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christiangirl 06-08-2008 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Munchkin03 (Post 1664860)
You know, you could always just...be quiet. The biggest fight I had with one of my college girlfriends was about that very same thing. We only lived together for a semester, but I had to tell her a few times to quiet it the fuck down. She cried! But, I'm sure she knew I was right.

Hahaha, the same thing happened to me EVERY YEAR I was in college. One girl just moved her bed so that it wasn't against the wall she shared with me and that helped (Gretchen, read that as a hint;)). But the last year, I had a huge fight with someone I'd lived with for two years. Her bedroom was two rooms away and I could hear her screaming and cussing like she was being beaten (and liking it :rolleyes:). I had somewhere to be at 8am and even though I told her to quiet down at like 4, they still kept going, louder and louder, till 6.:eek: That ended 4 years of friendship a week before graduation. The roomie might be bothered, but I'm sure if you keep the banshee imitations to a minimum, he'll be fine. :p

PrettyBoy 06-09-2008 12:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Gretchen W (Post 1664564)
Thanks you guys. I read all of your comments and they were great! I've already moved in with my bf. We've been living together for 2 weeks now. I hope everything goes like we want it to. His roommate seems to be o.k. with it. The only thing I worry about is his roommate's room is right next to ours. I just hope the sound of us having sex isn't bothering him.

You knew you were going to move in with the joker before you even started this thread.:rolleyes:

Munchkin03 06-09-2008 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1665137)
You knew you were going to move in with the joker before you even started this thread.:rolleyes:

Yep. I'm also going to be an asshole here and give it two years tops, without a trip to the altar. Yeah, I went there.

Also, how hard is it not to have loud sex? It's not a requirement.

MysticCat 06-09-2008 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1665137)
You knew you were going to move in with the joker before you even started this thread.:rolleyes:

Huh? She started the thread almost 3 months ago; they moved in together two weeks ago.

DSTCHAOS 06-09-2008 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Munchkin03 (Post 1665252)
Yep. I'm also going to be an asshole here and give it two years tops, without a trip to the altar. Yeah, I went there.

Yep and if it does work and result in marriage, this couple will be an exception to the "cohabitation rule."

DSTCHAOS 06-09-2008 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1665283)
Huh? She started the thread almost 3 months ago; they moved in together two weeks ago.

She sought advice but it probably didn't matter what was said in this thread. I'm not saying the advice in this thread should matter but I also am not an advice seeker when it comes to key life decisions, especially with strangers on the 'net.

Anywhoooo, she was probably going to do it anyway.

MysticCat 06-09-2008 02:07 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1665298)
She sought advice but it probably didn't matter what was said in this thread.

Maybe so -- that's different, though, from stating (assuming, really) that she knew she was going to move in with the bf before she started the thread.

Munchkin03 06-09-2008 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1665303)
Maybe so -- that's different, though, from stating (assuming, really) that she knew she was going to move in with the bf before she started the thread.

Pretty much. I've never seen anyone able to talk anyone, especially a young woman, out of cohabiting. If she was "considering" it, she was halfway there.

DSTCHAOS 06-09-2008 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1665303)
Maybe so -- that's different, though, from stating (assuming, really) that she knew she was going to move in with the bf before she started the thread.

Semantics. PB and I are saying the same thing.

KSUViolet06 06-09-2008 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Munchkin03 (Post 1665252)
Yep. I'm also going to be an asshole here and give it two years tops, without a trip to the altar. Yeah, I went there.

Also, how hard is it not to have loud sex? It's not a requirement.


Oh snap.

It's true though. I also question the maturity of anyone who is unable to "keep it down" for the sake of their roommate.

PrettyBoy 06-09-2008 07:00 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1665283)
Huh? She started the thread almost 3 months ago; they moved in together two weeks ago.

Exactly. She knew she was moving in with this joker long before two weeks ago. As far as I'm concerned, she was probably practically living with the joker when she started this thread.

Now, she's living with two jokers. Young folx.....:rolleyes:

MysticCat 06-09-2008 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1665477)
Exactly. She knew she was moving in with this joker long before two weeks ago. As far as I'm concerned, she was probably practically living with the joker when she started this thread.

I see what you're saying, and you may be right. Based on what's actually in the thread, though, you just as easily may be wrong. That was my only point -- there's not enough evidence in the thread to support your assumption.

(Must. Stop. Thinking. Like. A. Lawyer. All. The. Time)

cheerfulgreek 06-09-2008 09:40 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1665137)
You knew you were going to move in with the joker before you even started this thread.:rolleyes:

You're such a meanie.:p

cheerfulgreek 06-09-2008 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Munchkin03 (Post 1665252)
Also, how hard is it not to have loud sex?

You must not be having good sex.:)

cheerfulgreek 06-09-2008 09:43 PM

Good luck Gretchen!


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