See...exactly...the kids (as I have gotten older) iI kind of bend to because most women my age range have grown kids but 20 years ago it was a deal breaker.

As a woman, I don't even like fake stuff. I don't like fake nails, colored contacts (on men or women), weaves, fake eyelashes, (what I consider to be) excessive makeup, or fake body parts.

So I can understand why a man would find those things unattractive and would not want to date a woman with that stuff. I think people who need to doctor themselves up like that are fake on the outside and sometimes on the inside, too.

I don't wear anklets and don't see women wearing them often.

However, when I wear stilettos, I wear certain types of stilettos with certain types of outfits and to certain types of events. I think that PB just hasn't seen stylishly sophisticated women who don't confuse stilettos with hooker gear. :D Product of his environment? Perhaps.

I forgot to mention tatoos and body piercings. Ears only. Anywhere else is a deal breaker.

LOL. I would have to agree with you on this one.:p

I just really prefer the conservative librarian look.

PB...it doesn't matter...your standards will change and you don't have any say so over the kids until she says you do.


I tell you what....a bad sign for me is if she introduces or lets me be aroun dher children very early on.

If our first date involves me being with her and her child....it's kind of a turn off for many reasons.

My mom didnt do that with me.

I find it funnny that I have naturally shoulder length hair and that some of the women that I have met had to go out and buy it......LOL

As it was said, women got fake hair fake eyes fake breasts but screaming that thye want a real man....

heh.

I try to avoid the kids if I can, which is the reason why I frequently rob the cradle. I look way younger than my real age, so I use it to my advantage.;) Kids are definitely not a deal breaker though.

Question. Why is it a turn off if she introduces you to her Bay Bay's kids:D early on?

Posts like this make you seem boring as hell. LOL.

I love to wear flats but flats don't go with every outfit and with every event. ;) Plus, the flyest librarians wear stilettos with pencil skirts.

who?

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> DSTCHAOS






PB<<<<<<<<<<<



DST I don't think you are hoe-ish enough for him





maybe he likes them like this:



http://www.buddytv.com/articles/i-lo...-york-news.jpg

Uh...you might not have had "naturally" shoulder length hair if you didn't have dreds. I know a lot of women who couldn't grow their hair and wore weaves and wigs UNTIL they grew dreds.

It's also funny when men don't know when women are fake from head to toe. :cool: A woman can't be shockingly beautiful when you've never seen her in her raw beauty.