Personally: N.C.
Celeb: Matthew McConaghey (sp?)

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:eek: WOW

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I really think my relationship with my brother is irrelevant. Hey, maybe your family is different, mine does not work that way. Everyone's family operates differently. But I share this because I saw it that way and I had to rationalized it that way. And it still takes a lot of rationalization for me to function in my environment.

Look, I can keep telling you that I am not in the business of my brother's marriage--or divorce for that matter (another subject), but you will choose to believe what you want. Since you don't know me, and I don't really know you, then who cares? Really?

And really, I fail to share your level of thinking. I have been where you are and done all that and it is coming from a spiritual standpoint of operating in pain. the comments you made to me are not taking in vain, because I operate in the divine. I find your comments only dealing with absolutes. I know from several of my failed relationships with men, I couldn't deal with absolutes...

And I, too am married to a wonderful man of African descent.

So really, what purview do you have if no one can voice their opinion on a public message board only to have quite puerile reponses in this particular discussion?

Either we have a successful pluralistic discussion or we can allow this discussion to degenerate into the sublime. I'm about transcendance--moving beyond that issue to help people... Maybe I am not understanding where you are coming from?

And I could go on and on, that's why if you have any further suggestions, comments or questions, then hey, PM me or not, I've got plenty other things to do...

Whereas, you can continue with this topic for lockdown, because I know my Soror Mods also agree with me...

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You're right. I don't know you. I only know what you post, and in so many words you posted that you interfered with your brother's marriage, because you didn't like the way he was treating his wife. In so many words, you also said that she doesn't know how to handle him, because she is of a different culture. I didn't make that stuff up. You posted it.

I am not operating in pain. I am with the man I want to be with, which is the same man that I've loved for 13 years, 7 of them as his wife. We share the same viewpoints in this matter, and neither of us are coming from a place of pain. If you were in operating in pain, then that's you. I'm glad you overcame it.

There is nothing wrong with the way this discussion is going, unless I am expected to pretend that I don't have views. Trust me, when I tell you that this discussin has been a whole lot milder than it could be.

Back to that PM....all I ask is if you want to take something to PM, there is nothing stopping you from PMing me. You do not have to write a dissertation and conclude with a request for further discussion in PM. You could have sent me a PM in the first place.

Mods, shmods. I don't care. I have not been rude or out of pocket. Whether they agree with you or not is of no concern to me. My views are MY views. If nobody on this whole board agreed with me, I would still speak my piece. God knows I hope your bringing up Mods wasn't a veiled threat. :rolleyes:

whoa

Get 'em Banks!

If you all were sticking to the LATEST topic of the thread, we wouldn't know xyz about anyone, their family, your views, his views, etc. etc. etc.

ALL I ASKED FOR WERE NAMES OF CELEBS OR FOLKS YOU KNEW WHO WERE NOT OF YOUR RACE THAT YOU WOULD DATE!

Either you post what was asked for or you take it to PM, email, UPS, USPS or whatever...


ETA: I've subtly tried to get folks back on track, but you all continued...

I date black girls. I think black women are hot.

Fee for CS Services?
 

Thank you for deciding to make the AVE and this info your first post!


Make sure you read the forum's as well as GCs usage guidelines.

Personally: Tha DJ. Lots of soul, personality and he's smart as all get out. Whew...:cool:
Celeb(s): Hugh Jackman and Simon Baker. Nice physiques. Especially Simon--Adonis-like. :D

enigma_AKA

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I don't think speaking on domestic violence is interference in any relationship.

Also, I would rather have my brother pissed off with me than be in prison because he let his anger out of control on his wife... The dynamic of our relationship is that I can still kick his ass on "general principals" and besides, I am a better shot than he is, unless my parents get to him first...

As far as his wife goes, that is how they do it in SoCal. That is the way it works out there... Since I don't live in SoCal anymore, I am not around to see the silliness and have to hear the heresay. My brother doesn't speak to me about it anyways because your right, it is NOT my business. And it becomes my business when I know that my brother is hurt and has to be incarcerated because he could not manage his emotions toward women--due to misogyny and arrogance.

So essentially, I am letting the chips fall where they land. And my brother has chosen divorce. So much for maintenence of the family.

Besides, like I said, I said what I had to say before he got married and endured his psychotic inane wedding but now everyone on my side is wondering why (including his soon to be ex-wife and him) their relationship failed??? I'm like, well...

Back on topic ;)
 

Okay I just saw the posts about Matthew not wearing any deodorant...HELL TO DA NAW!!!

My other option is Julian McMahon (that's if he wasn't married) and/or Chris Noth (Mr. Big from Sex in the City)

I've got two
 

I happen to think Tommy Lee and Anthony???Andrew?? Keddis??? the lead singer from the Red Hot Chilli peppers are attractive in a bad-boy kind of way.

I have moved on...
 

Since Matthew has funky pits ( :( ), John Cena is now #1.

Re: I have moved on...
 

John Cena is my future husband.

http://www.siouxland.net/dynaimg/con.../john_cena.jpg

Re: I have moved on...
 

LMAO @ I have moved on & funky pits. :o

Unspokenone... I wasn't even much going to tell you nada. I'm glad you saw that post.

Chow Yun Fat - Co-star of Anna and the King - I LOVE HIM!

John Legend - MMMMMMMMmmmmmm

Sean Connery - Love his eyes

Heath Ledger - SEXY, pre-facial hair

Antonio Banderas - Just speak

Tony Parker - MMMMmmmmm

Tom Cruise - Before I knew he was/is a loon.

Tommy Lee - That man needs a sandwich.

Re: I've got two
 

Tommy Lee could get it.
Anthony Kedis was always fine to me, LOVED him in Point Break. lol.

Patrick Dempsey- even though I didn't see you at the Image Awards. :rolleyes: :mad: :o :D

^^^^

I forgot about Patrick Dempsey. Add him to my list. I've always loved him!

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Girl, I was flipping through the channels and saw this man. He could stop by Uppinkies place;)

Who else could say Hello: Alan Thick's son, the singer, I forget his name, but he could stop by and say HELLO;)

Ok, Teena and UpPinkies - yall gonna have to back up off my man. :o :p LOL

But are you talkng about Rob Thicke that has that song with Pharell? I did not know that he was Alan Thicke's son?!? :eek:

I saw Jonny, as I call him, wrestle and I thought he was attractive. I saw him one night on Mad TV, and he was hilarious. I knew then that he would be my future ex-husband.

The story I just told=real love

:p

I saw my *boo* Simon Baker on Oprah today, looking good as ever. I think he might be short, though...:(. But I still got love for him!

enigma_AKA

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I understand that Tommy has a "lot" to offer. :o

::giggling like a school girl::
:p

^^^^^

BAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!


Soror Enigma_AKA: Wasn't he looking good in Something New?!

Yes indeedy, Soror Unspokenone25!! And that accent...:cool: ;) :p :D

enigma_AKA

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Let's just say, I've seen his offerings, and it looks like it'd be a "lot" to handle..


not seen in PERSON, per se, I did see him in concert and he had on some Speedos and suspenders ( :confused: ) and dude was packing.....

*going to the corner*


ETA: Patrick Dempsey, Alex Karev, and McSteamy could get it. lol

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For a minute there I was like WHAT!! :eek: :eek: Nikki1920 been holding out on us! :p LOL

i've been sweating him since 2004, but freddy ljungberg can get it:

http://www.gaywired.com/scene/images/ACF1E2B.jpg

of course this is after the long red hair--he was looking kinda dirty and such. im not a big fan of models, but he's an athlete too so... im wit it wit it!

i'm kinda feelin clive owen... dont ask me why.

because he's HOTT!!

Ray Liotta :o
(In Corrina Corrina) :o :o
Tim McGraw

My list has grown in the last few years

Sean Connery (at no matter what age he could GET IT!!!)
Tom Cruise before he became a loon
Benjamin Bratt (Grrrrrrrrrrr, broke my hear when he got married)
Chad Michael Murray (yummy yummy) but this season...
James Lafferty (aka Nathan Scott) is lookin HOOOOOOOT
Guy that plays Clark on Smallville
James Padaleki (Gilmore Girls and Supernatural)
David Boreanus (Buffy and Angel)
Jake Gyllenhal
***yes I know I watch toooo much WB***
I know there's more but it's early and I need to get my coffee and breakfast...

Did I say John Schneider? 'Cause I've had a crush on him since Dukes of Hazzard. :o

I think Ace, the contestant on American Idol is gorgeous!

He *supposedly* dates Essence Atkins from Half & Half

I think Wentworth Miller from Prison Break shuts it DOWN! Whew, he gets me going.

I also think Chris from American Idol is a hot dude...ah man! He is HOT TO DEATH!

hmm...

I thought she was married?

He reminds me of someone. I just cannot put my finger on it. I don't know if it's another entertainer, someone I know, went to school with or what. It's really bothering me that I cannot figure it out. :confused: :D