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Benzgirl 04-06-2008 08:37 PM

Flashback... I completely forgot about this until I saw the video at the gym today.
We changed the words to Karma Chameleon from "Red, Gold and Green" to "Red, Buff and Greeen"

fyrnymph 04-13-2008 04:44 PM

The drinking age was 19 . . .

Benzgirl 04-13-2008 05:10 PM

ummm....18.

fyrnymph 04-13-2008 05:11 PM

19 when I was an undergrad in Texas.

SWTXBelle 04-13-2008 08:10 PM

It changed to 21 from 19 in the early 80s in Texas.

RaggedyAnn 04-13-2008 08:20 PM

There was a drinking age?

jon1856 04-13-2008 09:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RaggedyAnn (Post 1633751)
There was a drinking age?

Back in the day, WA had a law that no matter what your age was, you had to have real, legal proof of age on you if you were in a bar.
And yes, LB would drop by and check ID's. Fines would be issued to both the bar as well as you.
At the time age was 18/19 where I lived while 21 in WA.

33girl 04-14-2008 10:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jon1856 (Post 1633787)
Back in the day, WA had a law that no matter what your age was, you had to have real, legal proof of age on you if you were in a bar.
And yes, LB would drop by and check ID's. Fines would be issued to both the bar as well as you.
At the time age was 18/19 where I lived while 21 in WA.

LOL Jon, RA was implying that the laws were so weakly enforced that it didn't matter what the drinking age was.

21 here always, but you could go across the border to Ohio or WV & get grandfathered in. We found pictures in our scrapbooks from the 70's of formals that had been in New York State and didn't get it...until we thought about it. "Oh. Lower drinking age. Duh."

gwen1982 04-14-2008 07:15 PM

I rushed in '82...

Real candles, dresses below the knee and heels for chapter, sweetheart ceremonies, phone duty, pledge notebooks, toga parties little sisters and big brothers...

We had the dance from Come On, Eileen (Dexy's Midnight Runners) down and the song played at every mixer. Lining up on fraternity row during Hell Week like we were waiting for a parade - just to see whose house would be the loudest. Steak and eggs at the diner at 4 am before heading home after the fraternity parties. Throwing white roses out of the windows to the fraternity men serenading us. Touch football in the suite. Christmas cocktail parties with real cocktails.

And one thing I remember most about fraternity Hell Week because we all felt so bad for the Kappas - their house was at the end of frat row - drunk pledges heading to the Kappa house at 3 in the morning singing at the top of their lungs (and one or two always ended up peeing on the lawn - ew!). Totally off key and half of the words forgotten. I later learned that most of the girls spent the week elsewhere and only those that volunteered to "hold down the fort" stayed behind.

Benzgirl 04-14-2008 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 1633745)
It changed to 21 from 19 in the early 80s in Texas.

It was 18 when I was in high school (79/80) because I bought Cold Duck (ha ha) for New Year's Eve when I was there over Christmas break.

catiebug 04-14-2008 08:06 PM

I remember when Texas went from 18 to 19 - it happened the day before I turned 18. The bastards...
:mad:

jon1856 04-14-2008 10:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1634060)
LOL Jon, RA was implying that the laws were so weakly enforced that it didn't matter what the drinking age was.

21 here always, but you could go across the border to Ohio or WV & get grandfathered in. We found pictures in our scrapbooks from the 70's of formals that had been in New York State and didn't get it...until we thought about it. "Oh. Lower drinking age. Duh."

In WA it was enforced. As my home state was one of the very last to have photo Id on DL, I had to get a non-driving WA state ID card.

It was that or pull out my DL, 3 CC's in my own name and everything else I had in my wallet to prove I was 21. IIRC the only photo ID's I had were my PADI/NAUI certs.

OldAOPi 04-14-2008 11:07 PM

More 78 - early 80's
 
I forgot - we had Big Brothers at our house, which was a big deal. We pledges had to go get the rushee and escort him to and from the rush parties. Ironically enough, I ended up having my husband as my rushee - even though I didn't start dating him until 4 years later!

All of our songs during RUSH (not recruitement) were based on old show songs - the kind of songs you hear as elevator music....like Girl of AOII, You'll Be One Forever...sometimes I'll hear one of those oldies and think of the AOII words....my favorite was "Remember" - and my Theta mom and sis knew the Theta version so we would sing it at the same time...and everyone sang a version of "Pass It On" when you were doing something super serious, or passing a candle around.

We had a slide show that was a big deal - the sisterhood songs were "Thank You For Being A Friend", "All My Sisters" (a song by Anne Murray, I think) Friends " (Elton John) and one other that I don't remember. I found the Anne Murray song one day on Rhapsody --- wow, that brought back memories!

We did have phones on the wall in our rooms. Long cords. So your bed was close to the wall so you could answer the phone in the middle of the night.

REO Speedwagon was big, and Journey. Everyone else liked Air Supply but I hated them. Yuck!

Benzgirl 04-15-2008 07:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by catiebug (Post 1634422)
I remember when Texas went from 18 to 19 - it happened the day before I turned 18. The bastards...
:mad:

My cousin turned 19 on August 30 . The law changed to 21 on September 1 at 12:01 a.m. She was legal for 2 nights.

texas*princess 04-15-2008 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Benzgirl (Post 1635095)
My cousin turned 19 on August 30 . The law changed to 21 on September 1 at 12:01 a.m. She was legal for 2 nights.

that's a bummer!

AlphaO7 04-15-2008 08:45 PM

random thought
 
I've been reading a lot of responses, and I'm a little curious.... do most sorority chapter use fake candles for ceromonies now? My chapter still uses real candles for initiation, ritual and candle passing. Thankfully we've never had a problem with it.

Benzgirl 04-15-2008 09:04 PM

I have seen both. One in a house association house, used real candles. The other, in a school-owned room used fake (required by the university). They were different chapters.

Note, the one that used fake, used real ones last year. But, another sorority used real ones and dropped wax on the carpet. After that, the school banned use of real candles in their facilities.

FirstAndFinest 04-16-2008 06:50 AM

Officially, we now use battery-operated candles only. Makes no difference if the property is owned by a house corp or a college.

33girl 04-16-2008 09:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Benzgirl (Post 1635095)
My cousin turned 19 on August 30 . The law changed to 21 on September 1 at 12:01 a.m. She was legal for 2 nights.

WTF??? Shouldn't she have been grandfathered in?

TSteven 04-16-2008 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1635331)
WTF??? Shouldn't she have been grandfathered in?

http://www.thedrinkshop.com/images/p.../3284/3284.jpg

Like this? ;)

jon1856 04-16-2008 04:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1635331)
WTF??? Shouldn't she have been grandfathered in?

And I could have told the bar tenders and SLB inspectors in WA that since I was able to drink at home (18/19) that I could drink in WA (21)??:confused:

33girl 04-16-2008 04:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jon1856 (Post 1635562)
And I could have told the bar tenders and SLB inspectors in WA that since I was able to drink at home (18/19) that I could drink in WA (21)??:confused:

You don't understand what I'm saying.

The way I always understood it (and what my friends who went over the border to Ohio told me) was...if you had turned 18 in a year when the drinking age was still 18 there, you were allowed to drink. It had nothing to do with what state you personally were from. I have no idea what they did in Washington. Since I believe Benzgirl is talking about Ohio that's why I didn't understand why her friend had this issue.

jon1856 04-16-2008 05:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1635573)
You don't understand what I'm saying.

The way I always understood it (and what my friends who went over the border to Ohio told me) was...if you had turned 18 in a year when the drinking age was still 18 there, you were allowed to drink. It had nothing to do with what state you personally were from. I have no idea what they did in Washington. Since I believe Benzgirl is talking about Ohio that's why I didn't understand why her friend had this issue.

I guess that neither one of us knows:o
I can only go by what happened to me. I have never experienced nor heard of being "grandfathered" in the case of liquor laws.
Come to think of it now, I was most likely breaking a few laws by transporting bottles to school.:o

banditone 04-16-2008 06:28 PM

The good old days of the past....

- Around the World parties (I hated Mexico. Damn tequila).
- Pledge Sneaks.
- Little Sisters.
- Scavenger Hunts.
- Working the beer trough during house parties.
- House vs. House snowball fights.
- Family Drinks.

SWTXBelle 04-16-2008 06:34 PM

Family drinks?

banditone 04-16-2008 06:38 PM

Yeah. My family's drink was Rattlesnake shots (equal parts Southern Comfort, Cherry Brandy, Sweet and Sour).

I remember being a pledge and drinking them with my pledge pop, and his pledge pop. Long long time ago.

aephi alum 04-16-2008 06:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1635331)
WTF??? Shouldn't she have been grandfathered in?

Some states grandfathered people in when they raised the drinking age; others didn't. New York didn't. I remember seeing news footage of all the 18-20 year olds lining up at liquor stores to stock up on booze the day before the drinking age became 21.

Didn't matter to me - I was 10.

AnchorAlum 04-20-2008 08:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FSUZeta (Post 1627972)
diet coke-please.......it was tab and tab alone!

serenades were so much fun-giving them and receiving them. one fraternity even had two of the members accompany them on guitars and the changed the words to "california girls" to sororities on campus and then of course, the chorus was "wish they all could be like the zeta girls" when they sang to us, and then when they got to the next street over, it was the pi phi girls, adpi girls, etc.

rush was full blown with a song and dance in the front yard to welcome the rushees to the house. after each party, the rushee was escorted by her hostess to the ends of the walk and down the steps and when enough sisters had been freed up, we started another song and dance, lining our sidewalk. we always sang the greek alphabet song and the chorus was "let me hear you say, zeta tau alpha, let me hear you say, zeta tau alpha, let ne hear you say, zeta tau alpha"......on and on and on and on! graduating sisters passed down their hideous rush dresses to anyone who needed them-the sorority chapters did not totally revamp recruitment every year.

some of the fraternity members across the street would climb out on their porch roof and give the rushess scores on cards, like the diving judges did at the olympics. it was so cruel, whether they got a "10" or a "1" and it always worried us that some rushees might not see it as an asset to have a fraternity across the street.

certain groups hung out at certain bars. at our hangout, only beer or bottled cokes were served. there were a couple of old pin ball machines(jumbo was one of them) a couple of foosball tables and several pool tables. they always played either,"the women all get prettier at closing time" or "why don't we get drunk and screw" as the bar closed. lovely!

greek week was a big deal and included some competition every night for a week. same with sigma chi derby.

we could get group seating at the football games and fraternities would do their cheers at the game.


You were probably close to my time at FSU. I preffed Zeta, by the way.

67-71. Rush was VERY formal, there were 18 houses and ice waters took two days. It seems like rush took almost two weeks. The fraternities would cruise the streets checking out the rushees. KA's rented a huge flatbed truck with hay and a keg and drove around yelling out stuff to the rushees. These are the senior executives and attorneys and judges of today. Who woulda thunk they'd even graduate?

Dinner at 5:30 sit down, family style, sing the blessing before and after the meal, bus boys, Mom is escorted out before the ladies were allowed to leave. Announcements, calling on pledges to recite the greek alphabet, fraternity boys coming by to tap girls for little sisters, honoraries coming by during dinner to tap new members, announcing a candlelight in the living room, singing around the anchor.

Monday night was chapter night all over campus. And yes, Ken's was a fun place. The Derby I snagged in 1969 hung over the bar for almost 30 years and my husband and I are forever memorialized with our names still written on the wall.

Fraternity weekends at Panama City. Pledge pins with your colors on a little bow on top. Group seating at football games where we wore dresses and the guys wore coats and ties. Girls purses were the perfect place to hide the Jack Daniels and Southern Comfort.

I could go on and on.

AnchorAlumna 04-20-2008 11:18 PM

Ah....happy days!;)

breathesgelatin 04-21-2008 02:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlphaO7 (Post 1635130)
I've been reading a lot of responses, and I'm a little curious.... do most sorority chapter use fake candles for ceromonies now? My chapter still uses real candles for initiation, ritual and candle passing. Thankfully we've never had a problem with it.

Most if not all chapters of NPC sororities are supposed to use fake candles for ceremonies. In my opinion there are certain instances where this is OK (eg candles are a background element, especially if they're near fabric) and certain instances in which this is lame (such as when "passing a flame" is the whole point of the freakin' ceremony, and it's just one candle). A lot of chapters continue to use candles either because they're not aware of the rule or they just choose to ignore.

AGDAlum 04-21-2008 07:27 AM

70-74 at Mizzou

As others have said, rush had frills. Sidewalk songs were big with the actives "singing the rushees in." Frat guys also lined the sidewalks checking out the rushees.

Monday night was "formal dinner." Pledge came to the house for 5 p.m. pledge meeting; then dinner (cloth tablecloths); 6:30 was chapter meeting. Everyone did it that way. The chapter room was a mysterious place that the pledges did not go in. (What a letdown to find out it was only a big room.)

1970 was the year that the pantsuit hit the fashion world and jeans became acceptable for everydaywear. Polyester doubleknit was the miracle fabric--no wrinkle, wore like iron. In 1970 we defined when it was okay to wear pants ("as part of an outfit"). By 1974 we asked members to wear bras and to not smoke marijuana in the house.

The house was locked at 11 p.m. on weekdays, midnight on Saturdays. Dorms had similar hours. Men were allowed upstairs only on very special occasions. (Coed dorms began in the 70's.)

You could get a phone in your room if you wanted to pay for it. Otherwise you used the phone in the hall. We changed rooms 3 times a year. If you had a phone you could stay in the same room twice in a row.

Coors beer was distributed only to the Kansas/Missouri line. People who went home to KC or to KU for the weekend brought Coors back.

Columbia had only one Mexican restaurant (Connie's El Sombrero), though there was a Taco Bell on Providence. The 18th Amendment and Harpo's were the big bars. We found out that the bar at the Tiger Hotel didn't card and was much quieter (more grownup).....Bagels were a novelty, unavailable in Columbia. One of my chapter sisters would bring back a bag from a deli in St. Louis.

Streaking was the big news of 1974! You'd be walking to class and a guy would run past you wearing only sneakers and a stocking cap.

ktbug10474 04-21-2008 03:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by honeychile (Post 1628040)
*Hoping there's a nursing home for greeks!*


oh there will be :) and i'll start it. you're gonna have to give me a few more years to get out of college and start making money etc.. etc..

But here are the details.

Alpha Zeta Nursing Home

Helping Greeks reminisce about the old days.


and the requirements to get in.....

a) a scavenger hunt
b) a chugging contest
c) there shall be a pledge period and initiation
d) and anything else yall would like to add :D

EEKappa 04-21-2008 03:44 PM

I can smell the paint pens just reading this thread! All my friends on my floor would bring me stuff to paint their letters on, which was good since I had already put KKG on everything I could find. I got really good at drawing Theta kites.

We received pref gifts that we took with us, and the ADPis bid cards were done in counted cross stitch. The sisters on that committee worked on them all summer long.

Formal chapter meetings were a sea of Laura Ashley dresses. Our pref dresses were navy taffeta for two years, then changed to our choice of white with light blue or dark blue chintz sashes.

Did anyone else find out who their big sister was with a scavenger hunt? Or get taken out for a pledge kidnap breakfast?

Tom Earp 04-21-2008 03:59 PM

Ah, lets go back to the 60-70's!:)

Much more formal as far as dress went on Campus!:)

Dress was semi formal for guys, coats and ties for meetings.

Meeting days were every Tuesday night and we wore appropriate attire on campus and meetings. Let the Campus know who we were!

Weekends, oh well, look out as that was fun time!:D But, letters were worn on T-Shirts once again to let them know who were are/were!

Now!:mad: They wear beer, or shoes, GAP, Old Navy shirts!

That really promotes GLOs!:rolleyes:

Benzgirl 04-21-2008 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1635573)
You don't understand what I'm saying.

The way I always understood it (and what my friends who went over the border to Ohio told me) was...if you had turned 18 in a year when the drinking age was still 18 there, you were allowed to drink. It had nothing to do with what state you personally were from. I have no idea what they did in Washington. Since I believe Benzgirl is talking about Ohio that's why I didn't understand why her friend had this issue.


I live in Ohio, but was in Texas when it was 18. Cousin lived in Texas and was not Grandfathered when the legal age changed.
However, Ohio at the time was an 18 state for 3.2 Beer (tasted awful) and 21 for everything else. Since then, everything went 21 in both states.

OldAOPi 04-23-2008 02:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EEKappa (Post 1637558)
Did anyone else find out who their big sister was with a scavenger hunt? Or get taken out for a pledge kidnap breakfast?

1978 - We did - we matched up socks. We would go hide in the house somewhere and the pledges would come look for a sock to match up with theirs. And we did kidnap our pledges for breakfast and took them, of course, to McDonalds. We kidnapped our Big Brothers also, to let them know they had been selected. The Sig Eps did that for their little sisters, too. What, people don't kidnap people anymore? :confused:

We went to Mcdonalds for everything, especially large Cokes and Fries when they were doing the Monopoly game. And then there were those that did dumpster diving.....yuck! but they would come back with bags of still warm food that was thrown in the dumpster at the end of the shift.

ForeverRoses 04-23-2008 02:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Benzgirl (Post 1637760)
I live in Ohio, but was in Texas when it was 18. Cousin lived in Texas and was not Grandfathered when the legal age changed.
However, Ohio at the time was an 18 state for 3.2 Beer (tasted awful) and 21 for everything else. Since then, everything went 21 in both states.

I remember in Ohio the "high" stamp and the "low" stamp. Low was for anyone 18-20 and they could order the 3.2 beer and high was for anyone 21 or older that could order anything.

Of course, I was in high school when they were doing this, it was all 21 by the time I was in college.

em_adpi 04-23-2008 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by OldAOPi (Post 1638886)
What, people don't kidnap people anymore? :confused:

My diamond little bignapped me this year and took me to IHOP. :)

Benzgirl 04-23-2008 08:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ForeverRoses (Post 1638890)
I remember in Ohio the "high" stamp and the "low" stamp. Low was for anyone 18-20 and they could order the 3.2 beer and high was for anyone 21 or older that could order anything.

Of course, I was in high school when they were doing this, it was all 21 by the time I was in college.

Do you know how many "high" stamps I had? We kept different colors of stamp pads in the car and would find out what color they were using for the night. Got in free and drank the good stuff.

Ohhhh....those were the days
(before I burned out my brain cells)

DeltAlum 04-23-2008 09:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Benzgirl (Post 1639066)
Do you know how many "high" stamps I had? We kept different colors of stamp pads in the car and would find out what color they were using for the night. Got in free and drank the good stuff.

Ohhhh....those were the days
(before I burned out my brain cells)

Way too hard. We just had fake ID's.

The university ID's had pictures, but drivers licenses and draft cards didn't.

Heck, I had a fake ID in high school in Ohio.

Didn't matter much, though, except in the bars. In those days the older brothers would buy pretty much anything you wanted.

And, yes, as I recall, when the drinking age was changed to twenty-one, those between eighteen at twenty-one were grandfathered.

I was twenty-one by then, so I really didn't care.


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