It's great that you realized the difference between "you're" and "your" in this post. You rock.

First some effective communications lessons: DO NOT "SHOULD" ON ME--it causes you to sound/be read as aggressive...

Secondly, since some organizations already have surpassed their centennials and others are preparing to celebrate theirs, what convincing does ANYONE have to do to obtain members given our respective histories over a century...

Maybe schooling as to how to become a member as allowed by the International Headquarters as agreed may be needed and everyone in the D9 is interested in that possibility--i.e. "Meet the Greeks". But you have to understand that our lawyers restrict how we want to display our information.

Just as much as one can become a member of these kinds of organization, it is easier for expulsion these days. And folks just cannot afford higher dues and/or risk their gemstones for stupidity.

I have the contact information of a wonderful Kappa man who would love to tell you everything you might want to know!!!

Good luck on your endeavors.

I guess this is what you meant by keeping things 'civilized'. :rolleyes:

If that "pushed" you then you don't have enough patience to do a lot in life, not to mention pursue a fraternity.

Help me understand: You LET something said to you by an avowed young lady triggering to push you to violent verbal abuse and attacks? Is that a manly response?

To whom the gods wish to destroy... They must first make them angry...

LMAO.....Oh...I am going to cry because I am looking for advice over the internet. Boo hoo.

Right Soror....right.


Takes a bow to Chaos.:)

Some people are......extra.

Maybe he needs an eval. IDK?:confused:

If he wanted to be extra for the sake of entertainment, that's his business. Happens everyday.

But to claim that he actually felt moved any particular way is simple.

:(:rolleyes:

Damn. A joker leaves town for the holiday weekend and comes back to this mess.

You do not know me either, yet you made comments about me as if you did. It dosen't bother me that you responded the way you did; as to me you are only a screen name. I actually laughed that you would take it there and say 'pushed'.

THe comments I made were about how interest (not just you) ask about intake on GC A WHOLE LOT. I guess most think the internet is anonymous, but it is not.

Que Sera, Sera

How come you feel you are being judged?

Isn't the general NPHC expectation for anyone interested to do their research of his/her desired organization...

The feeling of being judged is usually a manifestation that you need to be more compassionate...

I just find it funny how folks claiming to be in highschool come here, asking for advice, and then try to jump bad at folks who not only have the letters they covet but also the degrees they are trying to earn.

Look here youngin--if indeed you are a youth, I am not quite sold on that fact--you don't need to respond to everything that people post. Sometimes it is good to sit back, observe, and absorb. Lots of times, folks are telling you exactly what you need to know, even if it is not exactly what you want to hear; and sometimes you miss it because you think that you need to respond tit for tat--to what, prove your e-manhood.

Had you taken the suggested course of action, you would have discovered that the question that you asked had already been asked and answered on this board many times over. Moreover, you might not have alienated the folks on this board who might have been willing to help you--had your approach been different.

I am not even going to address the insults and attempted checkings that you have doled out. The fact of the matter is that we are in a position that you want to be in. We have attained membership in our desired organizations; more than that, most of us have graduated from college, and many have advanced degrees. We have information that you desire; so you need to act accordingly when requesting that information(i. e. reading the T.O.S. at the top of every board, following those rules, and using discretion and humility in broaching the subject of your membership pursuit.) Otherwise, don't feign indignation when you get clowned.

And still you continue....
 

Do you think that this is the last time that you might feel judged during your pursuit? Really?

I am glad you met your "distant uncle." How convenient it is that he is polemarch of the chapter's province; guess that means you are a shoe-in.

Yeah, ok, good. Hope the road to Kappa is a smooth as you seem to think it should be.

No, I really don't.