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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)

I also wanted to add.... I think I would attend something that was all fraternity, but not something both frat and sorority....men act shady to each other when women are present. This is why I would support a Brother to Brother Fraternity Luncheon.

I think that would be an excellent event.

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)

I think I know who it is based on the writing style.

I also wanted to add.... I think I would attend something that was all fraternity, but not something both frat and sorority....men act shady to each other when women are present. This is why I would support a Brother to Brother Fraternity Luncheon.

This is the same for women as well, IMO.

(I also tend to prefer smaller gatherings to larger, regardless of who's attending. You get to know everyone better, and at least then if random people are taking pictures of you to post on Facebook later you know they're doing it ... :rolleyes: )

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654749)

If you read my previous posts, I did say this was just ONE example, just to give you an idea of what I was dealing with, which was more than just annoying people.

I was thinking that...I was like she said the is ONE OF not THE example...jeeesh.....but, grad I feel where you are coming from.

But you know what, you may surprise yourself whenever you do see her....as badly as you want to whoop her a$$...how much would it really change??? Probably nothing. Every battle is not worth fighting and based on how you handled the situation when it happened...you did the right thing. Why should you go to jail for her foolishness...girl please. I almost found myself in a situation kind of like that this past weekend because I completely snapped on my crazy roommate...I was waiting for her a$$ to even attempt to hit me because I was about to beat that trick down...luckily for her she didn't...but that girl is crazy and I just don't think she has the brain power to realize how stupid she is..lol. But no need of me getting in a whole lot of trouble for this nut because not only do I represent God and Velocity_14 everyday...as you stated...I am a walking billboard for my sorority and I take all of that very seriously so..forget that trick and all of those other nutcases and continue serving your community, your organization, and your chapter. Do what what you can do and try to see the bigger picture...

Well...thats all I got.....lol. Good luck girl!

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Originally Posted by DSTRen13 (Post 1654786)

You get to know everyone better, and at least then if random people are taking pictures of you to post on Facebook later you know they're doing it ... :rolleyes: )

People do that?

Wow.

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1654754)

I'm glad I didn't have to be the first naysayer.

There's a first time for everything!

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1654754)

A 2 year member who really thinks that not attending NPHC events amounts to a hill of beans if you're not the designated NPHC rep for your chapter? Not buying it. I didn't read her rants about some love triangle but I saw someone mention fighting over a man. Yeah, right...blah.

Exactly! Hence the reason why I didn't want my "real" name associated with this post!

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Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4 (Post 1654764)

:D Can we play "Guess What Org You Belong To?" I'm bored at work.:o:p

I would have posted this one too if I was not the OP!

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654803)

There's a first time for everything!

Says the sockpuppet!! :)

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654803)

Exactly! Hence the reason why I didn't want my "real" name associated with this post!

You have been a member for 2 years but needed a thread to tell you where your priorities lie? mmmmmkay.

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)

I think I know who it is based on the writing style.

I was thinking the same thing...that's the nice thing about being a teacher and playing "whose paper is this!"
LOL!!!!

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)

I think I know who it is based on the writing style.

You're not the first to say that! But I know y'all are just saying that LOL

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1654769)

SI, you just want all those men to yourself! LOL LOL LOL

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1654811)

You have been a member for 2 years but needed a thread to tell you where your priorities lie? mmmmmkay.

Actually, I was just curious to know what everyone thought. I will do or not do what people suggest. I may or may not take it into consideration. That's my choice.

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654819)

SI, you just want all those men to yourself! LOL LOL LOL

Just Da Bruhz™!

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Originally Posted by grad (Post 1654820)

Actually, I was just curious to know what everyone thought. I will do or not do what people suggest. I may or may not take it into consideration. That's my choice.

uh...you could've started a general thread about NPHC participation and spared us the sockpuppet.

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Originally Posted by Educatingblue (Post 1654815)

I was thinking the same thing...that's the nice thing about being a teacher and playing "whose paper is this!"
LOL!!!!

I'm rusty.

One of y'all PM me some hints.:o

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Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4 (Post 1654829)

I'm rusty. One of y'all PM me some hints.:o

PM me the hints too!

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1654823)

uh...you could've started a general thread about NPHC participation and spared us the sockpuppet.

True . . . but I didn't just in case I needed to get into specifics which btw I did end up doing.