Originally Posted by AppStFan80 (Post 1514531)

Did the new Phi Mu chapter take alot of girls, does anyone know?

Originally Posted by AppStFan80 (Post 1514531)

Did the new Phi Mu chapter take alot of girls, does anyone know?

Originally Posted by AppStFan80 (Post 1514562)

Thanks for the info. Wouldn't it have been easier to recruit with everyone else, or do they not have any girls yet? Unless alot of bids didn't match, how can they expect to recruit when all of the other girls have gone with the established chapters?

Originally Posted by AppStFan80 (Post 1514562)

Thanks for the info. Wouldn't it have been easier to recruit with everyone else, or do they not have any girls yet? Unless alot of bids didn't match, how can they expect to recruit when all of the other girls have gone with the established chapters?

Originally Posted by thislullaby (Post 1514572)

Bid night was tonight.. I'll keep y'all waiting for just a little longer :)

Pref night was extremely horrible for me. Because of the circumstances, I will not be able to say how each house went. I will say, however, that at one of the houses the girl who walked me in told me various things that included that she hated her sorority, that all the girls were fake and superficial, and that I not only shouldn't write this sorority down on my ranking card, but that I wouldn't fit in. She went on this rant for about 20 minutes. Needless to say I was SHOCKED and was almost on the verge of tears! I learned tonight that the same thing happened to a girl I had met at rush-- she ran out of the house crying and decided to drop out of rush. I assume it was the same girl I had as it was at the same house. I almost felt like doing the same thing. After that house, I really didn't know if Greek life was for me. I will say the other 2 houses went great, but I decided one of the houses just wasn't for me so I suicided them. I would have not been able to make a decision if it hadn't been for my Rho Chi who extended a supportive hand and told me repeated the girl was "psycho" and that wasn't what pref night was about. I promise though that this story has a happy ending!

Originally Posted by thislullaby (Post 1514572)

Bid night was tonight.. I'll keep y'all waiting for just a little longer :)

Pref night was extremely horrible for me. Because of the circumstances, I will not be able to say how each house went. I will say, however, that at one of the houses the girl who walked me in told me various things that included that she hated her sorority, that all the girls were fake and superficial, and that I not only shouldn't write this sorority down on my ranking card, but that I wouldn't fit in. She went on this rant for about 20 minutes.

Originally Posted by thislullaby (Post 1514572)

Bid night was tonight.. I'll keep y'all waiting for just a little longer :)

Pref night was extremely horrible for me. Because of the circumstances, I will not be able to say how each house went. I will say, however, that at one of the houses the girl who walked me in told me various things that included that she hated her sorority, that all the girls were fake and superficial, and that I not only shouldn't write this sorority down on my ranking card, but that I wouldn't fit in. She went on this rant for about 20 minutes. Needless to say I was SHOCKED and was almost on the verge of tears! I learned tonight that the same thing happened to a girl I had met at rush-- she ran out of the house crying and decided to drop out of rush. I assume it was the same girl I had as it was at the same house. I almost felt like doing the same thing. After that house, I really didn't know if Greek life was for me. I will say the other 2 houses went great, but I decided one of the houses just wasn't for me so I suicided them. I would have not been able to make a decision if it hadn't been for my Rho Chi who extended a supportive hand and told me repeated the girl was "psycho" and that wasn't what pref night was about. I promise though that this story has a happy ending!