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I'm in the process of looking for a salaried job. Commission based income does not work for me. As a TRUUUUUE Cancerian, I NEEDS SOME CONSISTENCY (weekly or bi-weekly paychecks). I been doing this commission thing for months now and I haven't closed one loan yet for one reason or another. It's time to make a change.
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Ok, Ghost_wolf, you are being published, are a grad student and just got a 4.0 w/out much effort. I already have a man so I will ask the obvious question - are you looking? LOL. I'm sure we could find someone for you. :)
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I have another confession....
A female that considers me to be her best friend (the feeling is NOT mutual on my part b/c she has a big mouth and likes to talk a lot of junk about people) gave me a harsh talk this past weekend about me being almost 30 years old and not having my $h!t together. She says that it's not cute to be broke and said that she doesn't fcuk with bum b!tches. In essence, I think she was trying to call me a bum b!tch, but I know I'm not one. ;) She told me that she loves me, but doesn't like me b/c I haven't progressed fast enough in her eyes. I had helped her create her list of short term goals that she wanted to reach in the next year or so. She says that I'm more likely to talk the talk, but not walk the walk (basically saying that I'm a liar :rolleyes: ). She said that she can't wait until I get my own apartment so she can come over to my house on the weekends, get drunk and pass out on my couch. Wow, what a "friend".......
Frankly, I don't give a frog's fat azz WTH she thinks, b/c at the end of the day, she's not gonna help me look for a salaried job, pay for my carfare to get back and forth, look for an apartment to live in or pay any of my bills. So she can kiss my gorillatush and K.I.M. (that's her name BTW). She said that after all this, she didn't care if we spoke ever again or not, she just had to say that. Just 15 minutes ago, she rolled up in my job and asked me to keep an eye on her friend's daughter in the salon a few doors down while they go shopping for shoes at the mall. Go figure..... |
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1. I'm just using the job I'm at now to pay and save for when I leave and forget about the job before that one. 2. I just got a great GRE score but I'm not sure what to do with the rest of my life. 3. I've been a business major since highschool but when I entered sales I ran into some serious ethical conflicts and will not be pursuing an MBA. 4. As for your Confession #3 I'll just keep that to myself for now. |
^^^^That was me a few months ago.
Confession #1 has been solved: I started a new job as a library assistant three weeks ago and have been really enjoying it. I was so happy leaving my old job and sometimes I realize that I am no longer there and that I am started to live the life that I want for myself. Even though I had to move and pizz off my parents in the process, I'm glad I did it. Confession #2: I am begining to realize that I do want to become a librarian and will soon start getting ready to take the GRE so I can enroll in graduate school. And in most cases, don't have to leave work to do it. They will even help me pay for school. Confession #3: Kappafriend and I have been talking more and trying to support other. His father died last month and his aunt a little more than a week ago. He's been in his hometown since his dad passed and we been talking a few times a week. I hope this doesn't change when he moves back. |
TTT-I like this thread.
I'm kind of cheap. For halloween, instead of buying a costume like everyone else, I grabbed a name tag and wrote my name, and came as myself. I flunked my driver's exam twice. That d*mn parallel parking is what held me back. I don't wash my hands after taking a 3 a.m. pee. I'm going back to bed, why does it matter? :confused: |
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I don't post much but I'll go with this...
I became engaged earlier this year, several months later we came to a mutual decison that we need a real break from each other. Fast forward a couple of months, I find out that the he had been seeing this other chick for a couple of months and been sleeping with several others. I find this out through an anonymous email from who else...the girl he is sleeping with, but she disguises herself be claiming to be a member of my sorority :rolleyes: it gets ugly but I remain the calm collected lady that I am. My confession...I want to smack that b****!!!, slash some tires and just get all out ghetto on their a**!! whew! I feel better already |
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One time, when I was young and dumb, I caught my then boyfriend at some chick's house. I knocked on the door and asked the girl to tell him to come to the door. His scared @$$ never came, so I took a crowbar from the trunk of my car and went to work on his precious Acura legend. Of course I denied it to the end. I even had "witnesses" that said I was with them. Anyway, he was so mad in court, he cussed me out and that made my defense that I was terrified of him and that he had been threatening me that much sweeter. He was sentenced to anger management and was told that if I ever reported to the police that he was harassing me, he would be in jail. Ahhhh, revenge is so sweet.
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I know...I'm ashamed of it now, but back in the day, I was 'bout it!!! :)
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I confess... I wish I was as 'bout it as pinkies up was back in the day...
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Vengence is mine says the Lord, I shall avenge thee... What comes around, goes around... What you throw out into the Universe will come back to you... You need to better than that. But I probably sue him for ruining my wedding plans to get some of the deposit money back... And in someways, glad you didn't marry the fool? Look what he has to deal with... Some psychotic lunatic emailing you thangs... The best way to get over a broken heart after a situation like that and when you're done with mourning the loss (i.e. burning his items). Is to change your hair in terms style, color or cut... And you have the "permission" to be bold about it. And have a "spa day". |
Confessions Pt. 1
My biggest fear is becoming a bum, I sometimes dislike my older sister with a great passion because my mother babies her. My mother purchased 3 vehicles for her everytime she broke them or was repossessed, while I had to purchase my 1st vehicle all by myself. I fend for myself while everything is given to my older sister. I'm 20 going on 40! I'm SO afraid of failure...I don't think I could handle it. I'm a second year nursing student and all of the classes are more difficult as I advance in the program. I secretly want to quit nursing school sometimes but I don't and will not because my dream is to become a nurse. Sometimes I feel that I am not worthy of love & affection even though I know I am! I'm just a nut case at times! :( I'll be back with Part 2.
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I decided to post here after reading one of the other threads...
About 8 years ago, I got involved with this dude that had a girlfriend - but I didn't care because I had a fiance (I know, I know... Issues...). After much drama (and I do mean drama)... Ole' dude and I had the nerve to stay together and we got married a few years ago... The fam' was not too happy about the union but they've learned to accept it. And somehow we're still together... This is my confession... |
These are my confessions...(pt. 2)
I've known a certain friend that'll I'll call Marine since I was in the 10th grade(5 yrs). We had a mutual crush but neither of us voiced it so we wouldn't destroy our friendship. I lost contact w/ him 4 a couple of years. We reunite on Myspace & I find out he joined the Marines & is stationed on the other side of the country. When we meet face-2-face sparks fly, but again we do nothing because he's stationed on the other side of the country. He ends up marryin' a woman 10 yrs his senior that he's only known for 2mnths! She's been in Italy for 3 mnths now and they've only been married for 5 mnths. He told me that he wished he waited longer to wed. I know he still has feelings for me because he becomes jealous when I talk about other men but of course he doesn't admit it. I secretly wish that he would divorce her and come be with me. Selfish I know...but I believe he may be my soulmate. Plus that would explain the mess my love life has been in "since the 10th grade."
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While doing some business rounds with some colleagues in October, I met a gentleman. I thought nothing of it then, but when we met one on one a couple of weeks later I went home absolutely sprung ... and have been ever since!
Right now my husband is in grad school (this weekend the cycle starts all over again) and most of the time I am alone with my thoughts of Mr. Sprung. In November I bought a pretty negligee that to this date still has the tags on it. This week I bought sexy underwear, something I hadn't done in years and have never done in all the years I've been with DH. I haven't thought about being with anyone else in almost six years. I know if it's meant to be, it will happen, but I can't help but wonder ... Someone needs to hose me down because I have never been this hot for anyone! |
@ BabyBlue
Girl don't let that new image and new body have you acting crazy and not using your good judgement... ;) The hot flashes are temporary, but your hubby's love is eternal... But it is kind of exciting to fantasize, huh?! ;) Keep chanting to yourself - I'm a good girl... I'm a good girl... and then go give hubby a hug :) |
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OH MY!!!!! BB91, I have a question for you? Is your husband overweight, or is he "normal" weight? I ask this because I'm wondering if you are seeing this guy with your new weight and newfound good feelings about yourself and wanting to step out there because of the new you, but I'm saying slow down...he he he, your husband was there thru the ups, and now the downs....he he he |
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I just got an email from my last crush (before I started dating DH). We used to work for the same company and had not spoken in about three years. He has since moved south to be with family. What is going on?
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Whenever I meet a guy I don't like or change my mind about a guy I'm dating to get rid of him I pretend that I'm crazy. I will laugh hysterically for no reason at all, call repeatedly and talk about dumb stuff &/or tell them I'm Lucifer and start to roar(lol). I may even give them the rejection hotline number if I'm in a different state.
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My confessions…
I think I may be single for the rest of my life… Seriously, I have never seen a successful relationship/marriage in my lifetime. I’ve lost faith in the idea of having a family with a father in the house. The only thing that can restore that faith is my faith that God can make this happen in my life regardless of what I’ve seen. That would be a MIRACLE! Sometimes it’s hard for me to walk by faith and not by sight. Needless to say, all of the men in my life (family and friends) have cheated to the point that it has ruined their marriages/relationships. So it’s hard for me to believe that I would be any different. I also think that I wouldn’t know how to be a wife with a husband because I’m too independent, like the women in my life. As much as I want to have a family, I sometimes feel that it would be best that I save someone from having to deal with my own insecurities based on my loved ones experiences. When you’ve never seen a successful relationship your ENTIRE life, have cousins and siblings popping up out of nowhere, and witnessed cheating and cheaters being caught from the time you were young enough to remember; I guess it can have an effect on you. |
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While I’m in the confessing mood, I’ll add something else…
I had a class a few years ago that I was struggling in. At the end of the semester I was border-line of a B- and C+ my professor offered me a higher grade in exchange for sex. I said no, and I ended up with a C-. Still think about it years later…especially when I look at my transcripts. I should have I should have reported his nasty @$$. Always wish I did. I remember hearing rumors about him doing that to other girls, and some of them actually admitted it. I wouldn’t even think about it. Instead, I left it alone, stayed silent, and kept my C-. He should have been fired! I wish I reported him. |
You know I like you, but I don't know if I can deal with all the other chicks who give blatant attention. Some are cool, but some are down right audacious and I would be embarassed to conduct myself in such a manner ESPECIALLY in a church setting.
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Bumping from the brink of oblivion....
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1. He loves me more than I love him.
2. They dont understand why & where I wanna go (in life) 3. Someone who is very close to me (known her for forever) just cannot manage to keep her mouth closed about my business, but would kill me if I told hers and I never do tell hers. 4. I dont really care for my new boss. I mean bossy pays me less than my old boss and bossy is way more strict. Boss basically said i could care less if you are trying to move into your deceased gdads house and all of your clothes got lost by luggage people and you have acne....you better be here on time dressed to kill and have on make-up. I dont mind having my appearance on point all the time, actually I like it, but how do you admonish a person on their first day when its been explained that there is a situation going on. How do you tell me "being a sloppy broad (didnt exactly say these words but I got the message) may just be your style and thats fine, but I cant work with that so you need to evaluate if this is right for you" WTH? I explained the situation going on BEFORE you hired me...Im very well qualified all of your people loved me, but you didnt have to hire me and if i didnt want the job I wouldnt have spent more than I'll make in a week buying clothes, shoes, and "makeup" (what little I could find that wouldnt make my face break out) just to come work for you does that not show that ive evaluated the job and want it! 5. I REALLY REALLY REALLY miss him so much. I still havent gotten a chance to even be sad or cry about it. I have to deal with other people's greif and snide remarks about losing him like it doesnt hurt. 6. There is so much more. (and these are supposed to be the best four years of my life! NOT! well not right now) |
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My man hangs out with a certain cultural association and I can't stand this group. They party too much and way too often (under the disguise of doing good things for their people) and their "fundraising" fees are always expensive. Some of the guys are disrespectful, as well. On top of that, some of the women involved in the group have rubbed me the wrong way. :mad: Somehow, MY email address, instead of his, got added to their weekly event list and I delete the emails without forwarding them to him or letting him know of the events. *evil laughter* He just thinks the group isn't very active. :rolleyes: He doesn't know how much I hate them since I was the one who introduced him to them thinking it would be good for him to get to know others from his particular country. Now I wish I never did. |
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