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PrettyBoy 10-27-2006 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1345219)
Well you will be missing out on a lot of good women then.

But maybe women won't want to be with you because you call them "babe." :eek: ;)

LOL. I get my share of ladies.

PrettyBoy 10-27-2006 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by delph998 (Post 1345183)
Okay, Pretty Boy! I guess I believe you.

I think that men and women can truly be just friends; however in most cases, one person likes the other.

delph998 I can't agree with you more. Someone likes someone for more than friends. You are so right.

PrettyBoy 10-27-2006 01:52 AM

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Originally Posted by delph998 (Post 1345748)
I love it! :D

On a serious note, my father tells me all of the time that I have too many male friends and that may prohibit me from being in a relationship. I've cut a lot of these friends down over time.

Good girl, good girl. Keep kuttin' those male friends back.:p

DSTCHAOS 10-27-2006 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1346871)
LOL. I get my share of ladies.

LOL. :rolleyes: ;)


"All hail, to the King of Hypermasculinity...they all bow down to your prowess."

delph998 10-27-2006 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1346873)
Good girl, good girl. Keep kuttin' those male friends back.:p

You're something else, PB! :)

PhrozenGod01 10-27-2006 01:25 PM

I'm not sure if it was mentioned earlier in the thread, but the only female friends who are seriously "just friends" are the sisters, cousins, and girlfriends of friends that I already have. And if my friends broke up with their girlfriends that I'm cool with, those females wouldn't be my friends any more. I'd be nice to them, but there wouldn't be much to talk about. It's a simple "man law" *looks at clock, gets more impatient for happy hour*

ShamikaT 10-27-2006 02:04 PM

I DO NOT allow my beaus to have female friends for the reasons mentioned in this thread. If I ever find out, I WILL chop him up and throw him down the garbage disposal! I do not play with that mess.

DSTCHAOS 10-27-2006 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by ShamikaT (Post 1347115)
I DO NOT allow my beaus to have female friends for the reasons mentioned in this thread. If I ever find out, I WILL chop him up and throw him down the garbage disposal! I do not play with that mess.

Geesh. Good luck on being able to control which gender a grown ass man's friends are. :rolleyes: He'll still befriend women, he just won't tell YOU about it.

And while he's lying to you about not having platonic friendships with women, he'll just go ahead and cheat on you too since he's getting away with hiding something anyway and will be "chopped up" whether it's platonic or not. :D

delph998 10-27-2006 02:47 PM

I agree with DSTChaos.

You can't control what your significant other is doing when you all are not together. Trust is a huge component of a successful relationship. And if you have those ground rules before you get into the relationship, you may not need to be with him.

AKA_Monet 10-27-2006 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by PhrozenGod01 (Post 1347069)
I'm not sure if it was mentioned earlier in the thread, but the only female friends who are seriously "just friends" are the sisters, cousins, and girlfriends of friends that I already have. And if my friends broke up with their girlfriends that I'm cool with, those females wouldn't be my friends any more. I'd be nice to them, but there wouldn't be much to talk about. It's a simple "man law" *looks at clock, gets more impatient for happy hour*

Are you married? Just asking...

























LADIES, THIS MAN IS READDDYYYY!!!!

AKA_Monet 10-27-2006 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1341320)
I don't think men and women can be friends. They can be associates but not friends. Well...maybe in some rare cases, but I've never had that luck. I've tried to be friends with women and they always have wanted more. They'll seem to be friends with me, but as soon as I find interest in another woman as more than friends, they get jealous, and the whole time I'm thinking "Wow, I thought we were just friends.":(

I'm sorry, but you post that kinna thing, I havta see it to believe it...

You are talkin' good game but are you willin' to put dem "nutz" on the table lak dat dere?

Show me how "pretty" you are? And nunna this stuff where I do it first... 'Cuz folks who are on here know me... And you're single and turning girls on... I'm not.

PhrozenGod01 10-27-2006 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1347215)
Are you married? Just asking...

























LADIES, THIS MAN IS READDDYYYY!!!!

I'm way too young to be married. Maybe not too young, but way too immature. Maybe in a few years, when I've worked longer and act more responsible.

AKA_Monet 10-27-2006 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by PhrozenGod01 (Post 1347258)
I'm way too young to be married. Maybe not too young, but way too immature. Maybe in a few years, when I've worked longer and act more responsible.

Yeah... Whatever... ;)

Homegirl plays her cards right with you, you'd go down on bended knee... :)

DSTCHAOS 10-27-2006 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by PhrozenGod01 (Post 1347258)
I'm way too young to be married. Maybe not too young, but way too immature.


I figured you were too young and most men don't get mature enough until they are in their mid-20s to 30s. :D

I respect anyone who can admit to needing more life experiences before making a life commitment like that. ;)

PhrozenGod01 10-27-2006 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1347261)
Yeah... Whatever... ;)

Homegirl plays her cards right with you, you'd go down on bended knee... :)

If by playing her cards right, you mean she bought me an XBox 360, I'd think about it. I am so kidding. She'd have to buy me some games too. :cool:



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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1347264)
I figured you were too young and most men don't get mature enough until they are in their mid-20s to 30s. :D

I respect anyone who can admit to needing more life experiences before making a life commitment like that. ;)


I don't know. I can be in a mature relationship, but marriage is probably less about love and more about business in my eyes. When I listen to people much older than me, and seemingly much more thorough, vent about marriage/family issues, I can only nod my head and pretend to understand.


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