http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif ...and that's all I have to say about that (Forrest Gump)

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[This message has been edited by CrimsonRage (edited May 06, 2001).]

"life is like a box of chocolates...you never know what you gonna get..." food for thought... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

There is a difference between a 10 cent person and $1million dollar person and it has nothing to do with finances...

You can take a 10 cent person and put her in a $1million dollar dress but all you've got is still a 10 cent person... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif

However, you can take a $1million dollar person and put her in a 10 cent dress--and you've still got a $1million dollar person... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif

What you need to decide is what kind of person are you... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

And remember Jahari's window... Currently, we DO judge you each time you post. What you are throw out into the Universe will come back to you, severalfold.

"Pretty is as pretty does"

[This message has been edited by AKA_Monet (edited May 07, 2001).]

see how easy that was... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif luv is in the air...

VctoriasSecrt -

I too am only a SF, so you can't try and blame this post on me thinking I'm on a pedestal because of some letters. But lately, you have come to be one of THE most annoying people I've encountered on GC, straight up. Your posts were insightful when you first registered, but this needs to stop. If you really are as intelligent as you claim, then you would realize that your attempts to be clever and "rise above" just ain't working. Give it up. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif

it was an ANALOGY...and had nothing to do with the quality of an INDIVIDUAL...once again...a person that can truly afford expensive clothing does not wear big ol' outward labels...they wear inward labels because their financial status does not have to be broadcast...i KNOW who i am...and i know my worth...i believe i already relayed that fact...it is not OVERCONFIDENCE...as i saw someone call someone elses knowledge of self...it is fact...and it isn't debatable from my end...but if it helps YOU to break it down like that sistah soldiah...do what you gotta do... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

i hope that everything i throw out does come back to me...should i be affraid to assert myself because of who you think you are...and who you think i am not...

if you think you know...then i don't think you know...

their working for me...and that's all that matters...because i am as intelligent as i claim...i realize that my cleverness and my rising above the top are working...otherwise i wouldn't be encountering such evil... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif give up is not in my vocabulary...and since you are a sisterfriend...you may just remain that way until give up is eradicated from your vocabulary...

peace and blessings "sf"...

if you think you know...then i don't think you know...



[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt (edited May 07, 2001).]

I second that.

truth usually annoys those that aren't ready for it... http://www.plauder-smilies.de/natur/sun1.gif

peace and blessings...

if you think you know...then i don't think you know...

[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt (edited May 07, 2001).]

Think again. How valued our opinions are on GC as sisterfriends has been an issue for awhile. But if you read back (you seem to be real good for reviving 2 year old controversial posts, so that should be no problem for you), you'll see that even when a SFs opinion differs from that of a member (when it comes to Greek affairs) they are still given a certain level of respect when they present themselves well and possess the ability to bring some clarity to what they assert. You dear, have garnered no respect from anyone here simply because of your nasty attitude. Blanketing your posts with smiley faces and that silly slogan doesn't hide it. But that's you and your business.

What I DO take offense to is you telling me what I will and and will not be. "Give up" in this case does not apply to reaching one's goal or standing up for something substantial. It applies to mindless babbling about ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, which is what each of your posts are. Whether I will remain a SF or not is not up for you to judge, because I think a lot of people on here could say the same for you. Before you try and tell me what I'll be again, consider this...

If you think you know.... I don't think you know... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif all up IN the back of my head.

i never said you will or will not be anything...i believe i inferred that it is your choice...if you think what i have said in previous posts is mindless babbling...then i know you don't know...although it is not mindless babbling it is about ABSOLUTELY NOTHING...because it is out of nothingness that EVERYTHING emerged...

if YOU think you know...then i don't think you know... http://www.plauder-smilies.de/natur/sun1.gif

p.s. i will develop into the woman i am meant to be with or without affiliation with a greek lettered organization...i have chosen to pursue memberhip in one...and if i am ever granted membership...so be it...if not...it is not that i don't care...as has been misinterpreted by my assertiveness...it is that i know that i know that i know...therefore if you think you know then i don't think you know...and if i am never granted membership...i still know...and like miss india.arie states...a woman ain't what she wears...but what she knows...

good at reviving "2 year old posts"? the last post before mine was "may 5, 2001 5:42pm"...i believe that would technically mean i revived a 1 day old post...when you really think about it...and if you think about it a level deeper...my post was at 5:51pm on that same day...therefore i revived a 9 minute old post...you do the math...

ya know...i knew i shoulda chosen to go to law school instead of tryin' ta be a supah star...them skillz are just flowin'...i think i am going to sing...i'm every woman...i'm every woman....i'm every woman....i'm every woman...oh, oh, oh, oh...


[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt (edited May 07, 2001).]

Seriously, what is the point of participating in a discussion if your only means of communicating is through cryptic posts that (at this point) have have deteriorated into this non-sensical phrase you keep espousing. As a sf who holds herself out to be so enlightened, what is the point if you chose to simply talk to your self up in here? You are not dropping any science or sharing any wisdom that way. Jsut wasting everyone's time and yours.

(BTEW- why should I believe you know anything if you are not willing to share it nd participate in the conversation? That is a hell of assumption for us to swallow.)

And please, before you come back with that DAYUM quote again- it makes as little sense as you do lately. You don't know me and you CAN'T know what I know, nor can i know what you know. Up in here, in cyber space, I know what you type and this is not making the grade as far as intellegent banter is concerned I mean, what college did you/do you attend? Please say you are not a mass comm major!)

Recently your posts have deteriortated into some odd comibination of hostility/arrogance about how much better and more knowledgeable you are about EVERYTHING (including all things greek( and tbis quotes encased in peace and blessings as though any thing in the post was peaceful or enlightened. Maybe instead of attacking everyone out here, it is time for a little QUIET reflection on what kind of vibe you are putting out there.

Now, as enlightened as you seem to feel you are, how will you respond to all of this? Are you going to simply dismiss me and the dozen other women who have let you know what vibe you are projecting by saying we are all on a pedastool just because we are greek (or not greek as other sf's have chimed in) or will you stop to realize that odds are there is at least a hint of truth to the consensus? If you goal is to teach , even if you are 100% correct in everything you think, you are still failing miserably because you have failed to articulate your thoughts well. You cannot be a messenger if you fail to deliver the message? Get it? And if you are not about sharing your thoughts, why the HELL be here at all? Truly enlightened women are always open to change and willing to take honest looks at her own words, deeds and actions, can you?

That choice is YOURS.

I don't know what you do for a living Vicki, but did you know you posted at total of 14 times on this thread yesterday and so far today you've posted 9 times today.
Here's an idea http://www.plauder-smilies.de/thinkerg.gif ...go outside and enjoy the weather instead of sitting on your butt and posting up a storm.
No offense but posting like every five minutes could get you booted for flaming http://www.plauder-smilies.de/argue.gif .

i don't know who YOU are...but don't try to figure me out...not only have i been outside in between the 9 posts you took the time to count...i walked 2 miles to my CAMPUS to take a two hour final...chilled a bit and then came back home...how'd she do it...its magic ya'll...heehee...you'll go crazy...don't do it... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif as i was...oh, i have even cooked a meal...had a cup of o.j....used the restroom a couple times and cruised other sites...i guess it comes from all that training back in the day...don't do it... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif "flamming"? wow...that is serious business especially when YOU are harrassing me after i already said i was movin' on...check my previous post moderator hootie... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

if you think you know...then i don't think you know... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif



[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt (edited May 07, 2001).]

Sista-girl- you are absolutely right. On to something else worthwhle! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

??? I'm totally confused. First of all, I do not understand the point of VS posts. What's really goin on? Second, this topic was supposed to be about quality and quantity, but the last few pages have included no more than petty nonsense and gibberish.

is it just me, or is V.S. the same person that brought the drama to BeeJae's site? the rambling, the "peace and blessings"...it's just too familiar. Soror Ideal08 is right, leave her alone...

i think wend08 is referring to the young woman that was involved in a HAZING incident and was subsequently driven out of delphi into the cyber desert because she unknowingly gave too many identifiable facts of a situation involving wend08's sorors...a situation that has since been settled...and any revival of it...attempted calling out of individuals...should be done with CAUTION http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

if you think you know...then i don't think you know...

[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt (edited May 07, 2001).]

Viki Dear,
I was not harassing you. I was simply pointing out the amount of times you have posted on one topic. Chill for a bit because in all actuallity I'm just warning you that other Moderators have taken note of your behavior. I haven't really been following this thread but I was just telling you you might want to watch out because flamming can get you kicked off greekchat. No hate, just love okay. Good.
Have a good night.
PS. If you sincerly wanted to move on you wouldn't have kept posting after I made my first comment. End of story.
PEACE LOVE AND GOSSIP - DOWN TOWN JULIE BROWN

moving on requires the closure of "loose ends"...and if every time i tie a knot and climb...someone unties the very knot i need to reach the next level...it is kind of hard to "move on"...

once again...

if you think you know...then i don't think you know...

so...i suggest you slow your flow...especially the no, no, no's...because it is because of you...i sit here now...twisted, bent, and tattered, wondering how come, when and how...if you think you know me...or where these shoes have been...i challenge you to think again...before you say i have no right to make certain statements on this board...you may want to ask yourself whose carrying both the shield and the sword...the only difference between you and me is a candle and a vow...so i suggest you slow your roll for the here and now...pow wow...




[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt (edited May 07, 2001).]

Obviously, you are under the assumption you are a very deep individual. Most people who never make sense do. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif This isn't the only forum you post on, and I've seen you pull posts from the depths of GC back threads, only to have your posts deleted - on more than one forum. You don't need to educate THIS pre-law student. Trust.

I don't know how old you are, but I hope you're no more than a freshman in college, because otherwise you are WAY behind when it comes to mental capacity and maturity. I wonder when you'll see that nobody thinks you're clever but you? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif There's nothing wrong with self-assurance and confidence (which I possess much of), but there's a difference between that and empty arrogance, which is the vibe I get from you. If you have anything further to say to me, do not post it here, because it will not be responded to. If you're as intelligent as you claim, then e-mail will work just fine. My addy is in my profile - not hidden like yours. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

Sweetheart, I can't say there is much truth to anything you are saying because no one knows what the hell you are even talking about.

i never said i was enlightened on any issues...but if you say that i am...cool...how could i be talking to myself when i have simply responded to others comments directed at me and even addressed to me...i never said anything about science or wisdom...is there something you would like to share with me that i need to know miss 1913...i am not wasting my time...i am doing the best thing anyone can do with their time...i am not asking you to believe i know what i know...that is irrelevant...if you think you know...then i don't think you know...and if it makes no sense to you...then you don't know...perhaps a touch of arrogance...what can i say...hostility...definitely not...i have nothing to be hostile about...not once have i said that i was better or more knowledgeable about anything...especially not EVERYTHING...it is impossible for even the most learned to know EVERYTHING...perhaps that is your own insecurity speaking...and i most especially would NEVER claim to know anything GREEK...i have not yet attacked anyone...but if you personally feel attacked then perhaps you need to see someone about inadequacy issues...i quietly reflect every day...do you?...no...i am not going to dismiss you...or any other person i have met on this forum...i never said all or any greeks for that matter are on a pedestal...YOU said that...i challenge you to find a quote within my posts in which i stated those exact words...there is a HINT of truth to the consensus...but that is about all the truth there is to it...my goal is not to teach...i am 99.9% correct...i have not failed to articulate my thoughts...you have failed to grasp them...i never claimed to be a messenger of any kind...no...i don't get it...i am currently celibate...i have shared my thoughts...and i am sure that you know one thing...you know why i am here...it is not my place to judge who is truly enlightened...knowledge is power...i take a good, long, hard, excrutiating look at my words, deeds, and actions on a daily basis...can i? is not the question that should be asked here...can you accept that i do, and have already done, and continually do, therefore i am stable in the fact that i know that i know that i know? i am aware the choice is mine...and it is a choice i made a long time ago...




[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt (edited May 07, 2001).]

i never said i was a deep individual...but if that is your assessment of me...that is your assessment...i have no reason to speak to you privately...i have nothing to hide...do you? i will side step your PERSONAL attacks...i am 23 years old...a very old yet very young 23...you'd be surprised...i appreciate your thoughts...and welcome any CONSTRUCTIVE criticisms that you choose to bring...

if you think you know...then i don't think you know...


[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt (edited May 07, 2001).]

really?

Hey everyone,

Let's not turn this thread into an insult-trading match, okay? The thread started out interesting, but it's really deteriorated. Please understand that I'm not taking any sides --- I just want everyone to calm down a little and be respectful of each other. Thanks! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif Remember, whatever the letter, we're all Greek together! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

My GREEK sistas,

Please, stop amusing this chick. Really. She hooked me last week, as well, but now, it's getting old. If only certain people know what she's talking about, allow her to speak to them and them to her.

Much GREEK love!

And to my Sorors, esp. AKA2D'91: SKEE-WEE! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

"this chick"...proof positive right there...girl if you only knew...thank god i have a level of restraint of two sampson's when it comes to certain individuals at this point... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif whew!!! girl...girl...girl girl girl...!@#$%^&**()_+?><":{}|~bleeep...i think i hear the sound of a chain saw reving up...chew chew chew chew...chew chew chew chew...getting closer...remember that woman from the movie misery... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif luv you like a play cousin...




[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt (edited May 07, 2001).]

i wholeheartedly agree...movin' on...thanks... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif