Welp.....

Your "mama" needs to learn some manners.

I don't want to speak for LG, but from my perspective, that seems like "Mission Accomplished".

My friend lost a sister years ago and decided to conduct business as usual because not doing so would've meant his life was shutting down. That would've made him more depressed. He wasn't at a party, though.

I personally wouldn't be strolling at a party OR creating threads about it. But of course you mourn however you choose.

Her manners are fine. It's the convenience of your story that is interesting.

I hadn't even said much YET.

I really hope you don't think you're going to successfully put a lid on LG, Chaos and I. When have any of the three of us let someone tell us when to not post our opinions?

I wasn't being sarcastic when I typed "but of course you mourn however you choose."

While this is the Krappa forum and a thread about a supposed loss, if you truly want folks to "stay in their lane" you don't create thread announcements.

And I think there's a reason this thread is so short.

Ok, well, I am just going to have to continue to believe you were genuine in your OP, because I just can't fathom otherwise. Those of us who have lost babies know there's nothing harder to get over and my heart truly ached for you (and particularly the mom) when I read your post. So I'm just going to try to stay away from any of these threads because I really don't think I could handle finding out that this may in any way be a ploy for attention or something. That would be the most unforgivable thing I can think of. So I'll keep my delusion, if that's what it is, and continue to think good thoughts for the mom, especially, if there is one out there who is dealing with that deepest of pain and loss.

Thank you, Nittany. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

btw, I finally spoke with the mother in depth last Friday for the first time in over a month. Due to the high level of scrutiny in this thread, if you would like details, you may PM me.

And again, thank you so very much for your words of support.

Do you have access to folx' PMs?

Umm...no, was I reading your mind?

Why? Does "she" know you are putting details about her personal life out on the Net?