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delph998 01-28-2004 04:51 AM

HC Vanda, please take heed to what was said?
HC what if you were the wife?
HC CT4, is that why you started that thread in DST Blvd?
HC what happened to "do unto others as you would have them to do unto you"?
HC you can't have Sister BTB disturbed?
HC she's a great friend of mine?
HC we will pray for Vanda?

HC Nikki1920, where are you?????

nikki1920 01-28-2004 09:17 AM

HC here I is?!
HC I wanna meet ya'll too.
HC Ideal08 will beat me up first b/c I keep missing her parties, but I still wanna meet her, too. lol

HC VANDA, WALK, NO RUN, FAAAAAARRR AWAY!!

HC Third day of being at home due to snow/ice and the Fed having unscheduled leave.
HC I aint going out unless I need to

HC I had a talk with myself
HC I need to stop comparing myself to other women
HC it makes me depressed
HC this all started when I went to the dr for the Patch (TMI, I know, lol) and I had gained 15 lbs. :eek:
HC I dont feel attractive
HC I dont like my hair, my stomach, or my clothes
HC I need a personal shopper
HC I need to get my self esteem back. :(

HC Vanda, RUN, GIRL, RUN
HC drool @ him from afar, but dont touch him
HC Karma is a beast, but is nothing compared to a wronged wife, and that is REAL.

HC the distraction is taking me to his family reunion in August.
HC we spent yesterday afternoon on the phone, looking up train prices? :p
HC the trip from here to there is 20+ hours??!! :eek:
HC we are both excited about it!

HC someone clue me in on what happened w/ Librasoul?
:confused:

CrimsonTide4 01-28-2004 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by delph998

HC CT4, is that why you started that thread in DST Blvd?

HC I know YALL did not think I wanted a married man?!?!!
HC shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii?
HC it ain't that type of party!?!?

vanda 01-28-2004 11:09 AM

Some clarifications
 
I am not the one contemplating an affair. I deal with an 18 year old drop out, who at the time really ticked me off because those are the words she said to me when I asked her why did she ditch a job interview I had set up for her. She would rather follow this fool around. What makes it so bad is I think she's serious. I have tried on several occasions to see that that's not the way to go but she says I'm wrong. I wanted her to see that I was not the only one who thought she was wrong. I felt you guys here would give it to her straight, and you do not know her so she could not say we were just on her case. When I came on to clarify this, the site was down.

You know I would never cause drama, but I am at my wit's end as to how to get through to her. NO one in her family has graduated and they all had a child by the age of 16. Thankfully she doesn't. Everyone else has given up on her, but I do not want to. I will not. A lot of you said you would pray for me, but I ask that you pray for her. I hope she sees her errors and try her best to change them before it's too late.

I know a lot of you were probably saying Vanda is a dumb fill in the blank. That's not the case at all. I went through being the one cheated on and it's not a great feeling so I could not in good conscious hurt someone else. I have also seen it hurt very dear family members. Besides I am happy with who I have and I'm not about to mess up a good thing.

toocute 01-28-2004 11:31 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by vanda
HC the guy I wanna get with is married?
HC we've been flirting back and forth for the past year
HC He told me he cheated on his wife over a year ago
HC I'm upset it wasn't with me?
HC I'm gonna get with him one of these days, even if I have to kidnap him? ;)

HC what does this have to do with a 18 yo drop out and an interview?
HC if you are not contemplating an affair why did you say/type I ?
HC :confused:
HC I was going to stay away from this chit but your current post makes NO SENSE

delph998 01-28-2004 11:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by toocute
HC what does this have to do with a 18 yo drop out and an interview?
HC if you are not contemplating an affair why did you say/type I ?
HC :confused:
HC I was going to stay away from this chit but your current post makes NO SENSE

HC I concur?

HC Nikki, welcome back?
HC stop comparing yourself to other women?
HC beauty is in the eye of the beholder?
HC that means that "THE DISTRACTION" sees something in you that he sees in no other?
HC if you wanna lose weight, do the thug thizzle?
HC I KNOW it's not that easy?
HC support group though?
HC I think you're beautiful!!!
HC I don't flow that way though...just a compliment. :D

HC CT4, again...I APOLOGIZE!!!! :rolleyes:

lovelyivy84 01-28-2004 12:05 PM

HC (((((((nikki)))))))

HC you need to stop comparing yourself to other women and compare yourself to you
HC you should think about why exactly you're unhappy
HC if it's something you can and ARE PREPARED TO genuinely change, then make changes
HC a lot of times it doesn't have much to do with the physical, that's where we focus our frustration
HC check ya PMs!

Honeykiss1974 01-28-2004 12:26 PM

HC James is going off in Chit Chat?
HC preach? :D
HC ((((((((NIKKI1920))))))))?
HC stop comparing yourself to anyone?
HC the only person you need to compare yourself to is Christ?
HC and it has NOTHING to do with the physical? :)
HC one of good friend's is bad at this?
HC she is constantly comparing herself to me and trying to "out-do" me?
HC her comments sometimes irk me? :mad:
HC Nikki1920 you are wonderfully made?
HC see my signiture for confirmation? ;)
HC random HC time?
HC Vanda?
HC you last post :confused: me too?
HC ah well..................?
HC I've got a dentist appointment this afternoon?
HC I get to leave work early?
HC its colder than a mug here?
HC BRRRR?
HC Old Man Winter has straight settled in?
HC he done took his shoes off and everything?
HC let me get back to work?

vanda 01-28-2004 12:28 PM

More clarification
 
I realize I should not have used "I" but it seemed the right choice when I first posted. I didn't want to put out an HC starting "HC this girl I know" because I knew she would take it as me trying to embarrass her and trying to intentionally hurt her. The reason it is about an 18 year old is because the reason she ditched the interview was to hang out and look for him. I hope this clears up things and makes sense to the other post.


My first post were words she had said to me when I questioned why she had missed the interview.

CrimsonTide4 01-28-2004 12:30 PM

@ NIKKI
 
HC NIKKI, READ THIS?

HC be not dismayed?

toocute 01-28-2004 12:36 PM

Nikki
 
HC ((((((((((((((((HUGZZ)))))))))))))))))



ETA


HC Boondocks today
HC Re-Negrofication
HC Holla
HC that made my day

1sd 01-28-2004 01:11 PM

HC (((((((NIK-diddy))))))))?
HC I'll come visit you, and you can feel like the small friend if we go out? :p
HC that'll make you feel better? HAHAHA :D

HC there is some twilight zone chit going on up in hurr'? :rolleyes:
HC a coupla people is 'actin' funny'?
HC and that's all I'm gonna say about that?

HC "Re-negrofication" made my day as well?
HC I was like, "Oh no he didn't"?

HC I'm definitely not going to FL next month, but I'm still not sure whether I'm coming to MD?
HC it depends on the weather up there?

FeeFee 01-28-2004 01:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Honeykiss1974
HC James is going off in Chit Chat?
HC preach? :D

HC Homeboy sure did preach on CC??
HC Unfortunately, not everyone will get his point? :( :(

HC (((((NIKKI1920)))))
HC Don't let anyone/anything steal your joy?
HC STRUT YOUR STUFF!!!!
HC Make changes for yourself and yourself only?

CrimsonTide4 01-28-2004 01:20 PM

HC this thread: http://www.greeksource.com/gcforums/...threadid=45800

HC the Ying Yang twins CD makes me feel extra ghetto too? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
HC some folks are starved for attention?

toocute 01-28-2004 01:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4

HC the Ying Yang twins CD makes me feel extra ghetto too? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

HC Along with Grey Goose and Pinapple
HC le sigh

FeeFee 01-28-2004 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
HC this thread: http://www.greeksource.com/gcforums/...threadid=45800

HC the Ying Yang twins CD makes me feel extra ghetto too? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
HC some folks are starved for attention?

HC I just got through reading that isht?
HC some people?
HC SMH? :rolleyes:

Honeykiss1974 01-28-2004 01:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
HC this thread: http://www.greeksource.com/gcforums/...threadid=45800
HC :rolleyes: but CTFU at the mental image?
HC all that comes to mind is Jamie Kennedy in Malibu's Most Wanted?
HC someone has seen one to many rap videos? :rolleyes:

1sd 01-28-2004 01:43 PM

HC LMAO @ Jamie Kennedy...that EXACTLY how I picture him?

HC my next door neighbors are arguing?
HC I have a coupla questions?
HC why ain't ya'll at work?
HC if ya'll were at work like you should be, ya'll wouldn't be getting on each others nerves?
HC the guy is such a beyotch?
HC this is the same guy who was arguing with his friends last year because they didn't "invite" him to play pool?
HC I can hear everything?
HC you never realize how thin the walls are until your neighbors start making noise?

HC make me kinda wonder what they hear going on over here? :confused:

CrimsonTide4 01-28-2004 01:44 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 1sd
HC make me kinda wonder what they hear going on over here? :confused:
HC me wonders what they hear in YOUR APARTMENT too?!?!?! :o :p :eek: ;) :D

1sd 01-28-2004 01:47 PM

HC mind yo bidnez?
HC was that YING YANG enough for you? :p

Honeykiss1974 01-28-2004 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 1sd
HC mind yo bidnez?
HC was that YING YANG enough for you? :p

HC oh snizzle fo shizzle ! 1sd?
HC don't take your shirt off and start twisting it in the air?
HC LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL ?
HC "ahhhh" - thanks Cashmoney for the comedic relief?

Steeltrap 01-28-2004 02:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
HC this thread: http://www.greeksource.com/gcforums/...threadid=45800

HC the Ying Yang twins CD makes me feel extra ghetto too? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
HC some folks are starved for attention?

HC I believe Lil' Jon and his crew look like a socially transmitted disease but I would never share thoughts like THAT in that forum?:rolleyes:
HC strong moderation is really needed over there?
HC the ability to trace IP addresses would help so that the pestilence is permanently barred?
HC I can only speak for me, but I see no need to respond to that because some people are not receptive to changing their ways?

librasoul22 01-28-2004 02:51 PM

HC I haven't left GC completely?
HC I have just been so freakin busy lately?
HC I haven't even really been on the 'net at all?
HC I am down with the flu today so I am trying to catch up?
HC apparently I missed some drama over in Chit Chat?
HC can someone fill me in?
HC it sucks being away so long and trying to catch up!

HC I hope everyone is well!!
HC I am gonna try to post regularly again (I mean it this time!)

feu_declipse 01-28-2004 03:41 PM

HC Some ppl don't understand pesonal space?
HC In Best Buy yesterday, standing in line
HC There were ppl in front, ppl in the back
HC Homeboy behind me asks am I in line
HC Yes!!!!
HC OBVIOUSLY, I'm not standing here for the sake of staring at the back of someone's head :rolleyes:
HC It's now my turn in the line
HC Brotherman stepped right up behind me
HC BACK THE HECK UP
HC He really did look like brothaman from da fif flo'
HC I'm signing for my newly purchased goods and services
HC He was peering over my shoulder
HC Now yall know in Best Buy there's kindof a low wall where "most ppl stay behind
HC NOOOOOOOOOOO Not this one
HC :mad: :mad: :mad:
HC I felt like calling him out
HC It just wouldn't have been worth it
HC It made a bad day worse

HC Today is going a bit better
HC Although I just wanted to stay in bed
HC class until 8.30pm
HC Got here at 9am
HC *le sigh*

HC People should continue old threads when they can
HC I don't need new threads when it's hard enough to keep up already
HC Search boo boo, search. Good girl.

SkeeWee14 01-28-2004 05:49 PM

Agggghhhh!!!!
 
HC I'm feeling you on the personal space?
HC not a day goes by where something or someone doesn't
piss me off?
HC I am NOT a people person?
HC I need my own freakin planet?
HC I'm thinking about volunteering to be the first human to live on
Mars?
HC just to get away from ignorant MF's?
HC with my luck the aliens will be just as bad?
HC :mad:
HC the electricity in my two bedrooms have been out for two
days?
HC I've been raising sand with the leasing office on the phone?
HC I just came from over there?
HC they don't know when it's going to be fixed?
HC WTF???
HC :mad:
HC I don't know how much of the rent I'm going to be paying?
HC they must be freakin crazy?
HC it's just the outlets that aren't working?
HC I need my freaking outlets?!!?
HC it's winter time and I don't need the ceiling fan?
HC not only am I ticked about the electricity?
HC my hair is nappy as hell too?
HC I don't know what do with it?
HC it's in that grow-out stage?
HC it will be too easy to cut it all off again?
HC I really want some microbraids?
HC I need them done for free?
HC I can't afford to pay out the butt for them?
HC I want them?
HC if I EVER get my W2's I'll get them with my tax return?
HC anybody want to come to the SAV to do them for me?
HC I'll cook you a gourmet meal?
HC I really can cook?
HC you won't be disappointed?
HC my friends think that I should start a catering business?
HC they trippin?
HC that's too much work?
HC I like cooking for pleasure?
HC I still want to know which one of y'all gonna come do my hair?
HC holla back?
HC :p ?
HC I'm feeling a little bit better? :D
HC for now?
HC did I mention that these are brand new apartments? :rolleyes:

nikki1920 01-28-2004 06:08 PM

HC awwww
HC ya'll heffas care bout me!!
HC *le sniffle*
HC lol
HC I'm ok
HC just too many thoughts running around in the space called my brain?
HC my job is stupid, they say they follow the fed govt for closing and delays, yet someone called me today to ask where I was? :confused:
HC you simple ASAS I'M AT HOME!!
HC STANDARD OPERATING PROCEDURE
HC *le sigh*
HC I need another job
HC people are gonna look at my resume and think I am incompetent? :sad:

HC thank you to lovelyivy, 1sd, ct4, feefee, toocute and everyone else who thought about me!! :)
HC ((((heffas))))

HC Vanda, not sure why you put that out there like you did, but I'm praying for your friend.
HC sometimes you just gotta let people learn the hard way
HC dont let them drag you down with them
HC hugz

FeeFee 01-28-2004 06:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by librasoul22
HC I haven't left GC completely?
HC I have just been so freakin busy lately?
HC I haven't even really been on the 'net at all?
HC I am down with the flu today so I am trying to catch up?
HC apparently I missed some drama over in Chit Chat?
HC can someone fill me in?
HC it sucks being away so long and trying to catch up!

HC I hope everyone is well!!
HC I am gonna try to post regularly again (I mean it this time!)

HC WELCOME BACK!!!
HC no more disappearing acts Missy???

tnxbutterfly 01-28-2004 10:19 PM

HC my former place of employment has yet to send me my W-2
HC this is Jan 28th
HC the mofos have 3 days
HC if my W-2 is not in my mailbox when I get home for work on Saturday..........
HC Feb 2, I will be in the lobby of my former place of employment.
HC I will be causing a scene.
HC they may have to escort me off the property
HC I don't care because I need my W-2
HC I've had my W-2 from my current job for about 2 weeks now.
HC that's because the supervisors of my new job are so efficent.
HC that's why I work there now and not my old job.
HC if I don't have my W-2 on Saturday, I'm going to be very upset
HC if I am, my lovely GC friends will hear alllllllllllllllllll about it:D


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