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us guys feel the same way
I understand what everyone is saying and how everyone feels because I at times feel that way as well. I've been in one serious relationship that ended with the ex cheating on me and lying to me for a couple of months; but its like some of my best friends have told me.... Patience is going to pay for us all; and happiness and love will find us all..
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I totally feel your pain! Somewhere around 95% of my chapter is taken! It's crazy. Most of those who aren't taken are "semi-seeing someone" or have prospects. Me--- Single....very single. It used to bother me.... not so much anymore. Those of us who are single started our little singles club. I have actually started to like being single. It lets me focus more on my classes, work, family and sorority obligations. I figure my time will come.
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When I was in high school, with a huge group of friends, around junior year, a few people got in serious relationships.
So me and my best friends started the SGC - Single Girls Club. When we're (ahem) feeling lonely and depressed, we call a charter member meeting and get really dressed up, looking as fine as we can humanly get, and convene a meeting at some lonely hearts bar. Meetings nowadays usually involve a great deal of alcohol and a random group of guys. Sometime I wish we were lonely and depressed more so we could have more SGC meetings. |
this is the personal feelings forum its okay. I'm sure you'll find some one soon though, just smile a lot, and you'll be happier. also, some zoloft/welbutrion, etc might help
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Thanks for everyone's responses. I don't want everyone to think i am a depressing person because i'm not. Really I'm not depressed at all. I just get lonely sometimes. But usually I go and hang out with some friends and I am ok. Actually I have a little good news....There is this guy that goes to the same bar as me and some of my friends. Well I have had a crush on him for a long time but I was scared to tell him. Well I got up enough courage last weekend and it turns out he is interested in me too. We are suposed to go out this weekend. I'm really excited...but not too much because I don't want to set myself up for getting let down. But we will see how it goes. Hope everyone has a good week.:D
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For Valentines we are planning a HUGE dinner for all the singles we know. We are all going to get all dressed up and head out to Neighbors (a pretty neat italian restaurant). Power in numbers... especially on the worst day of the year to be single!
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This is my sentiment and I thought I'm schpiel about it. I'm almost 23 and NOT in the market to be married. I don't even really want a serious relationship--it would only complicate my life right now. I decided I'm not looking for ANYBODY until I get my Master's because there's no way I'd want to stay in this area. As soon as graduation hits, I'm moving (if I had my preference) so there's no point in getting into anything long-term, I've already gotten through my first year. But I would like to date around in the meantime. At least go out with a guy every now and again for fun. However, I've always been the one to do the asking. I've always been the one to say "I like you" first. I want to know what it's like when the guy you like wants you to like him, wants you to go out with him. I don't get that. I'm not looking for a proposal (I've had that once, it really sucked) I just want to find a good man and have him tell me he likes me and wants to spend time with me. Too much to ask? Seriously, I've given up on dates. I went out with I guy I've been crushing on for 6 months and told my friend "That wasn't a date; that was a go-see." ;) I just wanted to know if we were compatible and that kind of thing is strictly a go-see in my book (takes the pressure off). He turned out to be a total wuss. We went to a theme park and when I refused to get on his favorite ride (one that scares the CRAP out of me) he sulked about it for 12 HOURS. I'm a little sorry I asked him, but at least now I know. I'd like to do more of that but all the guys in grad school seem to be married, engaged, or serious. Plus, there are only about 5 of them in my program and that DOES NOT HELP. :mad: |
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So in my eyes, your last statement is not too much to ask. That's what I want too :p Quote:
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I am feeling you there. All of my friends are getting married, two of the guys I dated in high school have kids (3 and 1), and I keep getting asked at weddings why I don't have a ring or where my significant other is. I am almost 23 as well and have 3 more years of school and from what I have heard law school ends relationships, so why would I want to put forth too much effort into one?
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Why is everyone getting married so young???
Ok, I'll admit, I'm scratching my head wondering why anyone would get married at 23? At 23, marriage and kids was the last thing on my mind. It was also the last thing on the minds of my group of friends. To me, 23 seems so young (granted, I don't know these people so I really can't say and don't want to be judgmental about their reasons for getting married). I'll be 29 when I get married (I just became engaged a few weeks ago) and sometimes that still seems young to me. If you want to get married at 23 or 103, that's up to you. At the end of the day, you need to do what's best for you, so don't worry about what everyone else is doing. |
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A 23 year old could have just as good a reason for getting married as a 35 year old, so I don't see what the age has to do with it. That said, I agree that you shouldn't compare yourself to your friends if you're worried about marriage. For some people it happens earlier in life, for others, later. |
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