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PJS 05-04-2009 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by PJS (Post 1806020)
I don't usually read these stories, and this is one of the reasons. Two and a half weeks and she is only UP TO the third round? Srsly? I'm sure eaglesbaby will have lots more time to devote to the story that she was "dying to post" now that finals are approaching. :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by eaglesbaby (Post 1806041)
If you're going to say my story is fake, which it isn't, at least base your opinion on some credible fact. In my major, we are graded mostly on papers. This semester, I do not have a single test-based class, and as a result no finals. I did, however, have five papers that were all due last week and the week before. In essence, I've already had my finals week and don't really have much to do besides pack everything up and go home. Please don't insult me again with such a stupid, frivolous argument.

:eek: You completely misread me, hun. I absolutely made no such allegations. Several have, and have stated their reasons. My comment was based solely on the story development and how long it is taking. I'm a mom helping pay my kid's tuition. If you had 5 papers due in the last two weeks, I am all for you getting them done, and I hope they went well!! I just don't understand starting a story on GC that you seemingly didn't have the time to write right now.

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Originally Posted by SydneyK (Post 1806053)
To be fair, PJS didn't make an argument; she made a statement. And you gotta admit - to be on round 3 after 8 pages (and two and a half weeks) makes for a pretty slow read. Especially considering it's a retro story. Even a real-time story would've been complete by now.

That's all I was sayin'. Thanks, SydneyK

eaglesbaby 05-04-2009 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by PJS (Post 1806103)
:eek: You completely misread me, hun. I absolutely made no such allegations. Several have, and have stated their reasons. My comment was based solely on the story development and how long it is taking. I'm a mom helping pay my kid's tuition. If you had 5 papers due in the last two weeks, I am all for you getting them done, and I hope they went well!! I just don't understand starting a story on GC that you seemingly didn't have the time to write right now.



That's all I was sayin'. Thanks, SydneyK

Oh, I'm so sorry - I didn't understand what you were saying. I guess I jumped to conclusions too quickly.

sceniczip 05-04-2009 06:36 PM

FWIW I've seen PNMs on our campus bring their purses into the houses. However, a rho gamma does have to escort them to the bathroom if they need to use it.

bostongreek 05-04-2009 06:37 PM

for what it's worth, i remember bringing my purse into the rooms during recruitment.

Merci11 05-04-2009 07:03 PM

PNMs can bring purses into houses at my school. Sometimes I wish they didn't because I have seen way too many of them texting during events...

33girl 05-04-2009 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by eaglesbaby (Post 1806041)
If you're going to say my story is fake, which it isn't, at least base your opinion on some credible fact.

-No one can think of ANY large school with a competitive recruitment that has 14 groups and multiple locals.

-No one has ever heard of having eight houses in the third round in such a recruitment.

Credible enough?

There are multiple people on here who work with the types of school you described, and at least one of them would have chimed in with "I know what school this is - I know it sounds weird, but it's true" when you started throwing some of these improbabilities out.

Maybe you don't understand the difference between a local and a national, or you meshed all the sororities of all types (NPC, NPHC, professional, service) together in your story, but that's the only way I can think of that this could be remotely true. Like SydneyK said, if you wanted to do this right, you really needed to do your research and not stray from it for the sake of livening up the plot.

GC2theEC 05-04-2009 08:22 PM

You know, I'm usually pretty quiet on these "controversial" topics. But seriously, what does it hurt any of you if what she's saying is fake? I'm assuming it's true; but, even if it's not, it's not going to radically change my world. Yes, we've established that these are rules and norms you may not have experienced on your campus. It was worth saying once, or twice, or even three times (I'm being generous). After that enough is enough. These are recruitment stories ladies. Not witch hunts. Let me enjoy the story!

ComradesTrue 05-04-2009 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by GC2theEC (Post 1806202)
You know, I'm usually pretty quiet on these "controversial" topics. But seriously, what does it hurt any of you if what she's saying is fake? I'm assuming it's true; but, even if it's not, it's not going to radically change my world. Yes, we've established that these are rules and norms you may not have experienced on your campus. It was worth saying once, or twice, or even three times (I'm being generous). After that enough is enough. These are recruitment stories ladies. Not witch hunts. Let me enjoy the story!

It doesn't "hurt" me at all.

However, what does it "hurt" for the posters to just own up to something being a work of fiction? We read fiction books, watch fiction TV shows and enjoy fiction movies. No one is opposed to fiction. What we are bothered by is someone trying to pass something off as true when it clearly is not.

Why does it matter? To me it matters because there are non-greeks who read these boards- PNMs, parents, etc. We deal with stereotyping enough as greek letter organizations and fight negative perceptions by those outside our groups. What we don't need is someone who is not a member of a GLO perpetuating those negative ideas by writing a story that claims to be factual. This particular poster has mentioned serving margaritas during recruitment, has a main character in her story who could not be more shallow or mean, and does not paint an accurate picture of what recruitment parties are like. (bashing each other in the bathroom? During the party? Please.)

I personally would have no issue if the poster simply starts with "What you are about to read is a work of fiction/embellishment of a real recruitment, but it still makes for a good story. I hope you enjoy reading it."

blondie20 05-04-2009 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1806184)
-No one can think of ANY large school with a competitive recruitment that has 14 groups and multiple locals.

-No one has ever heard of having eight houses in the third round in such a recruitment.

Credible enough?

There are multiple people on here who work with the types of school you described, and at least one of them would have chimed in with "I know what school this is - I know it sounds weird, but it's true" when you started throwing some of these improbabilities out.

Maybe you don't understand the difference between a local and a national, or you meshed all the sororities of all types (NPC, NPHC, professional, service) together in your story, but that's the only way I can think of that this could be remotely true. Like SydneyK said, if you wanted to do this right, you really needed to do your research and not stray from it for the sake of livening up the plot.

Again, please do not insult my intelligence. I know the difference between a local and a national sorority. And again, I'm not going to bother defending my story to you anymore, so don't bother criticizing it. People are going to believe it or they're not.

UGAalum94 05-04-2009 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by blondie20 (Post 1806204)
Again, please do not insult my intelligence. I know the difference between a local and a national sorority. And again, I'm not going to bother defending my story to you anymore, so don't bother criticizing it. People are going to believe it or they're not.

Who did you think you were posting as?

SydneyK 05-04-2009 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by blondie20 (Post 1806204)
Again, please do not insult my intelligence. I know the difference between a local and a national sorority. And again, I'm not going to bother defending my story to you anymore, so don't bother criticizing it. People are going to believe it or they're not.

Wait. Who are you? Are you eaglesbaby?

ADqtPiMel 05-04-2009 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by blondie20 (Post 1806204)
Again, please do not insult my intelligence. I know the difference between a local and a national sorority. And again, I'm not going to bother defending my story to you anymore, so don't bother criticizing it. People are going to believe it or they're not.

Looks like someone has a few recruitment stories going on at once...

kiteflyersmom 05-04-2009 08:45 PM

Not so sure about the part where nobody can seem to "place" the school and customs. However, my neighbor went to school in the Midwest and confessed to asking to use the bathroom during one of her house visits. She was not interested and had not connected with the group and says she still feels badly to this day because the active's facial expression went from enthusiastic to "Huh" in a second. So....she did use the bathroom without a chaperone or any type of formality. Sometimes things happen a bit different than some folks remember.

OK!!!!!! I am editing this to reflect that I gave the benefit of the doubt and did not doubt....until Eaglesbaby emerged as a split personality!!!! And I thought soap operas had cornered the market on the whole multiple personality thing! Eaglesbaby, Blondie....you, I mean the both of you, need a life!

cvtip12 05-04-2009 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Blondie93 (Post 1806203)
Why does it matter? To me it matters because there are non-greeks who read these boards- PNMs, parents, etc. We deal with stereotyping enough as greek letter organizations and fight negative perceptions by those outside our groups. What we don't need is someone who is not a member of a GLO perpetuating those negative ideas by writing a story that claims to be factual. This particular poster has mentioned serving margaritas during recruitment, has a main character in her story who could not be more shallow or mean, and does not paint an accurate picture of what recruitment parties are like. (bashing each other in the bathroom? During the party? Please.)

I personally couldn't care less if this recruitment story happens to be true or not- but you do make some excellent points, Blondie93. GLOs have enough bad press as it is... and PNMs and parents are on this site. That being said, I wasn't aware of just how many PNMs are rather Rachel-ish until I started rush. But yeah... in the bathroom dissing, not so much in my experience. However, it is good IMO to alert people that bi$%#es like Rachel are really out there and to keep a thick skin, I like the way you deal with it in your story! And the Starfruit house is right there for you! <3

I'm pretty sure it's a fabricated story or at least only partially true (based on some aspects of her own rush experience). Either way, I love it!

looking forward to the next installment, please keep going! =]

SydneyK 05-04-2009 08:49 PM

I assume several GCers will be mad about not getting a conclusion, but I highly doubt Cybil, I mean babyblondie, will return... to either thread.

ADqtPiMel 05-04-2009 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1806219)
What's funny is that some idiots here don't seem at all fazed by it.

I'm puzzled so many people are dying to hear a story that's clearly a fantasy from someone who's dying for validation. But whatever.

blondie20 05-04-2009 08:53 PM

OK, the gig is up, and I do owe you all an explanation. I am the same GCer as Eaglesbaby. Eaglesbaby = blondie20. I did go through recruitment and this is a real story, and these are all real houses, but I did not pledge any of them. I went through most of the pledge program once I accepted my bid, but I depledged near initiation because I absolutely did not fit in. So I pledged a local sorority later, hence the alcohol at recruitment events. I tried to start the same story on blondie20, with 2 being the locals I had not mentioned in this story.

Anyway, I do apologize, and for those of you who liked my story, I promise I will finish it.

Thanks everyone.

Eaglesbaby/blondie20

ComradesTrue 05-04-2009 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by ADqtPiMel (Post 1806222)
I'm puzzled so many people are dying to hear a story that's clearly a fantasy from someone who's dying for validation. But whatever.

I asked the same question several pages back. Other than Srmom's somewhat comical response, I didn't really get a good answer.

And now we know why she has been too busy to finish her story.

kiteflyersmom 05-04-2009 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1806220)

Oh my gosh, yes, someone who couldn't keep the personas straight.

Eaglesbaby....you are awful...people gave you the benefit of the doubt. Earlier in the thread Kappamd, myself, and others were incredibly gracious and you are nothing but a clown. You know how the saying goes. Don't go away mad- just go away.

33girl 05-04-2009 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by blondie20 (Post 1806223)
OK, the gig is up, and I do owe you all an explanation. I am the same GCer as Eaglesbaby. Eaglesbaby = blondie20. I did go through recruitment and this is a real story, and these are all real houses, but I did not pledge any of them. I went through most of the pledge program once I accepted my bid, but I depledged near initiation because I absolutely did not fit in. So I pledged a local sorority later, hence the alcohol at recruitment events. I tried to start the same story on blondie20, with 2 being the locals I had not mentioned in this story.

Anyway, I do apologize, and for those of you who liked my story, I promise I will finish it.

Thanks everyone.

Eaglesbaby/blondie20

You mentioned two locals in this story.

You can't even go back and reread your own posts.

jwright25 05-04-2009 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by GC2theEC (Post 1806202)
You know, I'm usually pretty quiet on these "controversial" topics. But seriously, what does it hurt any of you if what she's saying is fake?

Because unless fake stories take place at schools with all locals, they end with PERPS. Perps piss me off.

There are no schools that did 14-11-8-3 in Fall 2008. 14-10-6-3 or 14-8-3. Another school did 20-14-8-3 but no 11 in there. None in Fall 2007 either. That's why I asked when this recruitment took place - but I was not answered.

cvtip12 05-04-2009 09:00 PM

seasoned GC'ers: I'm new to GC and I was wondering if people make up rush stories all the time?

lol, thanks! =]

sceniczip 05-04-2009 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1806228)

:D:D:D

kiteflyersmom 05-04-2009 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1806228)

OTW is outdoing herself tonight. LOL! Sometimes your posts are painfully direct and not for the faint of heart- but tonight you're spot on!

33girl 05-04-2009 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by cvtip12 (Post 1806233)
seasoned GC'ers: I'm new to GC and I was wondering if people make up rush stories all the time?

lol, thanks! =]

I think that some of them are made up, but the majority are true. If they sound like Sweet Valley High books (like this did) they're probably fake.

The reason people get pissed about fake rush stories is the reason people got pissed about the book Pledged. If she wanted to write a fictionalized true story I don't think she would have got as much crap for it...but she kept saying that everything she said was true, and happened at one school, at one rush. Now people think that's gospel and what will really happen if they rush and join a sorority.

When this heffa crossed the line is when she gave advice to someone in an NPC group that, if followed, could have potentially cost that chapter its charter. Locals who are on campus with NPC groups, who are part of the college Panhel, KNOW that the alcohol rules that NPCs have to follow are much different than theirs.

Which is why this entire story is made up.

blondie20 05-04-2009 09:07 PM

Right. I posted this story because I have no friends. More like to serve entertainment for the recruitment thread addicts. :)

beccaminister 05-04-2009 09:11 PM

Um...ok...hold on. SERIOUSLY? You're doing 2 made up recruitment stories? You barely had time to finish the first one! Ok...if we all stop reading both stories then there's no reason to continue, right?

I was wrong...I said it didn't matter before. But well...doing it once was bad enough, but twice? Yeah...theses stories are both off my list of reading material.

Would someone kindly post a REAL recruitment story. PLEASE?

kiteflyersmom 05-04-2009 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by blondie20 (Post 1806246)
Right. I posted this story because I have no friends. More like to serve entertainment for the recruitment thread addicts. :)

Well, then don't bother to do it anymore because you're not very good at it. In addition, you're not very good at tracking your multiple personalities.

cvtip12 05-04-2009 09:12 PM

LOL

Have you all written your rush stories?

beccaminister 05-04-2009 09:14 PM

Mine's posted :) under a different name of course, but it's been posted.

cvtip12 05-04-2009 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by beccaminister (Post 1806255)
Mine's posted :) under a different name of course, but it's been posted.

lol, nice

When I have more time, I wanna do it! =]

lovespink88 05-04-2009 09:21 PM

I have on posted, but again, under another name, because my ending would have been obvious--I pledged a colony, and had asked questions in the sorority's forum with this name, so it would have given it away. Heck, I actually think people figured me out even though I had a different user name! lol

agzg 05-04-2009 09:24 PM

To be honest, I'm so glad this trainwreck started 10 pages ago because I FINALLY get to say this:

I'm just in this thread for the LOLs.

twinkle555 05-04-2009 09:58 PM

Wow..lol..now THIS is way more entertaining than a recruitment story!

gee_ess 05-04-2009 10:18 PM

Just when I thought, yawn "Another recruitment story."

Woo Hoo! So glad I took the time to read this. Now, if only Tom would come along and really get things going! ;)

KSUViolet06 05-04-2009 10:31 PM

Why on earth do I have to go to class til 10 and miss all the fun?

And for those of you who are saying "Who cares if it's fake?" GreekChat is a place that PNMs come to for advice. I certainly want them to read real depictions of the recruitment experience, not fake ones written by crazy people.

That's like going to a college admissions message board where people are MAKING UP their college apps, stats, accpetances. It's not helpful to anyone.

Also, ok people are posting fake stories. What's stopping people from making up complete fake identities prestending to be sorority members? It has happened before and it's not fun. Especially when they're pretending to have joined your sorority.

I mean, if you want to make up fake stories, go to creative writing board and have at it, GC is not the place for it.

PS. I love being right.

CougarGrad 05-04-2009 10:52 PM

Wow. What a strange turn this thread took...

ZetaGirl22 05-04-2009 11:00 PM

O.M.G................really.............really? How bad is life that people have to come on here and make up fake recruitment stories. I actually LIKE reading these, and when stuff like this happens...............exasperating............

ThetaDancer 05-04-2009 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1806290)
Why on earth do I have to go to class til 10 and miss all the fun?

And for those of you who are saying "Who cares if it's fake?" GreekChat is a place that PNMs come to for advice. I certainly want them to read real depictions of the recruitment experience, not fake ones written by batshit crazy people.

That's like going to a college admissions message board where people are MAKING UP their college apps, stats, accpetances. It's not helpful to anyone.

Also, ok people are posting fake stories. What's stopping people from making up complete fake identities prestending to be sorority members? It has happened before and it's not fun. Especially when they're prestending to have joined your sorority.

I mean, if you want to make up fake stories, go to creative writing board and have at it, GC is not the place for it.

PS. I love being right.

EXACTLY! Making up fake stories and insisting they're real is actually pretty creepy. And we've had other incidents when these crazies have taken it further, coming back to GC time and time again with multiple names and taking it into real life situations.

PJS 05-04-2009 11:25 PM

Kudos to LadyLonghorn and KSUViolet06 who had this gal's number by post #20 and #24 respectively. 33girl and OTW were close behind. I am going to listen to your Bs*** detectors sooner from now on.

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1806290)
PS. I love being right.

Enjoy it!:D


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