if he never cleaned his act up? Would you follow through with the divorce?

_Opi_ 09-14-2006 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1320298)
What if he never cleaned his act up? Would you follow through with the divorce?

I usually keep my word ;) It all really depends on how bad it gets..there's plenty of fish in the sea, ya know.

DSTRen13 09-14-2006 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1320295)
So if his breath smelled like 10lbs of chitlins(LOL) all the time, even if he used listerine it still smelled, you would still stay with him? What if you didn't have any kids with him? Then would you let him go?

If everything I tried just didn't work, then I would divorce him, especially if we had kids. That kind of thing is an awful example to be setting for your kids, I wouldn't want them to turn out all nasty too.

mulattogyrl 09-14-2006 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1320295)
So if his breath smelled like 10lbs of chitlins(LOL) all the time, even if he used listerine it still smelled, you would still stay with him? What if you didn't have any kids with him? Then would you let him go?


I just saw this. LMAO. Why it gotta be 10 lbs. of chitlins? LOL!!!

KAY10 09-18-2006 04:50 AM

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Originally Posted by mulattogyrl (Post 1320614)
I just saw this. LMAO. Why it gotta be 10 lbs. of chitlins? LOL!!!

What else would smell worse? LOL. Oh, I guess smelling like spoiled lunch meat could be worse. LOL:p

icebrain 09-18-2006 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTRen13 (Post 1319730)
This wasn't directed at me, but what the heck ...

If my SO starts to disintegrate and get all nasty, I'm not going to divorce him over it, but hopefully he'll start wondering why he stopped getting any and clean his azz up. Otherwise, I guess I'd have to be more direct about it and try to force him to clean up, because I don't want to even live in the same house as somebody with bad hygiene issues and doesn't take care of himself. Ew. 'Specially if we have kids. (Sets a bad example and all that.)

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Hey--I've gotten better! Though if by "starts to disintegrate" you mean "will need knee replacements" I guess I'm screwed...

edler314 09-21-2006 07:30 PM

The thing that I try to stray away from is a girl with a lot of moles on her. I feel bad because then my eyes start to stray towards the moles and I don't want to focus on that.

Another thing to ask the girls they mention they want a clean guy but not a feminine one. I have not done this, nor probably will but a man that gets pedicures is this a no no? or a man that uses lotion to have smooth hands is this a no no as well?

Sophist08edLady 09-21-2006 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by edler314 (Post 1325191)
The thing that I try to stray away from is a girl with a lot of moles on her. I feel bad because then my eyes start to stray towards the moles and I don't want to focus on that.

Another thing to ask the girls they mention they want a clean guy but not a feminine one. I have not done this, nor probably will but a man that gets pedicures is this a no no? or a man that uses lotion to have smooth hands is this a no no as well?

I like a man that is well groomed....but when you start to out do me...that's a problem.
Example:
1. If we go to the same hairdresser...problem
2. If you gossip more than one of my friends and start of a convo with, "what in the world is she wearing"...problem
3. If you are trying to dress me and pick out my outfits....problem
4. If you hog the mirror from me....we gonna have to fight, b/c the mirror is MINE!

RU OX Alum 09-21-2006 09:37 PM

:) I don't know if this is physical apperance or attitude but anyone that doesn't take care of herself or doesn't eat right or exersise regularlry. Not saying she has to be a supermodel rail thin chick but I like to be the bigger one.

thesweetestone 09-23-2006 01:15 AM

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Originally Posted by adpiucf (Post 1317850)
This reminds me of the Seinfeld date episode where Jerry refuses to date a woman because she has "man hands!"

That episode was too funny! "She had man Hands" lol

KAY10 09-25-2006 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Sophist08edLady (Post 1325204)
I like a man that is well groomed....but when you start to out do me...that's a problem.
Example:
1. If we go to the same hairdresser...problem
2. If you gossip more than one of my friends and start of a convo with, "what in the world is she wearing"...problem
3. If you are trying to dress me and pick out my outfits....problem
4. If you hog the mirror from me....we gonna have to fight, b/c the mirror is MINE!

What if he wanted to pick out an outfit for you to wear that turned him on? Would that bother you?
What if he was getting his hair cut at the same hairdresser before he met you? Would you still be with him?
Daaaaaaaaaaaaamn!!!!!!!!!!!! A brotha can't even check himself out in mirror???? LOL

KAY10 09-25-2006 12:23 AM

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Originally Posted by RU OX Alum (Post 1325313)
:) I don't know if this is physical apperance or attitude but anyone that doesn't take care of herself or doesn't eat right or exersise regularlry. Not saying she has to be a supermodel rail thin chick but I like to be the bigger one.

Do you consider eating chitlins, fatback and stuff like that unhealthy? What if she looked good but could destroy a bowl of greens and fatback in 2 minutes. Would you still be with her? LOL.

Langox510x 09-28-2006 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by f8nacn (Post 1309329)
Someone:

- crooked teeth/funked up smile
- overly obese
- too skinny (when they don't have any muscle tone)

Agreed

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Originally Posted by WVU alpha phi (Post 1309289)
Pale, extremely freckled, red hair...

Agreed. I'd date a girl with red hair if she was hot, but 99/100 times that isn't the case.


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Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1309283)
I won't date women who have the following.

Fake finger nails.
Fake hair.
Kankles
Ugly feet
and hairy legs. Gross.:eek:


Agreed

valkyrie 09-28-2006 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1326908)
What if he wanted to pick out an outfit for you to wear that turned him on? Would that bother you?

That's creepy.

Sophist08edLady 09-28-2006 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1326908)
What if he wanted to pick out an outfit for you to wear that turned him on? Would that bother you?
What if he was getting his hair cut at the same hairdresser before he met you? Would you still be with him?
Daaaaaaaaaaaaamn!!!!!!!!!!!! A brotha can't even check himself out in mirror???? LOL

You may make a suggestion on an outfit, but anything other than that is NO and quite frankly just plain Ike Turnerish.
No man should be going to my hair dresser. She does women's hair...so if a man was to go to her that would mean that his hair style has some feminine quallities to it....NO THANK YOU!


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