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FSUZeta 04-02-2007 09:24 AM

well. come to naples my friends, if you want to see northerners who left a better place, know more than us, blah, blah, blah.

from november to easter we are inundated with "snowbirds" for whom the phrase "ugly american" must have been coined. they are the rudest, most arrogant, unhappy bunch of people i have ever had to deal with. they feel that they are entitled and that everyone should kow tow to them. i have had them actually cut in front of me in line-just bypass the line of people waiting to pay , walk up to the clerk and demand to be waited on. when one woman started creating a scene after charging past those of us waiting to pay,and then creating a scene when the clerk told her that we had been waiting, we locals told the clerk to wait on her-we would wait.

a month ago i was waiting in line at the grocery store and two women who were behind me, complaining about how the store did not stock a few items that they got "back home." then they proceeded to bash the beach parking, property taxes, restaurants, high cost of living in naples,etc. and how we locals need them in order to maintain the lifestyles we have . if you are so miserable, why don't you stay up north? believe me, we won't miss you!!

i am counting the days until easter when the great migration will begin again.
it can't come soon enough for me!!

Ch2tf 04-02-2007 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 1422043)
CH2tf - so you had maybe one conversation about this with a southerner, but you heard the "At least we won the war" comment once or twice? Doesn't that kind of prove my point? The fact that you had only the one conversation despite going to grad school in the south seems to also support another observation of mine - that most southerners are too polite to bring up the subject.

If that is what you choose to believe that is fine. I've had the conversation with a southerner (more than one if you include my cousins, but since the back in forth between them and my dad was more of light banter I didn't count it). I didn't/don't have the conversation because I choose not to indulge in it. People are going to have strong feelings about where they come from and it's pointless to go back and forth and it's one of those arguments where the two sides are never going to come into agreement with each other.

SWTXBelle 04-02-2007 10:54 AM

Then I'm curious as to why you posted to this thread??? :rolleyes:

FSUZeta - I know, I know. I lived in Melbourne, FLA for years and was amazed at those snowbirds who were sooooo unhappy. For the love of God, move back north! Life is too short to be miserable where you are living.
Lest you think we stayed in the north when we were unhappy - when my family was in NJ, my father was a vice-president at a Fortune 500 company. He told the president to move us south - or he would quit. They didn't believe it - look at your title! look at your salary! No one would leave here!
He did. Packed up his wife and 4 kids, and moved home to Texas. We spent a summer haying and ranching while he looked for a new executive position. I didn't appreciate at the time the bravery that took. He got a great job with a company he has been with since 1978 - and I learned to do something rather than sit around and complain. ;)

shinerbock 04-02-2007 11:25 AM

Naples would be one of the greatest places on earth if not for the yankees. I really like that town. Thankfully the snowbirds in the Destin area aren't as bad.

banditone 04-02-2007 11:39 AM

Oklahoma isn't "south" by any stretch of the imagination right?

shinerbock 04-02-2007 11:42 AM

Oklahoma isn't south, but there are similarities

AlexMack 04-02-2007 03:02 PM

Um...we don't want the snowbirds either. They suck up here too. It's not a northern thing it's a crotchety old person thing.

shinerbock 04-02-2007 03:43 PM

Well true, it could be worse for Naples. Most other places in mid or south florida have some magical direct pipeline which imports sketchy people from Jersey on a daily basis.

FatalDSTination 04-02-2007 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by banditone (Post 1421367)
Is Texas considered "south"? I know it's the most south you can get without being in Mexico, but it seems to never get mentioned when compared to "real south" states like Mississippi, Bama, SC, Georgia, Louisiana.


Yes, TX is real south!

1908Revelations 04-02-2007 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by FatalDSTination (Post 1422273)
Yes, TX is real south!

I thought so too.

FatalDSTination 04-02-2007 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by 1908Revelations (Post 1422276)
I thought so too.

I dont even see how its questionable personally. I mean we have 7 of largest cities in the U.S. maybe that has something to do with it.:rolleyes:

1908Revelations 04-02-2007 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by FatalDSTination (Post 1422277)
I dont even see how its questionable personally. I mean we have 7 of largest cities in the U.S. maybe that has something to do with it.:rolleyes:

Don't ask me....I'm just a Bama.:rolleyes:

macallan25 04-02-2007 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by FatalDSTination (Post 1422277)
I dont even see how its questionable personally. I mean we have 7 of largest cities in the U.S. maybe that has something to do with it.:rolleyes:

Why would that have anything to do with it?

Why do you think it is a "Real South" state? I don't...and I was born and raised in Texas. Again, I think Texas is in a class of its own......and that East Texas is the only part of Texas that could be considered truly Southern.

SWTXBelle 04-02-2007 06:03 PM

Most people tend to think of Texas as like west Texas - they don't realize that Texas has 5 distinct geographical areas. Texas has everything from mountains to beaches - it really is "A Whole 'Nother Country."
I'm from an east Texas family (7 generations - ancestor fought at the Battle of Bexar) and they are most assuredly southern. Tyler, Jasper, Henderson - very southern. Dallas - some parts and citizens yes, some no. El Paso - not southern at all. You get the idea.

honeychile 04-02-2007 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 1422043)
CH2tf - so you had maybe one conversation about this with a southerner, but you heard the "At least we won the war" comment once or twice? Doesn't that kind of prove my point? The fact that you had only the one conversation despite going to grad school in the south seems to also support another observation of mine - that most southerners are too polite to bring up the subject.
In all my years in NJ I never brought up the subject - but upon hearing my accent northerners felt obliged to comment on the north vs. south thing. If southerners were exactly the same, you should have been the reciepient of many of the same kind of comments I was subjected to, and yet by your own admission you were not.
Sociologists have noted that southerners tend to identify with their region to an extent that northerners do not; linguists have found to their surprise that instead of dying out, regional accents are in fact continuing to be an important identifying charcteristic of regional groups. I would hope that everyone could appreciate regional differences without resorting to insults.
I don't want grits in Maine, scrapple in Georgia, Tex-Mex in Tennessee or Philly Cheese steaks in Florida. I'm using food as my metaphor, but I'm personally glad that different areas of the country continue to be unique, and only wish everyone could appreciate the diversity of this country. Years as an Air Force brat taught me that there is something to enjoy no matter where you live. I enjoy visiting other areas of the country, and have often decried in my newspaper column the spread of strip centers and chain restaurants - too many areas of the country look exactly alike!
I'm also very glad I live in the south - told my husband the Yalie that I'd follow him anywhere, as long as it was below the Mason-Dixon.

Great post, especially, "I would hope that everyone could appreciate regional differences without resorting to insults." Having been raised by a Southern mother (who loved my daddy enough to move North), I've come up against my share of hostile remarks. Unfortunately, Northerners feel free to knock the main principles of my being raised Southern, and Southerners can't forgive me for living where I can best use my education. And I'm not about to compromise my values either way!

ETA: I'm DAR & UDC, too.

ladygreek 04-02-2007 10:43 PM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1422323)
Why would that have anything to do with it?

Why do you think it is a "Real South" state? I don't...and I was born and raised in Texas. Again, I think Texas is in a class of its own......and that East Texas is the only part of Texas that could be considered truly Southern.

My daughter lives in a suburb of Dallas--Frisco, and she works in Plano. What are they considered?

macallan25 04-03-2007 12:27 AM

The only place that I would live in Dallas would be Highland or University Park. I pretty much despise the Dallas suburbs.....and wouldn't consider them Southern in any way, shape, or form.

ladygreek 04-03-2007 03:53 AM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1422660)
The only place that I would live in Dallas would be Highland or University Park. I pretty much despise the Dallas suburbs.....and wouldn't consider them Southern in any way, shape, or form.

Oaky,that is what I thought.

SWTXBelle 04-03-2007 07:32 AM

Thanks, honeychile. I was eating lunch with my children in Texas when this loud, obnoxious woman came in and loudly told her friend "I just saw a minivan with a Confederate flag sticker and a Yale sticker - isn't that an oxymoron?"
It was my car. Only the fact that I had 4 children with me, including one infant and one toddler, kept me from going over and explaining that, no, there is nothing oxymoronic about it - it is entirely possible to be 1.) southern and 2.) well-educated. Jeez.

OH - and I'm working on my DRT!!!

honeychile 04-03-2007 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 1422751)
Thanks, honeychile. I was eating lunch with my children in Texas when this loud, obnoxious woman came in and loudly told her friend "I just saw a minivan with a Confederate flag sticker and a Yale sticker - isn't that an oxymoron?"
It was my car. Only the fact that I had 4 children with me, including one infant and one toddler, kept me from going over and explaining that, no, there is nothing oxymoronic about it - it is entirely possible to be 1.) southern and 2.) well-educated. Jeez.

OH - and I'm working on my DRT!!!

Good luck on the DRT research! Sadly, my Texas ancestors are too new to even try. I'm FFV, though, and plan to attend the Jamestown activities.

Some people just can't think properly, as it would take them out of their hate-filled comfort zones. More's the pity, as it just perpetuates old myths. What gets to me are the people who move South, raise daughters and call them GRITS. There's a lot more to being a Southerner than geography!

lauralaylin 04-03-2007 12:12 PM

Mary Dickson? Each post of yours keeps getting better and better.

epchick 04-03-2007 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 1422346)
El Paso - not southern at all.

That is true and all I have to say is....THANK GOD we aren't!

shinerbock 04-03-2007 12:49 PM

el paso, haha.

macallan25 04-03-2007 02:17 PM

El Paso........gateway to Juarez.

I shudder at the thought.

Elephant Walk 04-03-2007 02:40 PM

I went to Juarez and El Paso recently, I'm pretty sure there were more English speakers in Juarez than in El Paso.


P.S. Future Greek you have no idea what your talking about

Tom Earp 04-03-2007 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 1422751)
Thanks, honeychile. I was eating lunch with my children in Texas when this loud, obnoxious woman came in and loudly told her friend "I just saw a minivan with a Confederate flag sticker and a Yale sticker - isn't that an oxymoron?"
It was my car. Only the fact that I had 4 children with me, including one infant and one toddler, kept me from going over and explaining that, no, there is nothing oxymoronic about it - it is entirely possible to be 1.) southern and 2.) well-educated. Jeez.

OH - and I'm working on my DRT!!!

Aint that Texas?:D

Texas is a country and they have @ 5-6 parts or States.;)

Just like North South, East West, they, Texicans are all different!;)

Amzing though with your window stickers, I am surprised you were not draggged out of food joint and hauled off in chains down the highway by a BIG PICKUM UP TRUCK WITH A WHIP ANTENNA AND RIFLE IN THE WINDOW!;)

Glad to see and hear from you and Your children!:D

epchick 04-06-2007 02:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 1423074)
I went to Juarez and El Paso recently, I'm pretty sure there were more English speakers in Juarez than in El Paso.


P.S. Future Greek you have no idea what your talking about

And your point is?

I think El Paso is perfectly fine.

shinerbock 04-06-2007 10:51 AM

Feel free to think so. But taking jabs at the south warrants the kind of response you got.

Tom Earp 04-06-2007 02:40 PM

Hm, thought it was all in the same country? From sea to shining sea and border to border.:D

FatalDSTination 04-06-2007 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1422323)
Why would that have anything to do with it?

Why do you think it is a "Real South" state? I don't...and I was born and raised in Texas. Again, I think Texas is in a class of its own......and that East Texas is the only part of Texas that could be considered truly Southern.


When was the last time you looked at a map land hunter? Texas is South, just because the state has several geograhic areas doesnt meant its not. Why is Dallas surburbia not South, because they are riding horses? Please check the differences in human geography and physical geography! Texas is the southermost part of the Great Plains.. look that up if you need too! :rolleyes:

shinerbock 04-06-2007 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by FatalDSTination (Post 1425296)
When was the last time you looked at a map land hunter? Texas is South, just because the state has several geograhic areas doesnt meant its not. Why is Dallas surburbia not South, because they are riding horses? Please check the differences in human geography and physical geography! Texas is the southermost part of the Great Plains.. look that up if you need too! :rolleyes:

Talk about somebody completely missing the point.

SWTXBelle 04-06-2007 06:48 PM

We are, I believe, discussing the cultural, rather than the geographical, south.

TSteven 04-07-2007 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by FatalDSTination (Post 1425296)
When was the last time you looked at a map land hunter? Texas is South, just because the state has several geograhic areas doesnt meant its not. Why is Dallas surburbia not South, because they are riding horses? Please check the differences in human geography and physical geography! Texas is the southermost part of the Great Plains.. look that up if you need too! :rolleyes:

I agree with macallan25, SWTXBelle, and shinerbock on this.

I would pretty much say that anything east of the Brazo River could (might/use to) be considered culturally Southern. Or at least linked to the ways and traditions of the South as it may be historically "stereotyped" and or classified. The rest of Texas - bless it's heart - would be considered "western". Or simply "Texas" at best. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

epchick 04-07-2007 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by shinerbock (Post 1425157)
Feel free to think so. But taking jabs at the south warrants the kind of response you got.

I like how you think i'm "taking jabs" at the south because I said that I was thankful that El Paso was not considered "southern." Ohh big deal. And seeing as how El Paso is still connected to Texas, and Texas is considered the "south" well then so is El Paso.

SWTXBelle 04-07-2007 08:58 AM

If stating that you were thankful El Paso was not considered part of the south was not meant to be a slam at the south - then what was it you were trying to convey? And to further complicate things, you then provide a geographical defense of El Paso as a southern city - seemingly contridicting your earlier assertion that you were thankful El Paso was not southern. Huh???
For the record, I believe you will find no arguement with the idea that El Paso is a part of the cultural and geographical Southwest. Geography is more apt to change than culture. At one time, Texas extended all the way up to what is now Colorado! El Paso has more in common with, say, New Mexico, then it does with east Texas on just about every level.
If I were to state "Thank God I'm not an Alpha Phi" - wouldn't you consider that a slam at Alpha Phi? (Not that I ever could - Syracuse Triad Forever!) I believe that is why your earlier statement was seen as an insult. If you did not mean to insult the south, you might wish to reword it. If you did, well, then at least own it!

Elephant Walk 04-07-2007 12:28 PM

In terms of Texas, the Southern line probably ends around Dallas, though I believe in smaller towns in Texas the line may go quite a bit further west.

shinerbock 04-07-2007 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by epchick (Post 1425565)
I like how you think i'm "taking jabs" at the south because I said that I was thankful that El Paso was not considered "southern." Ohh big deal. And seeing as how El Paso is still connected to Texas, and Texas is considered the "south" well then so is El Paso.

The statement "thank GOD its not in the south", is obviously not neutral.

EE-BO 04-07-2007 12:59 PM

The South has a bigger dick than the North.

shinerbock 04-07-2007 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by EE-BO (Post 1425642)
The South has a bigger dick than the North.

True story.

EE-BO 04-07-2007 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by shinerbock (Post 1425646)
True story.

Yup- sums it up in so many ways, and at a level of discourse some of our northern bretheren will surely better understand.


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