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I guess family diamonds are alright but I don't think it's right for me. But I'd be happy with a piece of glass in some tin foil. |
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But if I could get to choose....;) |
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I don't want to pick my own ring out. I want the ring and chose because I would want to ask 'Why did you choose this ring?' and I want the whole reasoning. |
My purity ring is the only ring I ever wear and, I have to admit, it's pretty and dainty and girly all the things I'm not. :p I love it, but I don't want my wedding ring to look anything like it. I know exactly what I want and, while I think it'd be really romantic for a man to pick out what he thinks I'd like, but it'd be more romantic for me if he let me decide--better yet, if we decide together.
Sooooo what was this thread about? I think we've hijacked it to pieces. :) |
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Chandler: "Well, come on, I’ve been saving this money for six years and I kinda had some of it earmarked for the future, not just for a party." Monica: "This is the most special day of our lives." Chandler: "No, I realize that honey, but I’m not gonna spend all of the money on one party." Monica: "Honey, umm I-I love you, but umm, if you call our wedding a party one more time, you may not get invited." :p And one of the Postsecrets today reads: "I wish people would spend as much time on their marriages as they spend on their wedding" |
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eta: and I just love how you used the word "remarried." I know what you meant, but do you see how silly that sounds? lol Married vs. Ceremony: Two different things. |
Sidenote: It puzzles me when people go to the courthouse or something to get married, then a YEAR or so later register for gifts, have a ceremony and reception and call it a wedding. I feel like it should be called something else, lol.
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I find the whole "have a reception later" concept to be really strange. Either do it when you get married or don't do it. If it is important to you and it means you have to wait a year, then wait a year and save up the money. If it is really the right person for you there should be no rush to get married because you will be married for the rest of your life. One more year really isn't a big deal. |
My cousin got married at the courthouse and then had the 'reception' at my grandma's house. All we did was eat, talk, and play spades like every other family function except we bought some gifts. If they waited a year later, it would've been a baby shower. lol
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I think it comes down to people thinking that they're "entitled" to a big wedding even when they can't swing it for very practical reasons. There's no requirement for a fancy wedding. |
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