And this (your previous post)is why I think you rule. How did everyone else miss that? *smacks self on forehead*

Have a great day, Barbie's_Rush!

b/c they want you to buy the full manual ;)

That sound you hear is me slapping my forehead.

Ha Ha! The power of the all mighty dollar!

Yeah. It's like $60 at least to purchase it, if not more than that.

And each chapter is still expected to own a real copy, even though they're online. Not sure if it's just the advisors or the actives or what.

Both advisors and the chapter should have a copy, especially those that have anything to do with Panhellenic and/or recruitment!

Yeah I've just never been responsible for one, so I don't know who is required to have a hard copy for our chapters :D

But I've found it very useful myself.

What about a local sorority? If her campus has locals that could be a good option. It wouldn't be XYZ but if it's really sisterhood your after and not just letters, it's an option. And there's always clubs, intramural sports, all kinds of stuff you can do to get involved...
But the fact of the matter is, you joined an NPC sorority, and you cannot under any circumstances whatsoever join another NPC sorority. Period. No exceptions.