haha. You like it.

Ok, this is my personal definitive list of kissing negatives and positives.....
NEGATIVE THINGS:
- never ever kiss after eating spinach or garlic or anything with alot of flavor...as romantic as it sounds eating and then immediately making out, trust me it is disgusting and you will feel ill.
- the whole stubble thing...it's so hot and rugged on him, but when you kiss for hours and hours, your face will eventually get very irritated and painful. Not a positive.
- bad breath (ok I kind of covered this earlier), but this is just soooo gross and honestly ruins the entire experience (duh)
- guys that think good kissing means moving their tongue around in my mouth like it is a snake...ummm no....not so good thanks!!!
- WET kisses...EWWWWW do not kiss my entire face please...I am sorry but I do not like the fact that my entire face is covered in your slobber.....GROSS!!
- biting my lip to the point where it feels like it is going to bleed...ok so a little nip is playful and fun but when it starts feeling painful...it's NOT cool.
- going on and on for TOO MANY HOURS and never wanting to stop even when I am like super tired

POSITIVE THINGS:
- fresh, minty breath!!! YES YES YES!!!!
- soft lips
- knows how to work the tongue without overusing it/not using enough...
- kissing all over, esp the ear....that feels so nice...but please not to excess.....
- going on and on....I love kissing!!
- stopping every once in a while but continuing again

OMG I HATE THAT SOOOOOOOO MUCH...ummm my ear being soaking wet is NOT sexy and does NOT feel nice...thank you very much

kissing is, like, super doooper important. you can't kiss, well then buddy....you sure as hell ain't gonna get the chance to do anything else.

sometimes, though, a mediocre kisser can be trained. i've had a few mediocre kissers/exes that i personally transformed into the best kissers on the planet, thank you very much. ;) but seriously, kiss and kiss well.

i'm a big fan of the right side of my neck....that'll get me everytime. ear nibbling is good, but only if it is done with ABSOLUTE PERFECTION. no hard core breathing to make me deaf, no slobbering, no tongue in ear....gross. that's a case of less is more, really.

i've had a few convos with rudey on this subject, so it's funny. if you couldn't tell from this thread, he is very particular about how girls kiss......but again, rudey.......no worries if you are ever down the Kentucky way. ;) :D

i'm just a big face proclaimed face w---e, though.....i love love love gettin face! :cool:

Aaah, I am still traumatized by a bad kissing incident...

I was a little freshman in a club with some friends, and I met this guy and started talking... he was 21 or 22, and kinda cute, and nice... so he bought me a drink and we danced together some, and then we started kissing. And he just put his toungue in my mouth - and just LEFT IT THERE! His big huge gross toungue just sat in my mouth, not moving. At all. It was so gross I almost threw up. I had to run away and find my friends, and then he found me when we were leaving and I gave him the wrong phone number.

Also, I hate making out with someone when I'm really sleepy, and I just want to go to bed but they won't stop... that's the worst.

Lol...my ex-bf used to come at me with his mouth wide open trying to kiss me...it was like looking into a scary hole lol and then he would leave slobber all over my mouth...ewwww thank god i finally taught him how to kiss....

Maybe that wasn't his tongue.

bwahahahahaha

Ew!!

I love this thread....

Just shut up and kiss me right there....

Ok, I know that whoever was talking about the licking girls all over, from the neck to the stomach and then up the leg, thouht it was really hot. Well, I can't stand it. I like a little nibble on my ear LOBE (not in the canal...ewww) and little licks on my lips between kisses, but that's it. I don't want to be covered in your saliva when we're done.

Good kissers start soft and slow. Putting your top lip between their lips, slightly sticking out their tongue periodically to ease you into more intense action. Then there's some more tongue, but this doesn't mean you stick your tongue in my mouth and we move our heads from side to side for an hour. You have a serious tongue kiss for a couple seconds, move back, have couple of slightly less drmatic kisses, then go back in for the killer again. It's a pattern fellas! And you don't need to go itching the back of my throat with your tongue, it's really quite alright. Gagging is not sexy.

It's also very good to put one hand behind my head, and one on my back, lower preferably, then switch them/move them around. Have both onmy back then one and one, then both in my hair, or on the side of my face and neck.

Basically, you should act like THE KISS is the most important task right then. Concentrate on not screwing it up. The problem is that some guys are so interested on what the kiss will lead up to, they don't pay attention to the actual act at all. Remember, without a good kiss, you're not getting much further....unless you're really hot of course, then we can overlook that :D

I really hate it when you kiss someone and they don't use their tongue...its like dead-weight in your mouth. Yet on the other hand I live for a good kisser. This is inclusive of the hand on the side of the face or back of the head and some tongue...A peach is a peach and a plum is a plum but a kiss isn't a kiss without some tongue. ;)

Be in the moment. I'm a Zen Kisser. I'm very aware. ;)

I think kissing is the most important connection two people can make without going to far... it's letting them into your comfort zone...breathing the same air...so romantic.

The best thing EVER is the moment right before your lips meet and you can feel the sparks flying and you know that in just one brief second you will be sharing something AMAZING with someone you click with.

I am all about soft, sensual kissing...no HARD FAST SLOBBERY CRAP!!

And sometimes, it's not all about the tongue...