Everyone needs advice sometimes, even myself. :rolleyes:

I'm starting to get depressed because I can't get a date.

So I'm going to go get my nails done and fill the void in my life with clothing.

Clothes shopping and manicures are always the way to go!

:rolleyes:

Don't you roll them eyes at me boy

I just got back from shopping and I still don't feel better:(

Go back to the store and keep shopping!!!

If you think that's bad, I'm home alone on a Friday night watching the bleeping Olympics b/c I just broke up with my guy, who was the only person I know in this damn town! Bored!!!!

Unless I am confusing you for someone else with a similar collection of letters . . . you rarely lack for male attention so should be ok:)

Well, yes, but still....

:D

I'm bored and lonely too:( Well my roommate is here but she isn't the fun roommate. :(

Well, everyone is bored when I'm not in town. ;)





Oh, and :rolleyes: lol.

Yes it's no fun without you!

:D I'm sending you a PM, check it in a few.

you are giving advice?!?!?! uh no thanks....... I rather hear from AKA monet :)

With a name like babyP, I'm sure you would.

you dont know what it stands for.......dont assume.....:rolleyes:

And you obviously can't read the title of this thread....it didn't say aka_monet's dating advice, did it? :rolleyes:

Fabulous solution!

Dear Cashmoney,

There was a recent story on CNN about a guy being accused of stalking because he attached a GPS device to his girlfriend's car. http://www.cnn.com/2004/US/West/09/0....ap/index.html
Can you give us some advice about technology-mediated relationships? Is there anything wrong with what the guy did, or should he have just attached the cell phone to the car's power supply?

Say IF you don't really like a certain girl but you are just dating her to get a piece of a$$, yet she's not giving it up, and showing no signs that she will in the near future, How long do you stay with her before you give up or just get tired of her?


just trying to figure out if the current boy is only after sex.

There's nothing wrong with it if it's warrented. From a guy's view, monotoring email,cellphone records,voice conversations are all acceptable if it's a serious relationship.

If he's a pimp, 1-2 weeks tops. If he's your average guy or a loser.....he could stay with you for months.

WTF?? :eek: How is that ever acceptable? I don't care how serious it ever gets, none of my boyfriends ever had the nerve to do this and if they had I think I'd probably punch them in the face. I would never dream of doing that kind of thing to a guy that's sick. :rolleyes:

Kiki, when he says "from a guy's view," he means "from my view (but I'm going to pretend we all do it so I don't seem so creepy)."

It's not, and I'm like you, if a guy did that to me, he'd be cut off. I was involved--I guess you'd call it that--with a guy once who managed to get the password to my e-mail and he actually checked it several times a day for a long time before I figured out what he was up to. He found e-mails from one of my guy friends, and started writing to this guy, trying to make sure that I wasn't cheating on him! I was fit to be tied when I found out.

Odds are it happened to you and you just dont know it. Most guys check up on their girls if they're in a serious relationship but arent married. Whether its riding by their house seeing if they're really home and not lying about being somewhere they really arent or if its checking their email seeing if they still talk to ex-boyfriends they're keeping on the back burner......it's acceptable from a guy's viewpoint. Women do sneaky sneaky things. Older guys realize by our age women are slicker than us. It takes us a little longer to figure that out for ourselves than it does women...but eventually we catch on.

Ummmmm, last time I checked I thought you had a vagina. Listen, youngin, you don't know shit about a guy's view. Thats what makes women so stupid in a sense.....you think you know everything but you really don't. Its just women are a little more devious and backstabbing then men are.....thats why they think they know everything.

My point exactly.......most guys do stuff like this but girls dont realize it. Thats why we're reluctant to seriously date women. If we're not seriously dating and we're just fucking, stuff like that doesnt go on. But when you seriously date and bring feelings in it all, that kind of stuff starts happening.

So take a lesson, ladies, if you don't want shit like that going on....dont pressure a guy into seriously dating by holding out on the pussy. It'll save both of you a lot of headaches.

So you're saying its OK even if the guy has nothing to suspect?

Maybe I'm in the minority here, but to me, I guess it's one thing if a person (whether it's a guy or girl) does things like that just for no reason other than being snoopy and psycho, and another if the person has reason to believe the other person in the relationship is doing something really bad. (like if they have reason to believe the other person is cheating or maybe taking part in something highly illegal)

ETA: overly insecure people don't count in the above comment.. they would fall in the snoopy & psycho category :p

All guys are after sex. If you have more to offer he might consider you. If you do date and you don't put out then words gets around too. Heck you're in a lose, lose situation if you ask me. If you put out, you're a ho and if you don't, you've got issues.

-Rudey

If you've got a huge penis like I do, then you never worry about the girl cheating because she always comes back for bukaki.

-Rudey

Yea, if you got a reason its acceptable....as I'm sure tlnancy was indicating. If you have no reason at all, it's not acceptable. Thats just being plum-crazy.

Dude, thats soooooo true. hahahahaha

If that's true then where are all the rest of the guys on this board backing you up that they do it too?

Hmmmmm.....lets see, how many guys actually post on GC in this forum? Ummmm, maybe 10 at the most? And out of that number, how many do you think are actually going to come in a thread titled "Cashmoney's dating Advice"? Almost none unless they have some gay tendencies. Besides, out the of few guys who post on GC I'm probably the only one dumb enough to actually post that he does this kind of crap and actually admit to it. And I'm willing to bet most of the guys that post on GC don't have girlfriends for reasons similar to what I gave.....GFs are bullshit drama 75% of the time. They're a lot of stress and constantly have to be tended to or else they feel underappreciated.

Cash, I agree to your assessment. But less time... More like 1-2 days. I wish some guys would just say, "if you ain't freaking, then we ain't speakin'..."

Nahhhh, with white girls its a week or two. You have to give them at least a week to put out, sometimes two if they're really hot.


Now with sistas, you can get gangsta like that with them. Ive never went chocolate but i have friends who have. They just straight up tell the girls how it is. Usually sistas jump at the chance. I'm not shy at all and if a woman wants to grab my butt, usually i'll let her. A couple weeks a ago i was in a club here in Jacksonville and the hall-way I was walking down was packed like sardines in a can. I had this blonde chick walking next to me and a bunch of girls that were with her. They were all around me and then I felt one of them grab my left butt-cheek...she got the whole thing. I turned around and several of them pointed at each other. I just smiled and kept walking. When I had a sista do that about a year ago and there were 5 black girls around me and it was the same situation......one of them got my butt-cheek and I screamed. They started laughing and told me i was a fine looking white boy. :rolleyes: I told them that shit wasnt funny and not to do it again unless one of them planned on giving me some monster head......they grabbed my ass again. :rolleyes:

If he's really a pimp . . . she'll put out for him.

Why does it take them a week? 'Cuz I know some white girls be throwing hellava panties at some bruthas... If not skrait under-tha-cova-strippers/hoes, then dayum, they lay up with bruthaman at get-go...

See, now, what I don't understand is why you white boyz EVEN WAIT THAT LONG!!! What'z wrong wit y'all? Y'all ain't got that much game skillz to get the puddy to you by the end of the night???

I guess y'all weren't raised with the mentality of my father that "if you miss one bus, there will always be another one coming later..."

And yeah, back in tha day, my dad was a ballin' pimp mackidocious outta Daytona Beach...

He'd say chit like, "I knew what you were when I saw you, I just wanted to know what your price range is..." :rolleyes:

I am not an advocate of the pimp/playa lifestyle, but those dudes pretty much get what they want within 48 hours from the hot chicks. You can pretty much clock 'em, and they are keen enough in their game not to mess with what they can't get. Doesn't matter the color. Looks to me like somebody is suffering from WGS (Weak Game Syndrome). :D