I'm sorry, but to me this is just an expensive lady of the evening.
I know rape victums and seen what they have gone through, but this to me does not seem like rape. Maybe he promised her things or maybe she thought her stuff was just so good that he would stay with her, but it did not happen so that's why she did this. I don't feel sorry for Kobe, because he should have been man enough to kick her azz out of the hotel room and close the door.

My whole thing is if you would think about the situation and maybe what might happen, then he could have avoided this.

Then the whole he touched me situation, let a man dare "touch me". I don't crawl into corners easily and cry fowl. I handle the situation right then and there, plus if I have to go all the way there....I will. You will respect me and if you don't you will learn quickly to leave me alone.