Like Sen says it depends. It could be described as that in its mildest form, and in its more severe form it can be the equivalent of the mistress messing around with the married guy, having his children, not receiving child support, yet convincing yourself he's gonna leave his wife and make things right when everybody has told you its not gonna happen.

thanks for the insight ill talk to one of the members and ill go from there.. i just dont want to be a renegade or anything like that ..i dont think its that serious for all that