HC skip the movies and TALK period?
HC when I meet you next week, we gotta talk?
HC tell that mother******* that your heart does not have a revolving door?
HC tell him your name is not Monopoly so cut the D-*-M-N GAMES?

HC ladies let us STOP putting up with other folks' bull mess?

:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:


EDITED!!!!!
HC NIKKI1920, how would you feel if this was your daughter and a man did this to her?
HC you are worth more than this bull mess old dude is giving you?
HC I need to know how will it spite him to go to the movies with him?:confused: :confused:
HC I don't know the whole SITU8CHION (ghetto spelling) but from what I do know, it sounds like someone is full of mierda?

HC shake off all the bull mess these last 2 weeks of the OLD YEAR?

HC nikki1920, I have to concur with CT4 on this one?
HC don't go to the movies with him?
HC men that want to have their cake and eat it too?
HC?

HC a long talk would be nice, but you cannot compromise yourself for a man?
HC has he compromised himself for you?
HC it doesn't sound like it?

HC I also concur with HK?
HC "friends with benefits" sounds like what he wants?
HC you are worth much more than that?

HC this goes for every women on here?
HC YOUR half of the love can only go so far?
HC relationships are NOT 50/50?
HC they are 100/100 and if there is anything less then you need to pull a Changing Faces and GHETTOUT? :p
HC that was my jam?
HC but I digress?

HC picture it, Sicily, 1918?
HC a young maiden met a charming prince?
HC he turned out to be a toad?
HC let him move along to the next lillypad and stop taking up space on yours?
HC the end?

HC :D?

HC this sounds the same as the women who say "I'll have sex with him but I won't enjoy it, won't hook him up ;) :eek: :o or have an O":o ?

HC you are not spiting him, you are only giving him what he wants?

HC that in turn keeps up a cycle of Dumb AZZ behavior on his part?

HC tell him to beat it, skip his azz on, skedaddle, etc. etc. etc.?

Last minute shopping
 

HC I went to the outlet mall to get special perfume for my moms?
HC when I got there, they had sold out the last of the testers?
:mad:
HC I had to buy the regular packaging?
HC I didn't think of getting my sister's gift there?:o
HC I just got back from card shopping?
HC I'm headed back out in about an hour or so?

HC CT4 is like a momma on this one?
HC my momma would tell me about my self on something then say something like "now get outta my face."
HC 2 seconds later she would be back 'cause she thought about something else she needed to get on me about?
HC "and another thing....."
HC I am really feeling you on this CT4,
HC so much so I am posting at work! :eek: :eek:
HC folks better leave me alone about it too!
HC I hope Nikki realizes this is 'cause you care
HC if you didn't care you would speak on it
HC we all need sistafriends to be HONEST with us
HC sometimes we don't do it (me included) in RL cause you don't want to hurt someone's feelings?
HC hurt feelings are better than broken hearts?

HC HK1974 said everything that I was thinking?
HC I don't need to add anything but...

HC you can count on your GC family to hold you down!
HC we will be alright girlie!;)

HC

. . . I am posting to give sistafriend support for Nikki1920.

. . . I hope that you follow the advice of CT4 and HK?

. . .I know this might be hard since you were together 2 years?

. . .I think you'll do the smart thing?

. . .I have no advice since everyone has said everything that needed to be said.

. . . ROFL at librasoul and her frog analogy http://www.click-smilie.de/sammlung/tiere/tiere045.gif

. . . GOOD LUCK Nikki1920!!!

my last post on the matter. . .
 

HC

"No man/woman is worth your tears because the only one who is will never make you cry."

HC once you get that in your spirit, clarity comes with the situation?

OOOOOHHHH
 

HC I thought you would have forgotten about that little comment.
HC I told you I saw the Halloween special though?
HC not seeing The Five Heartbeats is worse?
HC you just wait until I see you again. :p

HC I just had to post after soror allsmiles because I too, and #5, FA 00 and I just got happy to see another?
HC I love being a two year old neo?:D

Aaawww
 

HC Soror Exquisite5 has me grinning from ear to ear with that same happy feeling. :D
HC I extend to you a 5 club, Fall '00 BIG CYBER HUG.

Re: OOOOOHHHH
 

HC I have to disagree?
HC not seeing Charlie Brown is much worse? :p
HC I HAD to clown you on that one!
HC it's cool though?
HC you can make up for it in about two days?
HC we have to get Ideal a copy of the Five Heartbeats QUICK!?

HC I had "too many smilies" in my previous post?
HC GC made me go back to remove them?
HC it had erased ALL of my message?
HC I was :mad: ?
HC GC is makes me sick sometimes?

HC UPN?
HC I like Girlfriends and One-on-One?
HC I don't really like the Parkers?
HC Kim is TOO DAMN DUMB??!
HC I can't get with that?
HC?
HC Sydney Poitier (Sidney's daughter) has a new show premiering on UPN on Jan. 6?
HC it's called "Abby" and it also features Kadeem Hardison?
Hc I'm not interested? http://www.click-smilie.de/sammlung/...chlafen015.gif

HC Nikki1920 got some good advice?
HC CT4 put it down like a pro?

Re: Re: OOOOOHHHH
 

HC I am glad you see it my way? :) lol
HC I have seen T5H?
HC CT4 made sure of that?

HC Soror Allsmiles, ain't nobody scurred of you?
HC you lucky I ain't tell about the cookie and the popcorn? ;) :p

HC nikki1920, I agree with all the advice that has been given?
HC I am a non-trusting skeptic when it comes to these men?
HC this is what it sounds like to me?
HC he wanted his keys back?
HC he still wanna date?
HC it sounds like to me he wants to have uninterrupted company?
HC but he still wanna kick it with you?
HC that's in case his company doesn't work out?
HC that's just my take on the situation?
HC either way, FUDGE HIM!!!!!????
HC you will be aight without him and his neglect issues?
HC I am sorry I haven't been in touch?
HC I will make up for it with an evite that I forgot to send you?
HC after you hang out with me and CT4 and the rest of the gang, you will feel A-OK? :D
HC remind me to tell you what the bookstore is having in conjunction with your sorority for Z. N. Hurston?

HC I have to get to bed?
HC the bookstore is wearing me out?
HC I may as well not be on Christmas break?
HC a sista is TIRED?

HC I have pondered and pondered?
HC the most Exquizit Heffa needs to call me or email me?
HC I can't figure out what DIAC is?
HC I think I just figured it out?
HC I am LMAO if I am right?
HC even if I'm not, I'm still LMAO?

HC if I don't talk (type?) to yall, have a happy holiday?
HC God loves you?
HC God loves you?
HC God loves you?
HC if you are feeling unloved, God loves you?
HC GOD LOVES YOU?
HC I hope that in the midst of all of your shopping and opening gifts, you remember this?
HC please remember to take the time to remember the Son that He sent to die for OUR sins?
HC THANK YOU JESUS?
HC THANK YOU for all you have blessed us with?
HC I hope that you touch all of us this season?
HC I pray that you send your sweet Holy Spirit to comfort those who are alone during the holidays?
HC I pray that you send your sweet Holy Spirit to comfort those who are broke (finanicially and spiritually and emotionally and mentally) during this season?
HC I pray that someone chooses to spend their holiday SERVING those that are less fortunate?
HC I pray that everyone is blessed with PEACE, SERENITY, COURAGE, WISDOM, STRENGTH, and LOVE this holiday season?
HC I pray that everyone has a safe and happy holiday?
HC it is in JESUS' name I pray?
HC AMEN?

HC GOD LOVES YOU?

A sista can't win
 

HC you could have clowned me with a pm?
HC you got Ideal snickering at me behind her computer? :(
HC I'm not the only one who hasn't seen it?
HC no one else will admit it?
HC I've determined CB is just not all that?
HC that's my story and I'm sticking to it? :p
HC CB better catch me while I'm flipping channels?
HC if not this Christmas, then Christmas 2003?


HC LOL.
HC I'm glad you didn't.
HC I wouldn't want to tell about your meatball story. :p

Re: A sista can't win
 

HC I have a whole gang of stories I can tell you? :o :p :eek: :cool: :D

HC that is what 17 years of friendship can do for you?

HC we will have to chat?

Re: Re: A sista can't win
 

HC oh yeah next week it's on.
HC it's going to be a funny night.
HC there is going to be a lot of cuttin' up.

HC my nine line sisters and myself just became two-year-old neos 14 days ago? :)

HC I wish that I was near being any kind of neo? http://www.click-smilie.de/sammlung/...traurig002.gif
HC I'm gonna stop trippin'?
HC It will always be on my mind and in my heart though?
HC It's getting harder to distract myself?
HC I have to get some contacts together?
HC HC HC?

HC we haven't heard from Nikki1920?
HC I get the feeling that she may have caved under the pressure?
HC I hope she didn't?
HC I hope she kicked her ex to the curb with her steel-toed boots?
HC HC HC?

HC I'm going to win the Powerball tomorrow night?
HC It's almost $300 million?
HC I'm going to cut the fool when I win?
HC I have to keep telling myself that I will win?
HC positive thoughts bring positive outcomes?
HC that's my mantra for the new year?
HC HC HC?

HC I have confidence that you will work toward your goals?
:)
HC you seem to be among the SFs who get it? ;)

Lawd
 

HC I'ma need you not to fuel AllSmiles' fire?
HC it WILL be a funny night! :)
HC cuttin' up is our specialty? :D

HC Happy Christmas!!!

HC Merry New Year!!!

http://www.click-smilie.de/sammlung/...nachten037.gif

HC....
Yall are gonna be mad at me?
How come I'm hard headed?
I went to the movies? (ducking from all the thrown items)
We got back to his place and he was like, so talk to me, why are you upset, blah blah?
:mad: :mad: :mad:
(shh, dont tell CT4, but her words came back to me when he said that? :P)

WITH did HE call MY best friend after I left? Dammit, I get first call priority!!!!lol
*shaking my head*
She said we both were just not listening to each other?
HC we (he and I) got into again last night over the phone?
I told him that he cant get what he wants when he wants it all the time and that he was just as guilty of being selfish as I was.
He got all heated and defensive, and I just got stronger.
Then I told him I couldn't talk to him anymore, and hung up. THEN I cried.
So he blew up my cell phone. :confused:
He called me this morning and asked if I could come over to "talk".
I told him I might, then I let him have it.

Then I logged on here to tell you all what happened? lol lol
Im so confused.
I want a clear answer from him, he's talking out of both sides of her mouth. :mad:
I feel myself turning into one of those women who LIVE only for her man, and I dont like that.
But I dont want to let him go? :(
I sound pathetic, huh?

I feel kinda bad b/c he's home alone on Christmas.
But that is HIS decision, right?
I do and dont want to talk to him face to face, I might smack[him, a la Claire Huxtable. :)

How bout Imma pray sommore on this?
HC I hope HK1974, CT4, RefinedDiva, Ideal08 and the rest of you regular HCers arent too mad with me? :( I'm madder at myself.
HC Ideal08, dont forget to send me that info, please. :)

Two more things:
I've never seen 5HB either!!:)
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL AND TO ALL A GOOD NIGHT!!!!

HC.......................Girl, don't be too hard on yourself, we all have weak moments, especially when there has been a great deal of time invested into the relationship. I don't really know what to tell you except to follow your BRAIN, not necessarily your heart. If your brain is telling you that he doesn't mean what he says, that he doesn't appreciate and value you, then RUN!!! I know that leaving may be hard, BELIEVE ME GIRL, I KNOW!!!, but you can't allow someone to want to be with you when it's convenient for them only. You should demand some reciprocity! If he can't get with it, then he doesnt deserve you!

HC I have to clown you about 5HB?
HC I got Ideal too so I couldn't let you slide?
HC you had better rent it soon?
HC you should check your listings because it may be coming on TV soon?

HC I have to get to the matter at hand?
HC you shouldn't beat yourself up?
HC I know what it's like?
HC I've been in that boat, set sail, floated around, .....well, you get the point.
HC all the advice in the world doesn't help sometimes?
HC face-to-face, the weakness sets in?
HC it takes a long time to become the strong women that we need to be?
HC it's not cool to remain weak?
HC "dogs" sense fear and weakness? (get it?);)
HC you have you show him better than you can tell him?
HC he's a loser if he would pull all of this at Christmas time?
HC he gave you back all of your stuff and asked for his key?
HC he had this planned?
HC he's a loser?

HC you don't need him?
HC there are plenty of men out there that are waiting to treat a good woman right?
HC he doesn't know what he's losing?
HC I hope that he will be losing you....
HC you should weigh the +s and -s of your relationship?
HC you may find out that it's not all that you thought?
HC ultimately you have to do what's right for you?

HC P.S.
HC I need to whisper in your ear?
HC you did sound a little pathetic?
HC WE STILL LOVE YOU THOUGH? :D
HC we know that you are going through some things?
HC we've got your back?
HC we might have to pull a jack move on this fool?
HC you just say the word? ;) :p :D

HC THIS IS TOO CUTE!

HC Merry Christmas
 

HC...
...I haven't HC'd in a minute?
...I had to take a licensing exam for work?
...I set the test up for Christmas Eve so I wouldn't have to worry about after Christmas?
...my manager let me come home to Detroit so I could take the test and be with my family?
...I wound up having to drive 45 minutes to Ann Arbor, though for the test?
...this woman almost wouldn't let me sit for the exam:mad:
...she said she couldn't read my expiration date because the sticker on the back of my license started to fade?
...she had to call the NASD (Nat'l Assoc. of Securities Dealers) people
...I pulled out my birth certificate, my Howard ID, my Soc. Sec. card, credit cards, etc?
...dang it, I'm takin' this test!!
...the lady was on the phone like "Her hair is quite different but her face is the same"?:rolleyes:
...nobody tryin' to take this test for me, it's me!
...I studied too long and hard, came from Fort Wayne to take this test?
...I did some praying, though?
...He knew I came to far to get turned down now?
...I got to sit for the exam, but I had to take my license, my Howard ID, and a credit card in with me?
...that's alright, though?
...I passed!
...260 questions, six hours of testing, a week-long crash course, a month of studying, and laying off GC for a few weeks, I did it?:)
...I'm Series 7 licensed!
...I'm so excited? I can have a merry Christmas b/c this test is done :D
...for all of you who work full-time and go to school, I have even more respect for you now, cuz it ain't easy?
...Happy Holidays, again?

HC I am packing
*WAITING TO EXHALE :o
*The Five Heartbeats :o :mad: :p
*Charlie Brown's Christmas:D :mad: :p


HC any more requests?:cool:

HC I think you all should rent "Wet Hot American Summer"?
HC it has zero to do with the "theme" of the party, lol?
But HC it is freakin hilarious as all get out?
HC the movie is not really what the title sounds like? LOL

HC nikki1920, these things are never easy?
HC pm coming your way?

HC I bet you guys will have fun in DC?
HC I *kinda* wish I could go? ;)
HC then I realize I will be in sunny Miami, living it up on South Beach? :D
HC I really hope y'all have a great time and come and post mad HC's about it afterward?
HC I hope EVERYONE has a great New Year's Eve and ushers in '03 RIGHT?

Re: Re: OOOOOHHHH
 

HC I started a thread about it weeks ago on th BLVD.? :confused:

HC my mother's surprise present was not delivered in time for CHRISTMAS?:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

HC Daniel's Jewelers will be hearing from me?

HC the snow kept me @ home yesterday?

HC I have not talked to my homies :(?

HC Ideal I will roll to DC on Sunday I reckon?

HC LS22 have fun in Miami Beach?

HC MTV HipHip Countdown (the one with DJ Clue and that other chick), has taken it to a new low?

HC I don't usually just sit and watch videos, but I was flipping thru the channels and I stopped to watch that new Roots video (ft. Musiq)...
HC after that went off they announced Snoops video, (can't remember the name of the song, something about a church)...
HC they played all of four seconds on the song and went on to the next one on the countdown?
HC :mad: :rolleyes: :confused:
HC do they need some funding or something?

HC I haven't been on GC in *more* than a minute?
HC my computer at school is just out of line?
HC I probably need to delete some (a lot) of my MP3s or zip them?

HC is anybody else seeing this episode of Trading Spaces where this chick is ruining a BEAUTIFUL bathroom by putting tacky-a$$ artificial flowers all over it?
HC the homeowners must be crazy?
HC that bathroom is almost the size of my living room?
HC the Asian guy is the only one I would let into my house?
HC I wanna see THEIR houses and see if they would put all that mess in there?

HC I watched that episode tonite?
HC Heldie...WTF were you thinking?
HC she messed up an already nice bathroom with that mess?
HC I did like the bedroom that Lori created?
HC I have finally seen a few episodes with Khia, the black designer?
HC so far, in those two episodes, her designs have been UGLY?
HC when they revealed her rooms to the couples, this was their reaction....:eek: and :confused:?
HC she created some hot mess called "military chic"?
HC BOOO?

HC i am so glad this year is coming to a close?

HC thank you JESUS for seeing me through?

HC the enemy (read: bama azz boyfriends, fake friends, this grad school mess, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera) tried to kill me - but we ain't having that!

HC i FINALLY learned one of those life lessons that's going to help me move to the next level?

HC it takes a fool to learn, but this fool is writing it down as to NEVER forget?

HC i feel like biting a line from the Antwone Fisher commercial - "something something something... but i'm still here! I'm still standing..."

HC the motto for the upcoming year is DRAMA FREE IN 2003


:)

HC I'm LOL but I feel you

HC I been there
HC I had to get rid of "toxic" people in my life to be drama free
HC All these people do is call you with mess, nonsense, lies, their drama, gossip, more drama, etc.
HC a toxic person called me today
HC I cut the conversation short
HC I ain't got time for that isht...I got enough crap in my life already
HC I just got back from Florida yesterday
HC I hate Orlando
HC the commercialism, the prices, and the PEOPLE
HC the folks are rude there
HC I was ready to get back to good ol' North Carolina where there's southern hospitality and most folk speak English
HC when we got back, we found out my great grannie had died while we were on vacation
HC now all my family has to travel to New York for the funeral on New Years Day
HC all my family is DRIVING :eek: to NY in a big ass van
HC most of my family is fat and/or busty
HC my cousin has a bratty loud out-of-control 3 year old
HC they're all gonna be on the van too
HC it takes over 12 hours to get to NY from NC
HC I'm gonna be squished with a headache by the time we get there
HC the nearest hotel is $189 per night
HC we aint got no money and we stayin with my godmother in Pelham
HC she got roaches
HC old people start dying when it gets cold
HC I loved my great grannie but I don't wanna go to NY
HC she couldn't be buried in NC?
HC we don't have any water in the house right now
HC I have to go across the street to use the bathroom and have to go to my grannie's in the morning to bathe
HC God, HC?!?!

HC They messed up an already beautiful looking bathroom???
HC I would love to have a bathroom that large? :cool:
HC Vern Yip (the Asian guy) would be the only designer allowed into my home to do any remodeling?
HC I wanna see Vern's home? :)
HC Kia should be fired from TS? :mad:
HC Her last design was a HOT MESS FROM HELL???!!??

HC I am so feeling that motto

HC they are trying to work a sista like a hebrew slave

HC Calgon take me away

HC Happy New Year to all!

HC I've been having GC Withdrawals

HC I just had to have a fix

HC Peace Out!

HC my daughter turned 5yrs old on Saturday
HC she had a slumber party
HC it started off with me taking 4 little 5yr old girls to the nail shop to get their nails done
HC I had to listen to B2K - - ALL DAY LONG
HC Bump..Bump...Bump
HC if you look on the CD credits, you'll see that song was written by none other than R. Kelly
HC :eek:
HC these little girls are RUTHLESS
HC my husband didn't believe me until he had to spend 30 minutes alone with them when I went to the store.
HC they get upset over EVERYTHING
HC they had an argument when my daughter claimed that she was the Queen..and the rest of them weren't
HC another little girl was in there screaming "no fair, Darra...we're all Queens..not just you"
HC I've had my tubes tied, but this was good birth control, nonetheless
HC I'll be calling up my doctor to have him go up in there and tie a double-knot on my tubes...and burn off the ends....just to make sure.
HC little girls are truly a trip.
HC my son locked himself up in his room and wasn't even trying to be bothered with these little girls.
HC my husband was DJ Daddy for the music/dancing portion of the party.
HC these little girls started a soul train line.

LMBO
 

Hc Prayerfull had me CTHU?
HC I feel your pain?
HC I've had to hear B2K all day since she got it on Christmas?
HC Bump, Bump, Bump?
HC She also recieved a kareoke *sp* machine as well as a disco ball with flashing colored lights?
HC She thinks she can sang?
HC Tone deaf?
HC "Mama watch!!!" Is all I hear?
HC?

HC, exquizit, I think this was THE gift of Christmas 2002, because my nephew also received one and the boy will swear that he's B2K's missing member?

HC, prayerfull, you had me wondering if I was like them as a youngin'?

HC children are HILARIOUS?

HC Happy New Year everyone!!?

HC I cooked my first turkey today?
HC that sucka was so tender and juicy?
HC I am sooo proud of myself?:D
HC I ate too much?

HC I just saw Pretty Woman for the first time last night?
HC it was sooo good?

HC don't you hate it when the night before, you figure you have enough gas to get home and you will get it later...
HC then the next morning you are running late and you forget that you were running on 'E'?
HC I did that this morning, but I didn't want to be late so I was running to work on fumes!:mad:

HC I went on www.theknot.com and found the perfect wedding dress?
HC I can't find the perfect man?:rolleyes:

HC I am going to be in Baltimore next week?
HC I am so happy that I get to see my family?
HC I don't want to drive me car because the last time I went home (and NY), in my car I had a bunch of 'unidentified' scratches on my car by the time I got back home?
HC rental cars are so damn expensive?
HC I can't wait until I turn 25!?!

HC I refuse to take the bus...
HC besides the fact that the ride is long and arduous, and there isn't enough leg room for me...but the rats are as big as CATS in the Baltimore downtown bus terminal?:eek:

HC I can't believe school starts in like 2 weeks?
HC?