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Honeykiss1974 06-12-2002 04:41 PM

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Originally posted by TrojanGirl
I love that I never have to fear the wind.

TG

:D

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Steeltrap 06-12-2002 04:57 PM

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Originally posted by TrojanGirl
What DOES define a big girl?

I am 5'10, 230lbs and wear a size 20. I consider that big. I don't consider someone who can buy clothes in the Juniors department a big girl unless she is under the age of 12. Seriously. I would kill to be able to shop at the Gap, Old Navy, and the like. But I can't. I am ok with that, for now. I love Lane Bryant, Talbots, Elisabeth by Liz Claiborne, and Mainframe Plus. I love that I have curves. I love that I never have to fear the wind.

I am beautiful, I am me. There is no one like me.

TG

I thought that Old Navy does go up to size 20, or is it only the Internet?:confused:

newbie 06-12-2002 05:57 PM

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Originally posted by RubberSoul
everyone has something about their appearance that they feel holds them back or they'd like to change. I have known girls who were so skinny that they tried desperately to put on some weight and get some curves, and couldn't. Curly-haired gals want straight locks, while the straight-haired girls are out getting perms. Short girls long to be supermodel-tall, and tall girls wish they could be the petite cheerleader. We change our haircolors. We put in phony contacts. Nobody is ever totally pleased with themselves. I know that I had issues....I'm comfortable with myself now and am happy with what nature gave me, but when I was younger I used to agonize over every little thing. Even though I was tall and thin, I wanted bigger, better boobs. I am the exact opposite of the perky blonde that supposedly is every man's dream (I have since found out THAT one isn't true anyway!!) I thought that having dark hair and eyes and dark skin was a disadvantage, that I was too "exotic." I hated my "big" feet.....(size 10......never mind the fact that at my height, I'd tip over if I had teeny little feet.) You learn to get over it. You learn to love yourself, and you learn to accept the love that others try to give you.
That was a beautiful post! And yes, like RubberSoul said, I am one of those skinny girls who wish I had a little more pounds on me.

RubberSoul 06-12-2002 06:12 PM

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Originally posted by madmax


Maybe it is the other way around. Bigger women gravitating towards little guys and petite women gravitating towards bigger guys.

No offense, Max, but.....UH NO. Most women like a man who is larger than she is! Plus I have a lot of male friends who are on the "Shaggy-esque" side and every one of them dates or is married to "bigger" gals, and all because they can't stand skinny women.

jharb 06-12-2002 07:46 PM

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Originally posted by Steeltrap


I thought that Old Navy does go up to size 20, or is it only the Internet?:confused:

I work at the Gap so I can clarify! Old Navy goes up to size 20 in the stores and the Gap goes up to size 16 in the stores. You can find larger sizes in Gap clothes online. I'm a Gap employee who is a size 12/14 depending on what time of the month it is, so I hear about it all the time! We do have stuff in our stores that goes up to size 16 but if you look on clearance only it's going to be the smaller sizes because those don't sell as quickly as the bigger sizes! I know we should stock more of the larger sizes but a lot of our stuff is sent from the warehouse in a "size run" where we get a certain amount of each size. If you find an item you like but there are only size 0 or 2 left then ask a salesperson to do a merchandise locator. If it is found on Gap online and it is full price then you can have it delivered to your house for free (only if you order in the store). If the item isn't full price you can add on a pair of socks to make the shipping free! This is just a heads up for those who can never find a 12/14/16 in our stores! :D

Jess

Steeltrap 06-12-2002 07:55 PM

@jharb
 
Thank you for clarifying. And I know what you mean about that time of the month.;)

lilsnakeyk 06-12-2002 08:22 PM

I have to concur with Amycat.......I'm 5'10" between 130 and 135 lbs and in L.A. that is considered huge. It's not like I carry all my weight in my middle or posterior, heck no, most of it resides in my chest. But I have still had a casting director tell me that I need to shave off about fifteen lbs. If I took off fifteen lbs, I would tip over from the sheer weight of the twins. I have curves that nearly run for miles because of my height and weight. If I lost weight, I would be disgustingly emaciated with giant knockers (think Pam Anderson......eww)

But, then again, this is also the town where you can never be too rich, too blonde, or too THIN.

I say to all you beautifully curvy girls out there, stand tall, be proud because there is nothing more attractive in the world than self-confidence!!!!

-Lil Snakey K

prospectiverushee 06-12-2002 09:05 PM

This is a cool thread too. I too have issues with my weight.

Let's see I'm 5'2, have boobs, hips,and big butt,and wear a size 14. Talk about someone with major issues! Like a posted in the other thread, I'm cool with my height. I struggled with accepting my weight. I was a size 7 from about 6th grade till sophmore year in college. Then I inched up to a size 10. I was a size 12 for a hot moment, now I'm a size 14. It's taking me a long time to accept being a size 14. Now I don't care.

There this guy at work who is interested in this girl who works with us. The girl is about 5'1 and is a size 7 an real cruvy. Anyway I asked what he thought of my other friend who works with us. He's like no I'm not interested C's overweight. C's a 16/18. Then he goes, even M(the girl he's interested in) is pushing it by being a size 7. I'm like how is a size 7 pushing it. Most people would kill to be a size 7

AngelPhiSig 06-12-2002 10:41 PM

I hate the way society makes women who were concidered the most beautiful in the middle ages feel fat.

I think Im fat, because Im surrounded by skinny pretty girls, and all my guy friends are like "Youre beautiful, we like girls who arent all skin and bone" well where the f*** are those guys?

I am 5'7" and weigh from 150-160 and since college- I have had many self esteem issues with my weight.

Grrr

aggieAXO 06-12-2002 10:54 PM

Re: Re: Kelly weighs in...
 
I have to say that everytime I go to Express the only sizes left are the 10-14-very frustrating for me b/c I am a 3-4-so it goes both ways.

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Originally posted by xok85xo


the reason why the rack is FULL of size 0-6 is because the average woman is NOT one of these sizes..if you do your research..generally the clothes left on clearance are these sizes, w hile higher #'s (10-14) are always gone


Honeykiss1974 06-13-2002 09:53 AM

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Originally posted by AngelPhiSig

I think Im fat, because Im surrounded by skinny pretty girls, and all my guy friends are like "Youre beautiful, we like girls who arent all skin and bone" well where the f*** are those guys?

Grrr

When you find out, let a sista know! :D

thesweetestone 06-13-2002 10:04 AM

Re: Re: Re: Kelly weighs in...
 
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Originally posted by aggieAXO
I have to say that everytime I go to Express the only sizes left are the 10-14-very frustrating for me b/c I am a 3-4-so it goes both ways.


I feel the opposite. I go to the store seems like all they have is 3-4 stuff.:(

snuggles12 06-13-2002 12:56 PM

Re: Re: Re: Re: Kelly weighs in...
 
I'm a size 8/10 now but I use to be size 16 about 4 years ago so I know the struggles of being overweight and not finding clothes in your size (in my experiences larger sizes go quicker than smaller ones because the average American woman is a size 12).

I don't let other people define me and comparing myself to models (and IMHO, most fashion models are too skinny and are ugly) is ridiculous. First of all, when you see a photo in a magazine, it has been touched up. So even the models aren't perfect. They will touch up a photo to remove moles, make a leg look slender, make a model look curvier, etc.

My goal is to be healthy. That's why I exercise 3 to 5 times a week, watch what I eat and lift weights. As someone said, you can be skinny and unhealthy and then take someone who is size 12 who is in excellent health because they exercise.


#7 Snuggles
DST - RVA 12/93

jharb 06-13-2002 01:00 PM

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Kelly weighs in...
 
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Originally posted by snuggles12
My goal is to be healthy. That's why I exercise 3 to 5 times a week, watch what I eat and lift weights. As someone said, you can be skinny and unhealthy and then take someone who is size 12 who is in excellent health because they exercise.
I hate that people think just because you're bigger you're unhealthy! I'm only 5'3" and if I was three inches taller and the same weight I probably would be a size 8. I have a fairly low BMI and body fat percentage, but because I'm a size 12 people think I'm lazy and unhealthy. :mad:

Jess

LeslieAGD 06-13-2002 04:45 PM

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Originally posted by Honeykiss1974
When you find out, let a sista know! :D
No kiddin! I was thinking the same thing! ;)


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