valkyrie |
06-30-2005 11:34 PM |
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Originally posted by kstar
Excuse me?
That's fuc*ing rude.
Just because I believe that children should stay at home until they are old enough to behave?
My godchild hasn't been out in public (except to the doctor) in the entire 7 months she's been alive. That way she can get fed, changed, and such when she needs it and doesn't have to wait until mommy is in a good place. (Since the mommy is polite enough not to flash people in public.) She's been to new places, such as my house and other relatives houses, so it's not like I'm advocating locking them up in a closet; just not in public.
By the way, it's considered public indecency if I show my breast in public. Why is it different for a mother with a child?
Nikki- Maybe get to know a family from church/temple with a son/daughter who would do it, or such? That's how I got all of my babysitting jobs when I was little. Also, you sound like the type of parent that would remove a kid if he/she got upset and if they didn't calm down, you would take the food to go. I am just appalled at the parents that have screaming kids with them and just ignore them and keep eating.
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Wow. Just wow.
For real, I strongly dislike babies. All of them. I think they're gross. HOWEVER, even I don't think it's reasonable to keep kids hidden away at home until they're old enough to "behave" -- what does that mean, anyway? Kids tend to misbehave even when they're older. Should they not leave the house until after the terrible middle school years where they're likely to be hormonal and angry? How are they supposed to learn how to behave in various settings and situations if they haven't been exposed to them?
It's great that you respect and appreciate how your godchild is being raised, but the thing is, each parent has a different style of doing things, and I wouldn't be willing to state that any one way is better than any other way. I might think that your godchild is going to grow up to be a spoiled, demaning, sheltered little brat -- which really is irrelevant because what I think shouldn't matter to the parents, just as what you think shouldn't matter to any parents here.
The whole public indecency thing is pretty lame. Are you really traumatized by not being able to show your breasts in public? If not, I don't see why it's a problem for you. If you don't want to see someone who is breastfeeding, don't look. There are plenty of people out there I find unappealing, so I try not to look at them if it's going to bother me.
No parents should ever ignore their screaming kids who are acting up in public. There are plenty of good parents out there who don't do that, and there's no reason why they shouldn't be respected for doing what they do. It's not going to hurt me if anyone's well behaved baby is next to me at a restaurant, and since I don't like babies, I just won't look at it. No problem.
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