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I call it strutting too! I was made in Louisiana so maybe so? |
I am not greek but I have tons of greek friends. One thing that bothers me is strolling at a non-greek party. Its like how do you expect "townies" to not break the stroll line if they dont know what the h e double hockey sticks you're doing. Then they start fighting.....its just stupid to me.
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The worst is years ago when I went to NPHC parties in areas with Bloods and Crips. The Bloods and Crips looked like Sigmas and Kappas. They did handsigns, "strolls," and so forth. Many fights began because people confused NPHCers with gang members or locals, etc. |
^^^Along with that what's with folks strolling smack dab in the center of the dance floor disturbing folks' dancing area...if the dance floor is full just go around the people, I hate dancing and getting pushed out the way or have my toes stepped on, and people wonder how fights start.
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i've never seen bloods or crips stroll - but then again i dont think i've ever KNOWN that i was around them (but i have been). wow!!!! |
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I assume the Crips were Crip walking in a straight line. But they were throwing their hand sign up and wearing blue. I didn't know they were Crips until there was gang warfare outside of the party later on. :rolleyes: |
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Again though my point is you can't generalize--gangs had handsigns and calls before BGLOs. And some of the BGLO signs do resemble some gang signs. |
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You have to be familiar with every setting that you're in. I've seen locals and gang members fight BGLO members over strolls and other things. I know of BGLO members who have gotten shot because they were confused for someone else. It's not worth fighting or being killed over--wasn't worth it when I was an undergrad and certainly isn't worth it now. If the Bloods and Crips or other nonBGLOers have their thing, the BGLO members need to be aware of it and get out the way if necessary. If BGLO members care so much to make a change somewhere, they should get involved with gang-oriented or other community service starting the following Monday. |
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I thought she was just another BGLOer who (in a nice way :)) thought the sun should rise and shine on our behinds regardless of where we show up. Age and experience reminds us that many people (BGLOers and nonBGLOers) don't give a good darn about some of "our" often instrusive customs. |
^^^This must be repeated! Living in Chicago which has a long history with gangs and has the second most chronic Gang Problem (LA is number 1), I knew I would have to be weary of where I wear my letter and where I throw up my sign (I think calls are very easy to designate a setting).
I really don't wear my letters or colors anywhere other than on campus, being that I have to travel through the gang dominated hoods and many gangs moving into my neighborhood...I remember waiting for the bus in this neighborhood called Oakland here on the South Side, wearing my letters and colors (I was a happy neo), and having dudes come up to me asking 'What you be about?', I'm learned on gangs but dunno why if didn't hit me that hey 'I shouldn't be wearing this stuff'. I think we need to let folks know who may not be familiar with the gang lifestyle or who think people are willing to differentiate from a gang/fraternity that we must use discretion with out insignia, I really don't like having out of town folks from NYC or FL come here wearing their para which can be confused for gang gear laughing or dismissing advice Chicago natives give of "please put something over that" or "don't be throwing up that stuff here!" Hell, my folks are just registering the fact that it's not a college gang! :mad: Some crossover gang examples: Alphas' "Phi" sign=Blood's "neighborhood" sign Sigma Lambda Upsilon's "Sigma Lambda" sign (index fingers connected to one another with thumbs sticking out=Blood's 'Avenue" sign Black and Gold=Gang Colors Brown and Gold=Gang Colors Black and Blue=Gang Colors Red & White=Gang Colors (in my old neighborhood which houses a lot of mini gangs) I'm sticking to pins from here on out :cool: |
TotallyWicked, thanks for sharing that info because there are times when experiencing something firsthand really drives the point home so lessons are learned.
I wouldn't have taken it so seriously if I hadn't seen it myself. Granted, I didn't live in or frequent gang infested neighborhoods. But, instead I know ex-gang members who are now in BGLOs and I've encountered gang tensions from locals at parties as previously mentioned. |
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And I don't get your analogies about the Black community and the peace sign and the Panthers and the fist |
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well I think folks should do some research before trying to host a party in a gang infested neighborhood...couldn't hurt in the long run to avoid any major issues....even though I acknowledge fights can break out anywhere.
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Let's not be naive about gangs--they do travel. And you may not even know that you are letting mambers into a party until it is too late. And very honestly a party of any kind, anywhere is a magnet for gang face-offs. Heck here a U of MN football player was killed attending a public club by a gang member in downtown Mpls for no real reason. We have teens killed at bustops because they were mistaken for rival gang members. This is no joke. And if anyone thinks all that needs to be done is some research on venues and how to keep them out of the parties, then they are very naive, or they do not live in an area with gang problems. Oh and guess what? Some gang members do go to college and join BGLOs. |
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Yup! South Side of Chicago! :cool: Also, that's a dangerous assumption, there are other cities in the Midwest whose gang problems get downplayed, e.g. St. Louis, Gary, IN, Detroit, Cleveland, etc. Chicago is not the only one with a severe gang problem, and hopefully people don't look at Chicago as the sole representative for gang issues. |
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You edited as I was posting.... St. Louis, ok, I'll give you that - but I don't think Detroit is considered Midwest, and I don't think you can put Cleveland and Gary up there with Chicago and St. Louis. |
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Because I said it in an earlier post LOL :p Detroit is considered Midwest. I'm saying if L.A. is recognized for its gang problem, we don't use that as the sole representative for California, we are aware of places like Oakland and Compton; I feel if we recognize more Midwestern cities we can help aid in fixing the gang problem... .....even though the mayor's solution to Chicago's problem is to push em to the suburbs....but that's an entirely different topic :cool: |
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We even have a problem here in MN, but guess what? We have our fair share of Bloods, Crips, Disciples, etc., but we also have Asian and Latino gangs. And they are no joke. Oh and Michigan is considered midwest in a lot of designations. And Gary--whew! Per capita I bet they would compare to Chi and the Lou. |
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I should tell you that I am an old head that has experienced a lot of life, probably before you were even born. And your solutions are not that simple. |
I never said they would be simple solutions...but it's a start...I've experienced the 'college thugs' as some call em, and know of folks who have returned to their hometown after school and yet still found themselves in the same situation as when they left.
If someone is very into the gang lifestyle and they are seeking membership, I don't really think it is wise for the organization to give them a bid unless they have a real sit down and have an understanding before they undertake their Membership Intake, if you're just taking folks without knowing really where they are coming from then we can expect this behavior to continue...I feel this would help shake off the cobwebs they (those interested) have and the misperceptions they have of GLO's as "college gangs" |
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And yes I know that you are a seasoned NPHC member and that you have a great deal of knowledge/wisdom to share but I also know that when it comes to the hazing thing (as it is today), the newer heads are just more in touch than a lot of the old heads are. Some of us have been through it ourselves, observed it, been involved in it, so the why's are a bit more clear to us whether we agree with it or not. |
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Yea...I can say the same here in the "A". Since I am the neo on the board I rarely hear comments like this about our orgs...if I do it is usually from someone who has not clue what we stand for or aware of the impact D9's have in the community they live in. I tell them what my org (DST) has done past and present and they comments are few to none..
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I did a very thorough paper and presentation on gangs in college. It's not as talked about as gangs in LA, Chicago, Detroit, but it does exist and is pretty vapid. |
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